Wandering eye

United States
July 11, 2011 5:41pm CST
I am married to a man who is 15 years older than me. We celebrated our 10 year anniversary this year. We have been together 12 years. But the last 4 years of our relationship has been trying at best. I really don't think I am in love with him. My eye has been wandering and feeling have come up for old friends. I don't know if I should push through or move on. We do have 4 children together. any suggestions.
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@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
12 Jul 11
Try something new with your relationship. Maybe you're just bored with the same happenings everyday of your togetherness. If you're planning to look for someone else, weigh things up. Think of your children and the impact of your decisions to them. And maybe, try to talk to your husband about getting a vacation. Maybe you need some time to enjoy together.
• United States
14 Jul 11
Thank you everyone for your comments and suggestions. They really help and mean a lot. We will have to talk and see how we both feel. Thank you again.
@marguicha (215441)
• Chile
12 Jul 11
Relations between spouses change and it does not only depend on age. Why don´t you talk to him, or go to a counsellor? Expectatins change along the years and the need to provide for the family takes it´s toll in glamour.