did i do the right thing?
By weasel81
@weasel81 (2496)
Australia
July 16, 2011 8:34pm CST
not sure how to write this, but here goes.
I'm moving one way in my life, and not far of getting with a bloke. One of my friend with benifits lives a few hrs from me, we're good mates as well. Then a female friend has moved home, which is not far from where he lives. She is preg and sorta looking for a friend with benifits. I've ended up suggesting, they hook up and see how it goes between them. as neither is looking for a relationship.
But i'm getting the feeling i'm going to be missing out big time.
Have i done the right thing in suggesting them to each other?
4 responses
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
Whoa!!!!! I am really surprise with the idea. I acknowledge the differences of people so I understand why you had that idea. Your friend is preggy but looking for someone that can be benefited? Doesn't she have someone with?
I think if there will be someone you've crossed because of this decision like your female friend's bf or husband... (since she is preggy) or yourself...because you are sharing the same guy?? Isn't okay for you...?
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
17 Jul 11
the story over my friend and her being preg. she's basically been dumped by the father, he's gone off with someone he met online (when he was still with her) and she's from another country.
it's ok with me in the fact i dont get to see him that much. time, money and distance contribute. so i thought i'd suggest it to them.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
23 Jul 11
I'm a bit confused as to what you mean by "not far of getting with a bloke". Is that a different bloke to the guy you are setting your preg friend up with?
I don't really understand what or who you are missing out on big time. Sorry, it's just not clear to me mate.
@celticeagle (159227)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Jul 11
What more you could do? Get mad and tell him he can't? I am so sure. A freind with benefits is just that. You have no rights, no say in the situaiton. And she is pregnant? You may be missing out big time. But, maybe this will give you the insentive to find someone else. Might be a good thing.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
20 Jul 11
I think the only time you could say you'll be missing out big time is if they make a relationship out of it. If she's pregnant, and a little bit emotional, then there's a big chance that she might want something more. And if your bloke entertains the feeling, then your 'friendship' might end.
