There is a child hidden inside every adult......do you agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Children are innocent and naughty - Life is full of fun with children
@apsara60 (6610)
Israel
July 20, 2011 8:44am CST
I see from time to time, elder people and even more old people suddenly act very childish and then laugh. Even. I do things which surprise my children. So I definitely believe that there is always a child hiding inside us.......what about you all........
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• Philippines
22 Jul 11
Definitely. No wonder I enjoy cartoons and other children movies. They even made me cry sometimes - like that of Cars which I just recently watched. One thing to ponder though, being childish is different from being childlike. The former is the better one.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
24 Jul 11
Yes you are right, but I will say that when you are childlike, you are enjoying alone, but when you are childish you enjoy with your loved ones and also make them happy, so I think childish is better than childlike...whatever....everything is just fine.....Thanks for your reply.
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
I guess it's the other way around, childish and childlike.
• United States
20 Jul 11
Yes, I think we all have an inner child. For me, I had to grow up when I was younger so when I got older I do the things I should have done back then. I don't feel one ways guilty either. I don't do things that are immature, but I do behave like a child on some things. I think it's perfectly natural. It helps keep you young inside in my opinion.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Yes that is what I feel too.This kind of behavior is very natural and depends on the level of our happiness. We mostly become childish when we are happy, so it is good sign and nothing to worry about.
• United States
24 Jul 11
I'm glad to know this and that someone agrees. I am loving being able to have the best of both worlds though. I get the benefits of being an adult and understanding the importance of not sweating the small stuff.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
24 Jul 11
This is true. Inside all of us is a child, an adult and a parent. We are the adult - the parent ids the one that continually tells us how to behave, the child is the one who is naughty, cheeky and who makes us laugh. It's a very interesting concept that psychologist actually use.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
25 Jul 11
Thanks for your reply. btw your name and your cute avatar both represent child inside you.... Have a nice day.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
21 Jul 11
yup, definitely! even if you are older its good to act childish once in awhile because that is what keeps you young.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
24 Jul 11
Right friend.......we all agree with this.......happiness makes you look young and this happiness we get from this little child hiding inside us..Thanks for your reply.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
21 Jul 11
Hi apsara, I agree completely, there is a child in all of us, no matter what age we are. Of course many elderly people get Dementia and seem to return to their childhood, hence the old saying "once a man, twice a child". Blessings.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
24 Jul 11
Yes you are right Pose123, no matter how much one may hide it but sometimes or other this hidden child does appear and that is the time when you are really happy.Thanks for your reply.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
I absolutely agree with you, friend. Because that is the how old people to make them younger as they getting old and old. If you always being a mature I'm sure your fast getting older than what your age...
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
24 Jul 11
hello aerous, yes you are right, the more serious and matured person is the more older he looks than his age and the more open minded and jolly the person is the more younger he looks than his age.....it all depends on us. Thanks for your reply.
@SViswan (12051)
• India
21 Jul 11
It's true...but most people are adept at keeping the child hidden and not even let it slip. But you are right that everyone has a child inside of them.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Hello Sandhiya, It is actually very sad if some people suppress their feelings and do not show their natural behavior just because they care more about what third person will think about him/her. In this society we really think more about our neighbors and less about ourselves. I think this is the reason why some people sing on in bathroom. I wish we had full freedom to set free this hidden child so that we could breath freely and live happily.Thanks for your reply.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
21 Jul 11
Hi aps! You are very right there is a child in each of us and we get tempted to perform some child like act, irrespective of our age. Specially, when we are surrounded by children or we are among them, the child in us surfaces and we do some acts which could make them laugh and smile. We may later feel surprised at our attitude or behavior but we forget everything when the child in us takes the front seat. I think there is nothing wrong in it, each one of us should find the ways to make one happy and acting like a child is one of them.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Hi Deepak, Yes you are right, this hidden child is very strong and sometimes we just cannot control our feelings and have to give up and the child takes over, No wonder Nasarudin Shah sings "DIL TOH BAACHA HAI Jii".Thanks for your reply.
@derek_a (10874)
21 Jul 11
Yes, I would fully agree with that. I can't say that I feel different now to what I did decades ago and many people that are much older than me say the same thing. I used to run self-development groups before I went into semi-retirement and we used to do excercises to help bring out that child within, often playing games that would otherwised feel silly. This helped group members get in touch with the child within and lose a lot of inhibitions and feel more comfortable, learning to give up trying to be what we all at times, think that other people expect us to be. It is OK to become a child now and again. I would say that our inner spirit is ageless anyway. _Derek
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Excellent thinking derek and so true that "inner spirit is ageless". I am really impressed. Also that reminds me about this new curing therapy called laughing therapy...what is it exactly....forcing yourself to laugh artificially and then within seconds, this artificial laughing turns into natural laughing and then you feel so happy and so light.........isn't that what we use to do when we were children........so you are right, there is no harm in become children again. Thanks for your wonderful reply.
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
I agree. I myself thinks in childish ways at times. And I still squeal in delight over simple things like food, gifts, toy, cute things. I still watch and find enjoyment in cartoons. I like building sand castles,and still stand fascinated over a rainbow. I think the key to being happy at any age is being childlike in your joy.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
You are right, the key of happiness is this little mischievous child hiding inside you and who keeps tickling you from time to time so that you can be happy...
@mindym (978)
• United States
21 Jul 11
I definitely agree with that! Well, I guess I should speak for myself, but it sounds like many people also agree with that statement! I LOVE taking time away from my busy life to do some 'childish' things, like watch cartoons or play CandyLand or Chutes and Ladders, or something like that. I also LOVE that when interacting with children, such as my nieces or kids at school, I can act like a total dork and they LOVE it. Being a child was so much fun, and it's nice if you can sometimes leave your adult self to do child things and temporarily forget about the stresses we adults live with.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
24 Jul 11
Ha ha ha....sounds so similar to my behavior.....I love when children are happy and to make them happy I like to make fool of myself. I don't mind what wise people have to say about it.......I think you and me are doing what God would love. We makes others happy and at the same time we also share some moments of joy. Thanks for your nice and honest reply.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Definitely, we did it sometimes if we are with our children and most especially grandchildren.It is our way to make them laugh, play with them and sometimes doing comical actuation for them to enjoy our company.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Right Stanley, if you want to win hearts of your children and grand children, then you have to become a child first.............when we become child, we become friends of our children/grandchildren and surely that is the best friendship.
@lacieice (2060)
• United States
21 Jul 11
I used to have a button that read "My inner child is a juvenile delinquent". We are only as old as we feel.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
24 Jul 11
Right.....I agree with you....it all depends on our thinking and our feeling.....thanks for your reply.
21 Jul 11
Definitely. Even if there's a time span in the early teen where kid's stuff is stupid, when you grow up, the kid in you comes out again, for some unknown reason. I guess it just bottles up sometimes and you let it out.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Yes you are right, the hidden child is always jumping to come out, and when ever it gets opportunity, it just show up......Thanks for your reply.
@livvy092002 (1032)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Yeah i believe so too.. It's okay if an adult is childlike in ways but if he/she is childish or immature, that's another story. Lolz. As for me, i still love to play games with my kid nephews and nieces, i love to laugh and joke with them. We really enjoy playing computer games and watch cartoons on television and n movies. I hope I am just childlike in ways and not childish. Childish adults are pain in the butt most of the times. :-)
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
ha ha ha.......yes you are right Childish adults can really annoy you sometimes.......but still it is fun..Thanks for your response.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 Jul 11
I think so too. I miss the days when I was younger and enjoyed being a child. I still buy some of the things I used to play with. I get them but do not use them for some reason though. It sucks getting older and maturing.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Yeah I know, but you remember how eager we were to grow up.....and now we miss our childhood........life is strange.....anyway you can still do things that you did as a child, nobody will stop you.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
We can never really get over some childishness within us. Of course as we mature even our attitude matures but that does not mean we can't be like a child in some ways. It is fun to act like a child once in a while so I do act like a child whenever I feel like doing so.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
You are 100% right friend.......my opinion is exactly like yours.It is fun, it is gesture of happiness which cheers up the atmosphere around us.
• Estonia
20 Jul 11
I agree with your statement. There sure is a child hidden in every adult. It's just some people tend to expose this little kid more than others. I've seen grownups who go with their children to the zoo and they watch all those animals and they are fascinated just like their children who have came with them to the zoo. I am not a child too anymore, but I still like playing video games. I've heard a good phrase for that: "Men do not quit playing because they grow old, they grow old because they quit playing". Golden words for me.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
wow.....now that is something very true, thanks for that. I wish more and more people will think about this statement " "Men do not quit playing because they grow old, they grow old because they quit playing". Thanks for wonderful reply.
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Yep, there is definitely a child hidden in me. Well, actually it's almost always showing. I don't mind showing it as long as I'm showing it to those who are also behaving like me.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
There is nothing to hide in this case. You are not doing anything embarrassing, but instead you are being happy and making others happy too....so don't hesitate , just behave normal.We all are alike. We all are childish.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
20 Jul 11
When a old or any age person will a his/her childhood friend or anything that is most likely to him/her then their behavior changed as innocent child face... Then their smile will be true.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
21 Jul 11
Yes I agree with you. Thanks for your reply.