Love and marriedage

you've said "we havenot job yet", so how did you take care of her when she have sick,... without money.Think about it before make a right decision

Living together and starting a family means you need a stable job. Are you still a student? or just starting to have a career? if this is the case even when love is not a problem, think of your future. Who would support you? your parents? think about it. Getting married can wait. Save money and earn money for the both of you. Don't even think of living together without the sanctity of marriage. From what you are stating here it shows that you are still so young and naive. You are not even sure of what you really want in life and there is no stability in you yet.So please, work first before thinking of these things.

As me, you shouldn't live with your girlfriend before you have an enable job which can help you have enough money to feed yourself. Without money, you can have a happy life. If you don't have a job to feed yourself, what make you think that you can care your girlfriend well?

In my opinion, I don't see any problem if you guys live with each other, but you guys are not married. Actually, I think this is even better, because you can see if you truly wants to marry her. I mean, the relationship changes a lot with the cohabitation. So, if you guys can live together that will mean that you and your girlfriend will be ready to get married.