What hurts your feelings the most???

Hi Penny4urThoughts.. I agree.. I have experienced this too, and in all honesty It just made it harder to talk to them..so I wouldnt bother 'talking' anymore.. Its sad.. but I think that its not so much about hurting us directly and intentionally- they themselves are hurt/angry because those things we shared are to blame for what they dont understand.. if that makes sense.. (",)

When someone talks bad about my parents i don't care if he says something bad about my parents i just rage and beat him i don't if i break every bone in his body he just shouldn't insult my parents.

The most hurt for me is when we have an arguments and he bring back the accusation that i told him which he really did. Then at the end of our conversation i am the one guilty in short i got twisted. I dont want to have an arguments with him and this really cause me pain almost hate to continue working at all day. Bad for me, i am really affected and all of my good decision got fall into nothing. And another thing is when he ignore me if we are on quarrel hmmmm feel like i want to swallowed him whole. Pain and anger mix emotion.

What hurts my feelings the most is when I'm being totally honest to someone and and he will lie to me. It just hurts so much when you keep trying to make the relationship work and the other party does the opposite. As you ask that question which I also ask myself all the it makes me want to say that their hurting others must a be a disease of some kind because you really can't understand why they have to do that.

My worse fear is my son being taken away from me. Always was a fear of mine. My ex husband said he would ruin my family and take my son then make him hate me. Well he has done almost all of that except make my son hate me. I raised him fully by myself until he was seven and then he just decides to take him due to me not wanting to go back to him. That was and is my worse fear. Now it's can I get him back. It hurts my feeling when you have people around you who were jelous of how you lived and how good of a mother I am even to their children. When comments are made by people like you deserve it...it hurts. They come back and say they were out of line and the KNOW it was my ex. I should have never married him and that was my mistake, but my son was not.

I get hurt when people misunderstand me or accuse me of something I am not. Sometimes people get angry and they say hurtful things.. Then after five minutes say sorry and tell you they just said that out of anger... but I think it wasnt really anger at all. What people say when they are angry are accusations they have intheir minds which they cannot tell you... and those eventually come out when they get mad of you.. That hurts, to hear bad things being said by people you love. I also get hurt when I am misunderstood and taken for granted.

I know your exact feeling. When my boyfriend and I have our deep conversations about the past he listens. Then when we argue he will do the same and start to bring stuff up! Like when I told him my ex always called me fat. He said I am perfect because he does not like his women really skinny then when we argue he called me fat but just once to really hit me below the belt! He apologized and told me he really was angry and I was saying some hateful things and he could not think of anything else to say so he said that but it is not how he really feels! It sucks when people you trust does this!

Yes that is absolutely the thing that annoys and hurts me too. I am quite an open person so I will share those things, and its horrible to have them used against you or thrown back in your face. its easy for people to say that they'll leave things in the past, but saying and doing are two completely different things!

For me the one who not good to me even if you gave more good to them and they back fighter so sad to that case anyway.

What hurts me the most is when the one you love lies to your face and I know the fact that they're lying. That is a big slap in the face for me. I don't have trust issues, maybe that's why I put my trust on the wrong people.

When i am back stabbed, i get so hurt a lot. This hurt will eventually turn into anger to the culprit, that i would think of getting even silently. But, doing it would be wrong. So, sometimes i would confront the person about it, but would do it discreetly. Other times i would just let it pass if it isn't that much hurtful. Mostly, i leave it to God to avenge for me.

A broken heart is definitely hard to fix.I feel really sad if my family blame me for i'm not doing anything wrong.Also i can't stand my best friend do something that hurt me,it's really sad..But we need actually communicate,we need trust.Have a nice day!

It hurts me when I'm being lied to.I know they are telling a lie to my face and it just crushes me.I have a hard time trusting people anyway.Your right once trust is broken its hard to get it back.

Every argument with my partner hurt my feelings. We argue not often maybe two or three times a years the most. Every time when we can not communicate properly it hurts my feelings. I wish you nice day and some happiness.

When any person makes fun of my feelings its hurt me most because I don’t want to make fun of my feelings. Because I never hurts anyone and his/her feelings. Because I know what is the pain you feel after this. And also this pain is very deeply when anyone give you with the making fun of your feelings. So I always avoid these types of peoples who are really bad.

I understand how you feel. Though I doubt the hurt is intentional. Quite often when a couple are fighting, one is hurt while the other isn't. Those people often don't know how to release that anger, so they ending up taking it out on the person nearest to them-- in many cases their partners-- in hopes of making themselves feel better, but it ends up making the situation worse. Most relationships can be like this because your partner knows things to hurt you, whereas a stranger may not. When my husband and I fight like that, it hurts me too. It also hurts me to see him stressed out. It's really not always that easy a lot of the time, but we're people we'll get through it. And, I have... and you can too. Just talk to your bf about how you're feeling when you're both calm. If you pick a time when one or the other are tense things will spiral out-of-control.

I agree with you peeny4urThoughts. It is really hard to regain trust after being hurt so much. It's very unfair on our part when we confide our fears and secrets to someone we thought who understands us and yet when things goes wrong everything will be ruined. I also don't get why they used to do it.

for me as a mother and living away from my son because i need to work for him is when i call at home and hear him cry.. because no matter what i want to comfort him i cant all i hear is him screaming and that really means to me a lot..