Odds in My Love Life
By Ram Bansal
@rambansal (574)
India
July 31, 2011 4:08pm CST
I have recently entered into a highly charged love relationship and we both are highly passionate about it. We have been online friends for a long time, and this is the new dimension to our relationship. We love in-spite of extremely difficult circumstances we are in -
1. We have never been face-to-face with each other, still have the highest level of mutual trust.
2. We live at two diametrically opposite ends of the globe, yet our love is intense beyond imaginations.
3. Under our present situations, we can not afford to travel to meet each other. So, there exists no possibility of our meeting in a foreseeable future, yet we love.
Friends, my first love during my adolescence met with a painful fate that we could never touch each other. Now, 45 years have passed when we began our adventure of loving, she got married to a different person as I got busy with my education. I am her family friend, and we often see each other with moist eyes, but we never touch or speak of our love. I feel, we still love each other.
People say history repeats, indicating that my present love will also meet the same fate. Even with this possibility, I intend to continue loving her at purely 'platonic' plane, to give this word a new lease of life through practicing it.
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3 responses
@la_chique (1498)
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31 Jul 11
I hope your present love will remain happy and passionate. I am sure it will be very successful and wish you all the very best. I am sure you will meet each other one day, and it will be very romantic.
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@rambansal (574)
• India
1 Aug 11
Thanks dear la for the good wishes and participation in the discussion to guide me through this difficult journey I have undertaken.
@JoyfulOne (6231)
• United States
1 Aug 11
First let me say I am SO happy for you two, despite the fact you live so far away from each other! You never know, fate might enable you to finally meet someday. If nothing else transpires, you have still found a connection that is one of lifes most rewarding gifts: the gift of love. I wish you two much happiness.
@rambansal (574)
• India
1 Aug 11
Thanks my dear Joy, for the good wishes and the psychological support your words provide me. I am on a difficult journey, I know, still I am on it, as it being a question of my existence. This love is the final game of my life.
Thanks, my dear, for the participation and your considered views on the matter.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Jul 11
hi rambansal who's to say that one day you two may be
able to see each other so keep on loving each other and hope
that one day you can meet and continue in your love as you
have built up a wonderful foundation of mutual trust. Do not
let your past interfere with your presence as they are two
vastly different things I am sure. Good luck and God bless.
One day you might meet.
@rambansal (574)
• India
1 Aug 11
Thanks dear, for your good wishes and guidance for which I rely on you wholehearedly. You have a highly realistic view of life and its endeavors. Your guidance though this difficult journey of mine is very important and I shall be seeking it whenever I need.



