Ram Bansal (@rambansal) on myLot

dipak06 @dipak06 (913) • India 28 Apr 13

I am thinking to join article writing websites and while searching through the internet i got a few...but confused with which site should i start. Since i am a newbie in this area,i don't know what site will be the best one for an...

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Ram Bansal Sorry, dear, to say that you misunderstood me. I don't write for money but for writing only. I don't expect much but respectable. An article site provided a few cents a month where I wrote about 100 articles. Another used to provide around $5 a month but the...

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dipak06 @dipak06 (913) • India 28 Apr 13

I am thinking to join article writing websites and while searching through the internet i got a few...but confused with which site should i start. Since i am a newbie in this area,i don't know what site will be the best one for an...

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Ram Bansal I have written articles on a number of article sites, and have contribute more than thousand articles. But in my experience, all are unfair to writers in their own ways. Firstly, their payout thresholds are high and they don't allow authors to reach them...

28 Apr 13

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Jane @jaiho2009 (39140) • Philippines 7 Apr 13

PLEASE! Before hitting that ! THIS IS NOT A POLL QUESTION/ NOT A PROMOTION EITHER. I knew one or two MyLotters who got married (in my 4 years of mylotting) But, haven't heard a MyLotter who attended a MYLOTTER's...

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Ram Bansal First I got thrilled by the good news, then shocked of losing you for ever by the news you flashed by the titled. But truly, I wish you really get married.. all the best to you..

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 18 Mar 13

And I replied, well, that is better than being deserted by husband like you've been. And so that is me...should I have kept quiet? lol It started with her coming to my place telling me that she intends to fight with my...

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Ram Bansal People have more intense interests in others' affairs rather than than in their own. I am separated from my wife without any legal battle or divorce, people go on advising me on going back to my wife without seeing their own relationships with their respective...

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 21 Jan 13

So my maid had four kids, one died ..of cancer. Left with two sons and one daughter, she was literally forced to bring up the daughter's daughter by the daughter ...simply because she couldnt afford adequate dowry. Ok..so...

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Ram Bansal If the children are not well educated and mannered, parents are to be blamed in the first place. But since parents too are problematic and too busy with problems of survival, they shouldn't be blamed as per our social norms. Still, they are responsible for...

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 19 Jan 13

Yeah..so we make all those senior lawyers as judges...and we assign them various places in the city and there is a telecast of proceedings. The judges argue amongst themselves about right and wrong, and fairness...in each...

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Ram Bansal Running into fantasies is a good idea. Every human action had been a fantasy some day in the beginning. I appreciate fertility and creativity of your mind..

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 18 Jan 13

I think I believe him. I mean which good girl would want to study and work? Good girls dont work, they remain good by becoming a burden on their family for dowries. There is no litmus test for good girls, right?...

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Ram Bansal Term 'good girl' is highly subjective. The Supreme court advocate may be affording to keep his girls locked in his home for safety from his clients and opponents. But practical life exposes all of us, including men, women and boys, to hazards of crimes which...

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 16 Jan 13

Just some doubt... Terrorists might have done that ...to get even...and tell their trainees, your death will be avenged ...if they kill one, we will kill two of theirs... And we are presuming it is Pak's armed forces... I...

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Ram Bansal Fighting a war and winning is not a matter of numbers but that of will. They have will to do anything they like which we lack terribly, particularly our leaders have no time for such fishy matters while each of them is busy in looting the nation to serve their...

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 13 Jan 13

There is an alarmingly high rate of rape reports after December 16, 2012. I wonder if these cases have surfaced with the hope that the government would do something about rape laws, or because rapists realize that whatever the...

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Ram Bansal Yes indeed, the rapists are now sure of relaxed laws of India on their favorite pastime. Corruption in police administration works for them well.

14 Jan 13

vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 13 Jan 13

There is an alarmingly high rate of rape reports after December 16, 2012. I wonder if these cases have surfaced with the hope that the government would do something about rape laws, or because rapists realize that whatever the...

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Ram Bansal Media has played their role well in highlighting the legal loopholes and it has not provided any advantage to the culprits or biased minds of the judges. Unless we realize what is wrong we can't remedy. This way, we have taken the first step of realization for...

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 11 Jan 13

Ok..we have laws... There is nobody to follow them. We have public toilets that some agency tries to keep clean and collects charges for keeping them clean. But the truck drivers, and homeless on the street are not going to use...

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Ram Bansal Until I was an urban citizen, my views were like those of official babus and social philosophers in a habit of saying ideologically without practical considerations on open defecation. After returning to the rural life about 12 years back, I have lived the...

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Jane @jaiho2009 (39140) • Philippines 9 Jan 13

I've been to a public market this morning with my teenage son and buy for our weekly consumption. On our way to the parking lot there's three young boys who ask for coins. My son handed them Japanese cakes that he bought for...

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Ram Bansal Begging has developed as a respected profession by the beggars at least and they do their business at their own terms, not of the donors. And many beggars are richer than middle income persons. In real terms, everyone expecting a donation to live on is a...

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Jane @jaiho2009 (39140) • Philippines 5 Jan 13

In this real world that we live in, "happy ending" does not always mean "and they lived happily ever after" Yes, not every happy relationship ended with getting MARRIED. AND....NOT ALL MARRIAGES- ENDS WITH A HAPPY...

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Ram Bansal A happy ending may even be getting rid of each other.. or the un-marriage.

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 4 Jan 13

Ok..here is this well meaning lady in my life. She truly means well for me. But she is given to age old ideas of family being family even if wrongs are done, and that wrongs need to be overlooked for the sake of "family". And...

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Ram Bansal I too face such problems from my friends and relatives who poke their nose in my family affairs. My response to them is always tough 'since you don't know anything about my family matters, it is not your concern to advise me on that'. Some understand and don't...

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vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 26 Dec 12

One of my neighbors has a child who is yet to turn one. Of late, my maid started working with them, and she has been bringing the baby over. For some strange reason, the child has taken fancy to me. So when he comes to me, he...

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Ram Bansal No, surely, I know they can't afford to remember about me. I too have forgotten the man in my mother's native village who used to take me around the village daily when I was 4. Life is like that. Somebody served us and made us debtors. We are just repaying...

31 Dec 12

vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 27 Dec 12

Well, you could be writing an exam and what would your responses be... Yahoo..you write on a topic..you dont get to see immediate reactions, you comment on a topic that somebody else has written. Chances that somebody cares two...

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Ram Bansal Well, I too appreciate MyLot for the payment they make for expressing our opinions and starting new discussions. This is profit sharing which facebook, yahoo, etc don't do. I have deactivated my account on facebook after wasting my time there for 3 years. I am...

28 Dec 12

vanny @vandana7 (102361) • India 26 Dec 12

One of my neighbors has a child who is yet to turn one. Of late, my maid started working with them, and she has been bringing the baby over. For some strange reason, the child has taken fancy to me. So when he comes to me, he...

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Ram Bansal Ohhh yes, I often confront such situations while I move around my village in the evenings. Children recognize true joy of affiliation instinctively for their unbiased minds. Even a 4 year hyperactive girl is so much attached to me that she likes food that is...

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Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163772) • Garden Grove, California 15 Dec 12

I often am waiting for the elevator when my young friend Ben who is in a wheelchair with severe MS joins me,WE laugh as we ofteh ride up together. But after breakfast this morning he called to me'"I will ride with you" and I...

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Ram Bansal I think age has nothing to do with good or bad manners or compassion for others. It is mindset of the person, built over the years under her particular circumstances, that matter in how the person behaves with others in the society.

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