A wonderful cross stitch story.
By marie2052
@marie2052 (3691)
United States
August 3, 2011 11:13pm CST
Last year in early part of the year, I went to Michaels to get some floss. While I was in the aisle an elderly gentleman was looking at the large Dimensions kits.
I smiled at him and thought he must be getting a kit for a daughter or wife.
I was getting ready to leave and I commented on the picture of the kit he had in his hand how beautiful of a pattern it was.
He turned to me and asked me if I could show him where to find the count for the cloth.
I took the kit and showed him so he would be able to look for it on the kits there.
I told him that whoever he was buying this kit for that the one he held in his hand was rather more of a expert piece to do.
I said it had a lot of specialty stitches etc.
He looked at me and said well let me tell you a story.
My wife passed away when I was 85. I am 92 now. When she passed away she had a craft room that I never entered. I always considered that room to be hers.
He said he knew she did cross stitch but did not know what happened to the pieces.
When she passed away and time came for him to give up some of her belongings, he walked in the room and was surrounded by half finished pieces.
He called his daughter and asked her to come over the next day to help him box these up and also to ask who he would give them to.
When he got off the phone, there was a piece laying in his wife's chair. He said it was probably the last piece she was working on.
He sat down and was admiring the stitches and the pattern and picture of it.
He said he finally picked up the needle and just started teaching himself how to do it.
He told me he never goes over 10 squares out and 10 squares down. He said you would never want to look at the backside of the work, but that he decided to finish these so he could give them to the children and grandchildren she had so dearly loved.
Here this blessed man was standing in Michaels in Florida all the way from Canada and I got blessed to hear this story.
So he had finished her kits, and now he was turning his attention to a piece he could completely start and finish himself at 92 years old.
I find that amazing. I gave him a hug and told him it was a beautiful piece to do and wished him well with the piece.
So no matter how someone says they wouldn't have patience to do it or could not see.
Just think this man that was 85 years old just began his journey to find cross stitch.
And as he gave each piece he could proudly say him and his wife both worked on that piece for whomever in the family got it.
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6 responses
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
That was a very touching story indeed! I can't imagine an old man to start cross stitching! I would feel very touched too if I would meet him. I can see that he feel a certain connection between him and his wife who had passed away. I am glad that he is into cross stitching now to divert his attention too. I am glad that his eyes is okay to handle needle and see patterns.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
6 Aug 11
That is a great story! I think that it is never too late to learn. I know that when I was younger I was never able to finish a piece (either not enough yarn or not enough patience), but I was never really shown how to do it either. When I was in China last fall, I went into a shop that sold only cross-stitch kits and I picked out a kit and they put grid lines on the material and showed me how to do the stitching. I was able to finish my first project in a month or so and started on a second one, but I have yet to finish it since I don't have as much free time here as I did there because I spend so much time on the computer. Thanks for sharing this!
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
4 Aug 11
I am sitting here with tears down my face, that is such a touching story. I am so glad you shred it with all of us. It's rare that we step back and thank the people around us and what they do for us. It's rare that we think about how such a small thing to us can be such a big thing to others. His children and grandchildren will surely treasure all those pieces she started and he finished. It makes me wonder, did she somehow know he would come back to finish them all?
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@marie2052 (3691)
• United States
5 Aug 11
Yes I walked away with some nice memories that day when I met him.
I think of him every time I am in the cross stitch aisle now.
Naturally he is from Canada and my luck of ever getting to see him again would be amazing!
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
4 Aug 11
What a touching story! Not many people would start something new that late in life. Especially a man and cross stitching. It probably makes him feel closer to his wife, to know that he is finishing something she started!







