What is the best thing to do if you misses somebody??

Philippines
August 4, 2011 11:52am CST
Hello my dear friends, I missed somebody and really wanted to see to talk and know what is an update with her and there is no other way of communication but cellphone. The problem is her location coz there is no dsl and wifi or other signal to use properly. Now, in my side i really feel i missed her and almost dont know what to do for sometimes when i'm in this feelings. Friends what is the other alternative things to do in this kind of situations? Can you share with me some of your tips... i know it will be a big help to us. Thanks to all of you friends!
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12 responses
• United States
4 Aug 11
Maybe I am missing something here, but why do you need WIFI or DSL to talk with her on her cellphone? Hearing her voice and talking would help. Also, if you have a picture of her, you could look at it, especially when you are talking with her, and that might make you feel closer to her and help you to miss her less. With the visual picture of her, it could help you to imagine her smiling and laughing and reacting to what you are saying, which will make it seem like she is in the same room with you instead of far away.
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• Philippines
4 Aug 11
YOu have a very good idea my friend and i would say thank you so much... i like it. But the problem is there is no connection of any communication from her place as she said. So that is why... but we are waiting for only one month to go. Thank you and i will take your advice friend..
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• United States
5 Aug 11
Thank you for the compliment, and I am glad that you liked my suggestion. I thought that a cell tower was the only thing that was needed for cellphone communication. Will she have cellphone access in a month or will you actually be able to see her in a month? If you have to wait that long for any form of communication, then you might want to go the "old fashioned route" and write a letter to her and send her a couple of recent pictures of you. Then, you could ask her to send a couple of recent pictures of herself with her return letter to you. It is a slower form of communication, but the waiting for the letter to come will only make it that much nicer when you actually get it.
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@labea17 (443)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
That is really a tough situation. I know how hard it can be to miss someone, but you really can't do anything about it. Anyway, since you said that there is no Internet in where she is staying, why not try to call her up all the time? You can also send her text messages since you said that you only have your cellphones as a form of communication. :) By the way, how long will she be staying far from you? If you really miss her and you can't take her off of your mind, then I guess the best thing that you should do is to pay her a visit even only for a few hours or minutes if possible. I am sure that both of you will surely enjoy your visit. :)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
Yes thanks to your tips and i really do accept it but she said there is no any line of communication there i think she will be in the forest! lol She will be there for only one month more to go for waiting. Thank you so much!
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@Jacruz25 (1124)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
If you really miss her then try visiting here online profile account in facebook,youtube,etc. where you can view her photos or even post something on her wall. That's the thing I always do in times like that. I understand your situation because I've been in that before.
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
Yes! thanks for your sharing idea. You know i didnt think of that and yeah that is the best thing i wanna do always.... thank you friend.
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5 Aug 11
if i miss someone so much and i cant communicate with them all i do is keep myself busy, or sometimes i wrote some letters for them and when i saw them i'll give them all what i wrote or send it to their email if possible, so if they access it they will see that i missed them on that certain day.
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• China
5 Aug 11
hi,man,just go to see her if still missing her when you called. i can understand the feeling that miss sb, wish you find your mrs.right as soon as possible.
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• United States
5 Aug 11
First i believe you should stay positive 2nd find things to keep your mind busy.. Go out, excersize, read a book watch a movie listen 2 music, talk a walk go swimming, take a drive cook do what you feel best doing. Pray..
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
reading your post reminds me of the days my wife (she was my girlfriend back then) was working at Japan and the communications is only through telephone. laptop was not that popular yet though there are a lot of internet shops at the city of japan where she was she was not as good in speaking the language. so it was hard to communicate with her. i can not call her everyday for long distance calls are expensive, on the other hand she calling me the call cards for international calls are expensive as well. it is really hard specially when you miss that person too much and you wanted to talk. during those times we only talk at the phone twice a month, she calls me once and i call her once. we send letters and cards. i dont have any alternative but that. i am sorry you feel this way.
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@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
7 Aug 11
Hello mods. It is to my understanding that you CAN communicate via cellphone. Maybe you should set up some "cell date" in one day of the week when you both are available to talk and discuss updates. The rest of the week you could motivate yourself by knowing exactly how (less) time it is until the next meeting - think about it like this - from the moment you would put your phone down, the 7 days will start to elapse and every moment is a step closer to your next conversation.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
5 Aug 11
I think it is difficult to say what would I do when I missing someone. I think we can make a call when we feel that we have miss any person seriously. So we can make a phone call to him/her. Or there are many things which we can do. Or we cans see any photograph of our missing person. So there are many ideas which can be done.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
27 Nov 11
hi, actually its hard to do something when we missed someone,actually that is usually happen to me now,and i cant help my self to fight it,but the one thing that i can is to forget that someone i missed and focus on what i have,and gradually that feelings will end so soon.
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
Why not try visiting her personally? Hehehehe.. If it's possible, why not? You said you miss her so much. A visit could ease that feeling of you. Perhaps, if you will see her, you'll feel content. :)
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• China
5 Aug 11
Work harder to make sure that you two can build a happy family. Turn the miss into an endless energy to work for a better life. Or you may start to prepare her a gift, a special gift.
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