how is it?

@cormiera (278)
United States
August 7, 2011 9:34pm CST
how is it that i can turn soo many heads but i cant find a man that will treat me right and love me for me all i have ever had is men look me up and down and hey baby me why cant i find one that is sensitive and loves to be romantic etc i mean my boyfriend now used to care about those things why do they always change once the newness has worn off?
2 responses
@celticeagle (160605)
• Boise, Idaho
8 Aug 11
Well, you are dressing right. That's a good thing. Haha The first thing is: Have you ever heard of 'the newly wed phase' of a relationship? That's the early stages when he is so sweet and nice. Then he turns into this jerk that you can't wait to kick to the curb! Alot of women have issues from their childhood like father's who were unavailable emotionally making them pick the same kind of boyfriends. Trying to do it over and think it will be better. Never is. So, the bottom line is this: If you are continuing to have issues like this you need to look within yourself. Inlist the help of a professional counselor. They can help you to see what happened in your childhood that is making you pick the wrong guys. Then you can work to strengthen yourself, set up safe boundaries and start looking for the right guy for you. I know the name of a book that might be of interest to you too. If so, ask me and will go find the title and give it to you. Happy rebirth to you!
@cormiera (278)
• United States
10 Aug 11
lol thanks makin me feel like a crazy person now :P
@cormiera (278)
• United States
10 Aug 11
my dad is a cowboy loves to cuddle with me helll im 20 yrs old and we still cuddle up and watch moves togetha he was vry loving towards me i guess thats ware i get my ways from vry affectionate
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@celticeagle (160605)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Aug 11
You deserve that kind of treatment back and if your boyfriend isn't giving it then I am sad that you are wasting time with this guy.
• United States
8 Aug 11
I think it's a matter of respect. If you can't form an intelligible sentence or carry on a conversation, chances are a man would not take you seriously enough to want to be in a meaningful relationship with you. Guys don't want a girl they can just look at. Guys look at girls every day. Every guy has the potential to be romantic, and many of them want to be. But just because they want to have a romantic relationship, doesn't mean it will work with just anyone they find pretty.