waiting for love

@adhyz82 (36248)
Indonesia
August 9, 2011 2:15am CST
had you ever waiting for love?? what do you feel?? are you frustrated? what about if your man or woman can`t waiting for you and decide to leave you?? are you angry?? when you have to stay here while he or she was away, and you must hold all jealous and you miss him/her Forget all the obsession and ambition Suffice it here and she or he come back for you
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13 responses
• Mexico
14 Aug 11
Hi adhyz: Yes I have passed through this feeling and I can tell you that I have experimented some kind of frustration and sadness because I am putting myself in function of what other person may say or do. I am the owner of my destiny so instead of waiting for something to happend, I prefer to live. Life is for living as the Coldplay song says. ALVARO
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@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 11
life is sacrifice.. life is struggle life is life don`t easily give up when you got problems in life..especially about love... God had created our lover someday...we only search and believe that we can get in right time and for the right person
@jricky1 (6797)
• China
10 Aug 11
I'm waiting for a genuine love.I think there will be a good man which is waiting for me,either.We are meant to be,but it just needs time.Maybe it's a little bit strange,but now i don't have a boyfriend,isn't it frustrated?But otherwise,if i don't tell him my feeling,that will also loose a great chance.At least he knows what i feel.
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@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 11
so had you said to him, that maybe you love him??
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
9 Aug 11
Yes. I waited for love for a very long time and finally found it. I was not looking when I found it either. I was tired of looking for love and started it out with friendship.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
do you find it?? with whom?? congratulations step
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
bikdadu, iam indonesian..where your soulmate live in indonesia??
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
I have been waiting for the right person to come into my life and have waited for it patiently. There were really times that I really get frustrated and envoy my friends for having relationships. I don't wish to be in a relationship and not really sure about my feelings with the guy. I wanted to wait for the right man. And after 20 years of my existence in this world, he came. I'm hoping all the frustrations and all the long wait will be worth it. I am happy to say that even if I am waiting for him to come back to his home country, we are happy and still together for almost 6 years now.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
20 Mar 12
i do hope you can be happy with that man.. do you love the man??
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
21 Mar 12
and now both of you had live together?
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Yes, I love him. 6 years being in a relationship with him and 2 years apart is not an easy task after all and I couldn't bare being away from him if it wasn't for love.
@hushi22 (4927)
11 Aug 11
i think i did. i dont remember actually because the story went smooth. i was enjoying dating some guys those time but i knew in myself there was none of them who were deeply engraved in my heart. i waited for the one who would be the only one but those dates i had helped me to have things smooth. now that i found my love i am very satisfied and my life is smoother than before.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
wow...so had you ever found the right soulmate for you??
@hushi22 (4927)
12 Aug 11
i think i do. =)
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
wow...can you introduce to us??
• Indonesia
10 Aug 11
in all kind of situation, waiting is annoying, especially when both of you have no legal relationship such as married.I can't wait... I'm afraid to be dissapointed, I can't trust long distance relationship.honestly long distance is truly complicated and full of uncertainty, but that's for me and based on my experience.we don't know what happen with him/her in away, but if you believe her don't waste time... tied her, at least to be vionce, so she can't be more comitment with you
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
maybe yes maybe no
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 11
if you trust him , even he is not same city with you, you can still trust him.. love need many factors, one of them is trust each other
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
based on my experience, trust is not enough.. long distance is very difficult to handle.have you experience long distance relationship?
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
love is worth waiting for. i would not mind waiting for my love as long as she is also eager in my waiting. if the waiting gets long and uneventful, there may be things in my mind that can ruin the patience and joy of waiting. however, i know that there is a blessing in waiting. it forms my character and delays my gratification, thus developing my patience and resilience.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
wow...I agree and like your statement when you say "i would not mind waiting for my love as long as she is also eager in my waiting"...it touch my heart
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
I was always waiting for my Mr. Right to come in my life. I felt in love with a wrong person many times but because of prayers, God has answered my prayer and I found him. Now, we have been together for 6 years and we are getting married soon. Hopefully, I can't wait for that and I am so excited for that to happen. Just pray and wait for the RIGHT person and one day you will be surprise by meeting him/her by chance.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
wow..it`s good...but at least God answer your pray
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
10 Aug 11
Sure. I’ve had to wait for love when I had none and I also had to wait for love when I found it and the man I loved had to be away from me for some time. In both cases it is a matter of finding the good in life while you are alone. When you are single and would like to find love the best path is to stop looking and it may well come. When your love is away there is the beauty of looking forward to the next call, letter or when your love returns and in the meantime find the good in your days.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
12 Aug 11
so my question, had you ever found your love??
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
9 Aug 11
It is such a feeling that everyone has their own view on this. Love is mostly in the initial time never get sleep and once in the full swing, it never can sleep also. When talk about the goodness of love, I think every day the definitions are keep changing and whatever is said about love is not yet completed and still to talked about. When it comes to our hands, we may really miss, if the partner is not around and would long for be around at all times. Though not much experienced in this affair, I was a silent observer for all. However, if we have a really loved one around, the time goes never would feel and when she/he moves away from us, we might have a feel of the time never goes off. It is all pleasure when we think all with a imaginary world, and some time when it comes to reality, it is not necessary that all should be the same as how we wished. Thank-s
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
everyday is filled by love....
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
30 Nov 11
hi, i have experienced that love for how many months,i was hopeless during six months being single that time until someone came and rock my world again,actually there is no wrong to wait for that love,but the problem is your partner if couldn't wait you for so long.well the problem is not in yours because at least you gave effort to wait.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
1 Dec 11
wow..so you are happy now because had gotten your boy now?? right??
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
yeah, that true. but i'm not waiting for my ex girl friend. she leave, and i think: a have a destitute. so, i can forgive her cause he wanna find a perfect boyfriend, for her.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 11
really? are you happy when she leave you??
• Philippines
10 Aug 11
Love waits. Love is patience. Don't get frustrated when there is no one with you at the moment because God is still writing the best story with that someone. what we need is to trust God that everyone of us will have a partner for life that will cherish us and love us. And when that times comes it's the most wonderful thing that will happen in one's life and we can say it is worth the wait.
@adhyz82 (36248)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 11
i like your word...good word for my morning