Telling the peacemaker
By SomeCowgirl
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
United States
August 10, 2011 6:52am CST
I texted a friend yesterday that I wanted her to call me either that night or the next. Time to tell the peacemaker about the girl I've been talking about in other posts. I've completely blocked her now, she's also deleted. However, the block will keep me from seeing when she likes things, she also won't be able to friend request me or poke me, she can't message me now either. She also shouldn't be able to see anything I do or say on friends walls / statuses either.
Now it's time to tell the peacemaker. Not too long ago (4 months ago maybe) we all got together and had a crying out girls session. The girl that I am talking about here (the bad one) and my friend (not the peacemaker another one) made up. Well, not really as I could tell atleast that my friend wasn't genuine, she didn't want this Bad girl as a friend.
I know I seem to be being a bit vague. Let me just say that this bad girl I'll call "w" (for witch) has been saying things that are kind of... sneakily underhanded. I mean to say that while at first glance you might think it's not an insult, it really is. She's been doing it too long for it not to be. She also likes to pick fights and claim it was the other girls doing etc. Well I'm fed up with it, my friend is fed up with it, and so now it's just telling the peacemaker.'
A hard conversation to have, but I have to tell her that this "bad girl" is really just not good for us at all.. Not someone who we want to hang around any longer.
Have you ever had to tell the peacemaker something you really didn't want to have to? I know she'll understand, it's not that, it's just I hate to have to kind of break her out of her "bubble" so to speak. She's not seen the W do anything wrong.. but we have.
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@celticeagle (189915)
• Boise, Idaho
11 Aug 11
Sounds like this 'witch' is immature and like to instagate things. If she has been doing this for awhile I would think that she probably thinks other enjoys it too. Does she have some qualities you like or are you just putting up with her? If the latter is true I wouldn't worry about it and just move on.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
11 Aug 11
Celtic, this whole discussion was stating I left her in the trash where she belongs. She's off my friends list and blocked, off another's friends list not sure about the blocked part there, going to talk to our "peacemaker" and let her know that we're not going to be having anything to do with this witch again.
She's foreign but has been in this country for 11 years, she is "dumb" in many ways but I don't think she's as dumb not to notice that she hurts people by what she says. She's also outright hurt people, myself included, and I'm tired of it. Hence why she's in the trash.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
10 Aug 11
The talking to her AIN'T happening. I'm through with her, completely and totally. UNTIL She can grow up. It's been too many times I've given her a second chance. Sorry, got a little emotional there. She isn't a good person.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
12 Aug 11
Thanks, now it's just to tell the one friend. I'm not really in a hurry to tell her, I just want her to know as she's not been around this "bad" person as much as me and the other friend had so she doesn't really know, but needs to / has a right to know.
Hmm, I can't see any of our avatars.

@wilsongoddard (7291)
• United States
10 Aug 11
No, I've never been in that situation. I don't think that there is any danger of it, either, since I don't hang out in groups of friends anymore; I am now in an area where I don't have friends--just semi-decent acquaintances who won't even remember my name a couple weeks after we pack up and move out of here.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
10 Aug 11
So you're a traveller? Kind of a gypsy? Sorry I don't know enough about gypsies so if that was offensive please let me say it wasn't meant to be. I only really like to hang out with two friends, and I've hung out with them a lot more then I have my others.




Np getting carried away.
IC your point