Are you with someone wonderful, tell me what makes him or her wonderful?

United States
August 14, 2011 10:00pm CST
I'm glad that i'm able to be with a wonderful person. We do have our ups and downs and at times drive each other crazy but I really do feel he is a wonderful person and the best for me. My husband spends time with me, he misses me when I'm gone and he works hard to take care of us. He has always been willing to help me when I need it. He's not afraid to say that he does spend most of his time with his wife. I'm his best friend and he loves me very much. I know that he would give his life for me.
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@koperty3 (1876)
15 Aug 11
I'm with wonderful person. That person is my beloved partner. Few years ago I had accident which left me disable. Everything was changed. I ws different person. I saw my partner crying in the doctors office while doctor told me that if the treatment will be not successful I will loose my leg. After that we came back home. I could think about my partner and how will be difficult for him. That evening I spoke to him and I asked him to leave me and have proper life with someone else. Not with me as I did not feel that I'm person any more. I just thought about him and his future. He said that no matter what, he will not leave me. That this is his choice to stay with me and to take care of me. $ years past since that moment. I have two legs and walking stick and wonderful partner who proved me how much he loves me.
• United States
13 Sep 11
That is absolutely wonderful that he has stayed with you. It truly shows how much he loves you. I'm glad that the treatment worked and that you did not lose your leg. So happy that you have such a wonderful person to take care of you.
@koperty3 (1876)
16 Sep 11
I like to take care of him. I enjoy cooking for him or buying for him chocolate as he is chocoholic. He is very supportive. I think I'm lucky one.
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
25 Sep 11
Qualities they consider necessary for my soul to love a man forever are: kindness, intelligence and dedication. Without these three, I would not be able to admire him and think, without admiration for the man he chose as husband, there will be no loyalty, no love, no patience. I chose a nice man, you love it so much that being faithful to them and I enjoy his presence moment by moment. I chose an artist to understand my work and whom I respect his vision. A man whom I overlooked that is poor and not only loved me for me on earth. We chose a faithful man, who can make me feel safe. And to make me laugh, even from time to time ...
• United States
28 Sep 11
I agree with you that these qualities are essential for a lasting relationship. Without those types of qualities it would be difficult for a relationship to endure with love and respect as is needed. I think that it is a wonderful thing when we are able to be with someone who provides us with what we need and who we are able to express our love and care for them as well.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I am with a wonderful guy and I love him to bits! I can't help but feel sad that we're not close to each other a lot, but I have always appreciate him in my life. Though we have our ups and downs as well, I can't help but feel so comfortable having him in my life. He makes me smile, he makes me feel loved. We have different tastes in things but I like having him as my companion. I love him. Have a great MyLot experience!
• United States
13 Sep 11
I agree with you. Most relationships that our realistic admit to having ups and downs. We are all imperfect and we do rub each other the wrong.It is when we get through the difficult times together that we can really see how strong our relationship is and how much we care for one another.
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 11
She came in my life during the time I was stressed up by a certain born-again lady- she actually cheated on me with my brother. Then sent-from-heaven lady came in my life and asked me one question that really helped me out.. "how shall we live like this?...". I remember those words like every single day when I look at her, the words she said to me on our second meeting in our dating time. I think she already knew we gotta stay together someday- as if preparing me to see the light, yes! I did. She is the strength I have and special in a way that I can't imagine.
• United States
13 Sep 11
I'm glad that you are able to be with such a wonderful person. When we experience trials and someone is there to help us out love for them grows. I'm sorry that you experienced such hard times but I'm happy that you had someone there for you during them.
@mmespino (77)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Yes I am. He's an answered prayer to. He's one of the best blessings i received from God. He always tries to understand me specially when i'm not in the mood. He is ver patient and he always let me feel how important i am to him. I'm talking about my fiancee....
• United States
13 Sep 11
I'm happy that you are with such a caring person. It makes a huge difference when we feel and notice that our partner cares deeply about us. Daily life and stress at times take there toll but when we know we have someone who loves us to come home to it makes a world of difference.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
16 Aug 11
Aw I'm happy for you, he sounds like a good man. I hope someday I can find someone who cares and misses me like that.
• United States
13 Sep 11
Yes I'm fortunate to have him in my life. I too hope that you will find someone wonderful. Try to be patient and look for the qualities that you want in a partner. Taking your time to see things clearly and recognize one anothers shortcoming will save you a lot of heartache and disappointment. Thanks for your response.
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Yes finally, I am with somebody wonderful who brings out the best in me and understands me for all my shortcomings. I had a bad romance with my ex and it dragged for two years, until I met my present love. He has to go through some stress for my ex didn't take it lightly that I have to leave him.He has to stay anonymous for a while until it was time for us to come out and tell everybody we are together. Like you, he is my bestfriend, my ally and I know and feel he loves me too. Good luck to us! (^_^)
• United States
13 Sep 11
I'm happy that you were able to find someone who cares for you the way you deserve. It can be very hard when a person's in a relationship that is abusive and is not right for them to be in. It does take time in order for the other to person to accept what has happened. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. I greatly appreciate it. So happy things have worked out good for you.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Wow, you sound so confident whe you said he will give his life to you. YOU'RE JUST A LUCKY WIFE I am with a wonderful man and I love him so much, he is simple and will do everything for me, He's working abroad now for our future. he's adorable and possessive, he's always checking on my 6times a week, calls me and he provides my needs for my career growth..
• United States
13 Sep 11
It really does make us feel secure when our husbands work hard to provide for us. It can be very trying on a marriage when a spouse makes the decision to work abroad. I'm happy that you two are doing well even though you are apart. Thanks so much for sharing.
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Hi Dominique25! Yes, I am blessed to be with someone who is wonderful. He is indeed a gift from God. He is my husband for 14 years and counting. Just thinking of him make smile and warm all over. Now I understand why spouses are being called "better half" for he made me a better person or yet he made be the best that I can be. He made me feel secure in his love for me. He is very loving and caring. Aside from this, he loves our two daughters dearly. He never fail to surprise me every day. He is very sensitive when it comes to my feelings and know how to raise me up when I am down. Nobody is perfect but I believe we are perfect for each other.
• United States
13 Sep 11
That is so wonderful that you and your husband have been together for such a long time. I'm so happy for your family. It is a wonderful thing when a husband and wife can endure trials succesfully together. Thanks so much for sharing.
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
My wonderful and lovable someone is my husband too.He is always be there in my achievements and trials. He loves me as I loved him. We only live in one house for a year but as times run we learned to adjust in our weaknesses and strength in each other. For our achievement we've take we both treasure it,and if every trials we've had we both learned from it. And I'm hoping that if ever we had daughters and sons we both matured enough to face for it and it will last.An happy ending! So God be it!
• United States
13 Sep 11
I'm so happy for you and your husband. It takes a lot of work to make a success of marriage. When we first get married we are so head over hills in love with each other which is normal and is the great way to start a marriage. But with life trials and tribulations do come and we have to work through them together. Thanks so much for sharing your experience.