I saw my brother-in-law walked in a hotel with a young woman, what should i do?

Vietnam
August 17, 2011 12:42pm CST
Yesterday, I went out with some friends for girls' party, and I saw my brother-in-law walked in a hotel with a young woman. They holded hands tightly, smiled happily...And I knew that he has an affair!!! What should I do now? Should I tell my sister about my brother-in-law's affair? Or should I pretend to see nothing? My sister's baby is 4 months old now. Help!
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11 responses
@lampar (7584)
• United States
8 Apr 12
Tell your sister immediately, so that she can wake up from her sweet dream, it is very likely he is having an affair with a lover, instead of just a one night stand or becoming a John for a day of personal indiscretion; base on your observation. If you are interested in helping your own sister, then it is the time to do it now, to get her ready to deal with a cunning husband that cheat on her.
@Extourmed (191)
• Bulgaria
8 Apr 12
If you ask me, it may sound harsh but I think you should beat the crap out of him and told him to make this over and that it's gonna be left between you too. Pretending you didn't see nothing is the worst thing you could do if you ask me. Do you think your sister deserves that ? I have sister too and I can get in to your situation and that's what I was gonna do if it happened to me. I hope it didn't. Good Luck !
@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
I think it would be better to talk to your brother in law first. Tell him that you saw him and see if he will confide. Of course, most guys will deny but if you could convince him how you caught him may be he'll confirm. Then ask your brother in law if this affair has been going on, because it is your sister he is cheating and this behavior should not be tolerated.
• United States
19 Aug 11
I would've have called her & had her come to the hotel, and find out for herself. then you're just a spectator. That IS really rotten though!! I hope she takes him to court and gets child support.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
20 Aug 11
If you care about your sister then tell her that you saw him with a young lady going in to a hotel.
20 Aug 11
I would have a word with your brother in law. After all your sister has a small baby and this is a terrible time to break the news to her. Discuss it with him - find out if he is having an affair initially. Ask him what he is going to do about it. and take it from there
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
18 Aug 11
If it were my sister I would tell her what I saw. I might go to the brother in law first and tell him I saw him and if he doesn't tell my sister I will.
@koperty3 (1876)
17 Aug 11
That's really hard situation. On your place I would be loyal to your sister. She deserve to know. Would you like to be with a liar? She deserve to have normal life. And this man if he got affair he is not worth her. I wish you all the best.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
17 Aug 11
I feel sad to hear this . I think you should certainly divulge this to your sister as well as your family . This is the way you can save your sister from her cheating husband .
• Philippines
17 Aug 11
OMG he could be cheating!!! You should have approached your brother or ask him when you guys have the time.
@agapakia (22)
• Canada
17 Aug 11
don`t even ask is your sister that matters...just tell her the truth she has to know