Have You Had Some Kinda Nostalgic Moment Like This?

@neildc (17238)
Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
August 19, 2011 2:05am CST
Hiya myLotters and friends! Well, I am just so happy today, right at this moment. And I am so thankful about Facebook for this. I had my first relationship way back about 30 years ago. It's not a serious relationship though and it was a kind of a game as how it started. Of course, we were just in our teenage so we cannot say it will be serious. Funny thing about this relationship is, she is a lesbian, so it cannot really be gone serious. Anyway, that really made me so happy today. She now lives in the U.S. and I am still here in PH. Miles apart, but the best thing here, I found my very first ex. So have you had some kind of a nostalgic moment like this? ~~ NEILâ„¢~~
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
19 Aug 11
I cannot say that i ever have sweetie. Good for you though. Must have brought back some memories.
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@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Aug 11
she actually had a hard time recalling our memories sweetie. but the good thing is, she remembered me. imagine 30 years, a very long time that we were together. we were so young then.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
saphy dear, I am sure my sister-in law (neil's wife) is having hard time recalling because she already forget the last time they dated
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
19 Aug 11
At least she remembered you then. That's a good thing. One is only as young as one feel, you know.
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
hello neil, When it comes to remembering relationship/s...maybe you will laugh when I say I haven't had any BF aside from my ex-hus (but don't laugh...it's my choice ) But,yes I have good memories way back decades ago. One of my best friend added me in facebook and when we are having good chat with our classmates (we have a group in facebook -DAS Tambayan- only for our old class 1985-86) he, started teasing me that I had a big crush on him before. So,everyone in the chat were teasing us,- we're both teased before due to our closeness, but goodness, he's never been my crush. Now, I seldom joined them in chat-group, I don't want to create any trouble since his wife is also a member in that group. This reminds me of one guy ,who claims that he will be my husband whatever it takes (the guts) And this made me jump of school fences just to avoid that (ugh ugh) Too much to tell...and made me smile of my naughtiness. Sometimes I wished I should have had relationships with guys before- good day dear brother
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Aug 11
we all really have good memories of our younger years. a great reason to make us smile for the day. you mean you only had one?
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
Planning to have the 2nd one
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Aug 11
good luck and let me know when it happens.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
19 Aug 11
yup I have had friends find me and I have found them one was a friend from 48 years ago!
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
20 Aug 11
nope we dont as we were close and knew about every thing thre is to know about each other we just lost touch now we are in toucha nd I think it is great!
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Aug 11
wow, that's a very long time ago. don't you have a hard time recalling each other?
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
27 Aug 11
yes, I have caught up with a good friend from 40 years ago. We have caught up a couple of times before but lost touch again. Now, with the help of new technology, we are regularly in touch even though we live a very long way from each other. The friendship has lasted the test of time.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
27 Aug 11
right and true.
@celticeagle (189880)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Aug 11
That is great that you are so happy. I have had some naostalgic times like this too. I saw an old boyfriend years back and we spent the night together. He thought I hated him and I told him I didn't. I had been hurt because of how things ended but time had put a stop to that.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Aug 11
you mean you actually met, after sometimes being away from each other or not seeing for years? and you actually...
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@celticeagle (189880)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Aug 11
Oh, yes. The feelings were still there.
@toniganzon (77183)
• Philippines
22 Aug 11
GReat to hear that Neil! Lately i haven't had something nostalgic. I'm more of looking forward to what the future holds. I'm kind of wondering if i will meet one of my online friends one day!
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
27 Aug 11
there are members here who actually held a meet-up last december at moa where me, my wife and our youngest son were able to attend. they are also planning to hold another meet-up and if you would like to meet them, you can contact jaiho2009 or bhabycatch.
@KrauseHome (36445)
• United States
20 Aug 11
Well, I have been searching for yrs. somehow to find my First Ex. Even though we liked each other from 13-15 and I know he got Married to another girl I knew around the time we were 19, I have always wondered how he is. And wondered about all of his family as we were quite close. I have not heard from anyone since I was around 22-23 yrs. old, but I often have wondered.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Aug 11
i found my first ex on facebook, that's my first ever girlfriend. i also found my first true love there. and my first boy and girl bestfriends.
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
20 Aug 11
My first boyfriend found me on e-mail after the twins were born. Couldn't go serious, because I had no interest in him at all. But it was interesting to hear from him and what had happened in his family over the years...
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Aug 11
yes dawn, it's really interesting to hear from old friends and ex-boyfriends?
20 Aug 11
Hi Neil, Wow!! just as well she lives in the U.S, lol! yes, an old school friend found me on Facebook and we rollled back the years talking about it, she is now married with two grown up kids, how time flies. Big hugs. Tamara
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Aug 11
hi tamara. oh yes, she now lives in the US and i think she is so happy with her life there.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
20 Aug 11
How nice for you to have found each other again! I had a similar moment when I found my very first crush from the sixth grade. I contacted him on Facebook and he remembered me and how smitten he was with me all those years ago! He actually lives in the same town as me. It was great to catch up. I am not a fan of Facebook usually but it is great for reunions like these!
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Aug 11
that's so nice. and you still have a chance to see each other personally, after so many years as you live in the same town.
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@jazel_juan (15745)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
Well on my part my first boyfriend is my husband But i have found my ex's online and no i did not add them lol. I just find it weird because things ended not well with any of them..well not that many lol. but i know they have facebooks and it is a bit weird adding them no other feelings.. we all have grown up but its just weird lol.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Aug 11
could weird but interesting to know how they would feel it they find us?
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
That is actually one of the few things bout social media. I tend to actually go aways from it. I don't have a facebook or twitter or whatever. I'm kind of an old lady considering I'm only 20. Oh that sounds good. I just meet up with a high school friend who migrated to Canada. She contacted me through my sisters facebook.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Aug 11
an old lady at 20? oh no, i don't think facebook or any other sites discriminate with the age. i even learned recently that my aunt is already on facebook. and her grand daughter too who's only 10.
@katrinapaz (2436)
• Philippines
20 Aug 11
i also have found my ex boyfriend in facebook but i did not communicate with him nor did i ask him to be my friend because we did not part ways that peacefully and i see that he already is happy with his life and i do not want to disturb him. the nostalgic moments i have with facebook is when my classmates and i will discuss our elementary years and all the foolish things we do.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Aug 11
i see no wrong communicating with them even if they already have their own families and happy with their lives. just for friendship sake.
• Philippines
21 Aug 11
Yes, my first boyfriend's name is NEIL and I'm so happy to see he's okay just like me. I saw a lot of his pictures in Facebook and I am so happy to reminisce the old times. We have our own life now but I am happy we turn out to be good friends in the end.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
22 Aug 11
what a coincidence? well, like i have told her, i just want to know how she is doing now and so we could be friends again too.
• Philippines
19 Aug 11
Hello Neildc, The only though that comes to my mind when it comes to ex's are nothing more than regrets and should have beens. I knew i didn't have courage to get to know a women better but because i had low self esteem then. knowing it later that i used to be good looking gives an even more depressing thinking more about the past. there was this lady that was my text mate for months. she has said she'll meet me on my birthday, but she didn't. but i know i recognize her inside a pastry, but i think the got the message that she didn't want to see me. so i left pretending i knew she didn't attend our meet up. few years later i added her on friendster before the site changed that is. no nostalgic, just regrets.