Why fall out of love?

I always had this idea of what being in Love was like, both with late first husband, and my second husband. The latter I kicked out two years ago because of his temper. At the time, I came to believe he didn't really love me. I am sure now, he didn't. I think he only stayed with me for the financial benefits. I know another woman, age 36, whose husband started an affair with a 21 year old. He did this whilst she was in their home, and claimed it was because of his wife's illness and disabilities affecting her 'desire". I always thought love was in sickness and health. So do I really know what lOve is? I didn't fall out of love with my second husband. All I knw is that I want a love, where i KNOW I am completely loved by my paertner no matter what difficulties arise. I don't know if I am ever going to find this love?

when starting a relationship we are in heaven with joy because I think here is the man. But we do not think about his character so that in time will face difficulties and that together we can overcome them. It all depends on how strong our love and must either find a solution that satisfies both. Have a nice day.

I find this topic very hard to discuss as each situation really depends. Each break up has different reasons too and i'm just glad i haven't had that much. I had my heart broken though when my love wasn't reciprocated but other than that i didn't have bad experiences relating to falling out of love.