when you die.. what do you think will people say about you?

@chiyosan (30186)
Philippines
August 27, 2011 7:50am CST
So.. let's post away... reflect and perhaps think about what you did to the people around you, what you are made of... as a person... so think of the day that you have gone... and people will talk about you... what do you think will people talk about.. what do you think will they say about you...
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6 responses
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
28 Aug 11
That's a bit scary because once your gone, people will freely talk about you. It can be bad and it can be good. What would your family members and friends say? What will your enemies say? It's kind of scary thought and I don't think I want to know. Though, live a good life, be a good person before life ends! Because a good life will be a good afterlife. =)
• Philippines
27 Aug 11
I don't think people will say good things about me when I die. I mean, what would people say? Let me think - here lies a man with no accomplishments, who's always into shady deals and businesses, who never respected the law of his country, one who always lives the fast life and never stops to look or listen but even though he is like that, he loves his family very much. He may never be a good father but he tries to be one. Wow, I really should think about changing myself!
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
27 Aug 11
I don't really know but I hope they at least have the courtesy of giving me kind last words.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
28 Aug 11
thanks choybel, yes of course we all would want to leave beautiful things behind us, right. =)
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
27 Aug 11
people will only remember neil as a man of great sense of humor. people will remember neil as a loving father and a not so good husband. but they will not say a thing about me, they will remain speechless.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
oh wow! that is wonderful. :D thanks neil for your response to the discussion.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
27 Aug 11
Hello, Chiyosan. What a great topic! I hope that the people who knew me best would say that I often made them laugh, I sometimes made them cry, and I always made them think. That seems a pretty good epitaph to me. I also hope they realise that I never willingly hurt or upset anyone in my entire life. It means a lot that people remember me as someone who liked to have fun, but whose heart was in the right place.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
28 Aug 11
thank you sandra.. yes, we all hoped for that indeed that our friends would remember us in a good way.. and sometimes i would not mind the naughtiness too. haha as long as they remembered that we have been happy together!!
@koperty3 (1876)
27 Aug 11
My family would say that I was the most stubburn person on the planet and I did not want to listen them. Well sometimes is true. People who ever worked with me will say that I was very professional. And people who can't understand me and don't like me will say that I was old crazy lady ( if I die in old age).
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
29 Jan 13
yeah they probably would say that you are stubborn but then, they would miss that too. :D hehe thank you for your response to the discussion, have a wonderful time!