Changing birth date

Malaysia
August 28, 2011 6:55am CST
I have illness and today my mom and I visit a chinese medium and he told us to change my chinese birth date for RM108.80. Mom agreed to pay him since he said he can remove my fybroid in my uterus and cure my depression, help me to find a job and get married. But I am in doubt for one thing. Will my passion for things change too as he said I will be a different person after this process? My passion is earning online as he said I will be focus more in work and can work full day after this. And I will get to know a man who will be my husband in the future. But my heart has only one person I love. He said we should trust him as he is helping us now to get a new life. He is 70 years old man.
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13 responses
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
I wonder why there are people still believing in such a medium. No one can change your life except yourself. If you want you life to change, you have to work hard toward it and towards your target. That is the only way to change your life. It is not such thing that someone can change your birthday or what, your birthday and life is fixed once you are born, you will never be able to change you birthday or anything about that. That is something ridiculous, real ridiculous.
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
But he said he had helped many people with that. I have gone to the temple today and done the process. Now I am waiting to be saved by the luck. Call me nuisance I am try to make my mom and dad and bro happy that by listening to their advise. He said Emperor Jade helped me a new birth date with a request from Nazha God. Haha....
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
That is really funny, have your ever heard about the fortune teller can cheat you for 10 years without you realizing it. That mean, there are no proof that they can actually help you but only time can prove that. If you just maintain your condition now without trying to improve and hope that the medium will change your life totally, do you think your life will get better? Definitely no, but the fact is you are now get poorer by RM108 and instead the medium became richer by RM108. If the medium is so powerful, just ask him a simple question, does he know how much money do you have in your pocket? If he can get the answer correctly, then may be he can be trusted....
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
28 Aug 11
Hi Wong! Honestly to my knowledge i dont believe in these stuffs. Even in my country they believe numerology of birth dates, so you no need to worry that changing or not your birth date will make any effects. May be you can accept if for your mother who is worrying a lot and for her belief, you can give her a happiness. But dont worry and never lose hope.. first, try your level best to get yourself out of depression. My sister had same trouble, like she had accident, her marriage delayed..but to our surprise she overcame all her troubles after 5 long years and now she is a happy mother. I would sincerely wish all your troubles will vanish by time and keep up your faith..God will bless you all good for sure!
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
To make mom happy I accept it and now I am in an aww...ful mood. Wonder what will happen next. I will try to overcome my problems by myself and hopefully all will settle in no time.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 11
Happy to hear it! Hope you will have great start in your life and wonderful moments will come on your way soon!
28 Aug 11
If you give me RM108.80 I'll make you the president of your own country, with a harem of husbands, the best job in the world and cure all your illnesses. And make you immortal. And famous. And send you into outer space where the magical chi'lins from the happy land of jelly-flavoured mushroom-horses gallop all day, spreading peace and happiness. I won't guarantee it, though. Total, complete and utter crap - playing on people's beliefs to get money out of them is evil and so utterly wrong it's not even funny. YOU can change who you are: no one else can. Can you post photos of the temple when you've destroyed it after his inevitable failure?
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
Many chinese said white people won't simply believe this sort of thing, but to me I am a chinese, educated about this culture since was small don't really defend the beliefs.
29 Aug 11
i completely agree with Spike!!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
31 Aug 11
Though I do believe that there are other approaches to healing those things that ail us, I don't know that I would put complete faith in something like that. Yes, I'm sure that you would like to no longer be hindered by the problems that you've had, but what if this kind of treatment would really change the person that you are. How are you to guarantee that you would genuinely like the person that you could become.
• Malaysia
31 Aug 11
Yes that's very true. I will not like the person he described and I like it myself now and forever. And I won't change even mom threatened to kill herself. I know I am not filial but what to do if you were in a situation like this?
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
28 Aug 11
Oh I didn't know that one's Chinese birth date could be changed. I am just wondering if you have tried TCM (Traditional Chinese Medicine)? A few months ago, I started visiting a Chinese physician. I used to have a condition known as 'nei re wai han' (Feeling hot on the inside but cold on the outside). After several visits, I noticed an obvious difference. Before seeking treatment from him, I used to feel terribly hot and have bloated tummy b4 my menses. Now, both of these are gone. Furthermore, I no longer have 'nei re wai han'. He can treat almost all sorts of conditions, including fibroid and depression. Maybe you could seek out a Chinese physician in your area?
• Malaysia
28 Aug 11
I was born in the month of Sept and he said in chinese calendar it was Aug so he will make a new birth date for me. I am in doubt and not ready for what will happen in the next three months. As he said my career will be successful and I will get married. I quite doubtful about him but many people come to him this afternoon. I am scared I will got spooked or something.
• Singapore
28 Aug 11
Oh I see...hmmm, ultimately it's your choice whether you want to give it a try or not. Have a great wk ahead!:)
@cindy12 (88)
• China
29 Aug 11
Maybe he is right, maybe he is wrong.It depends.If you want to hear him, then you trust him.If not, just let him go. Trust yourself and you will succeed.
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
No, I don't believe completely but I am trying to make mom happy.
@Galena (9110)
28 Aug 11
well for a start, a medium can't remove fibroids from your uterus. and even a doctor can't cure depression. it's a lifelong condition that can be managed, but not cured. and how he can also find you a job and get you married off, yeah, I'd be in a lot of doubt about it too. he can't do these things.
• Malaysia
28 Aug 11
Yes he said he can find me those things as long as I agree to change my birth date. I am in a doubt. If all fails, will I get double back anything unpleasant? So frustrated.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
28 Aug 11
We all change by the choices we make, if this is something you want to try why not. You are not happy with life as it is now. Just remember any life you get will be filled with good and bad that is just the way life is.
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
That's what I think too.
• Philippines
28 Aug 11
Hello Wongchoiyee, Sounds like a 70 yr old con man to me not to mention he's only IT for money and not for your concern. all this time i thought it was a doctor, but MEDIUM?!it's a very very bad idea because that money can still be use for you to buy food. I wouldn't risk with that assurance, why destroy the temple if you will in trouble with the cops at hand. and not to mention, more trouble with the authorities. better leave it in prayers, and then save money
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
Yes, today he just said not RM108.80 but RM300 plus, then mom told the temple assistant about this matter that agreed yesterday and finally he said RM108.80 He is lying, if he was about money then no need to become a medium.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
28 Aug 11
I'm not really into that kind of stuff. I totally have nothing against that practice or what not but I do think that he is kinda fooling you guys. I know someone in our place that offers spiritual healing for FREE, he does not ask for anything.
• Malaysia
28 Aug 11
In my opinion, if he was sincere enough he wouldn't ask me money, maybe some treat like fruits and oil to the temple is enough. But instead, he asked money. I told mum that dad is broke and she just said I don't care as long as you get well. It all that matters. Ridiculous.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
28 Aug 11
Hi choi yee, Did he also say when your fibroids will be cured, when you will get a job and when you will be married? Since the Chinese medium made your mom pay so much, no harm asking for money-back guarantee. OK? If all these really come true, do let us know. We might not recognize you in here.
• Malaysia
28 Aug 11
No he did not said money back guarantee but he said I can come to his temple and destroy it if the charm and medicine he recommend is not successful on me. Phew...
• United States
29 Aug 11
Sorry for saying this but it looks like a scam to me...no matter how I look at it, I do have a question though, I don't know much about Chinese culture but still...How the heck can he change your birth-date? Is it by a time machine or something? no but really, jokes aside, how can your birth date be changed? Well I would not trust him, if he truly wanted to help sincerely then why charge you RM108.80? Well I wish you the best and let us know what you choose to do.
• Malaysia
29 Aug 11
Not by birth date but it is like this. When he ask God for help, Nazha God will come possess his body and he will discuss earlier with Emperor Jade about my birth date and change it at their Chinese record. We won't see how he did that, but can hear he mumbling some ancient words during the process.
• India
30 Aug 11
If you think that the fybroid is important to remove, because it hurts you tan it must be removed. But it is not the cure for depression. Try to talk with your best friend if you share your problems you will feel better. Best of luck... :)