Jealousy

Jealousy may show that you care about your partner, but only if it's just a minor jealousy case and doesn't get the two of you into a huge argument. There have been times when my boyfriend and I have gotten jealous over something that happened, usually if someone says something a little too flirty to my boyfriend. For us, jealousy never becomes a huge issue because we really trust each other and know that we're together for life. In a way, it's more of a joking type of jealousy and it even increases the attraction we have for each other. But being extremely jealous to the point where it causes major fights isn't good at all. Even though a small amount of jealousy can show you care for your partner, it also shows you have no trust if it's something that gets you really upset. I think jealousy could only be justified if some outsider is trying to flirt with your partner or something like that. It can't be justified though if you're jealous because someone has a really cool car that you wish you could have.

I think jealousy is normal for every relationship. Human being were created with a possessive heart, and always needs full attention from from the partner. I think jealousy should be controlled or minimized in such a way that it won't be the controller of someone's personal feelings. In fact this kind of feelings should not be expressed every now and then because they can easily break a good relationship. Sometimes jealousy can indicate mistrust in your partner, having doubts and mostly results into a break up. In my view, it can be justified if you have an understanding partner, but that should not be repeated in many occasions. A jealousy person should know how to deal with his/her problem and should try to think positive for the relationship more than anything created in mind.

I think that jealousy in a relationship indicates a severe lack of trust, and a sense that the partner is a posession, and not a person you regard as your equal, to be loved and respected, not owned.

I think we all have from time to time. I once had a boyfriend who constantly gave me problems, he would flirt with other girls right in front of me just to tick me off. I think it is natural to feel a little jealousy once in a while, and as long as it doesn't get out of hand and it is just minor I think that is just normal. If it is totally unjustified or it becomes over bearing where the one person tries to control the other because they are afraid of losing them, and not let them go anywhere and stuff like that, that is unjustified and out of control. I had boyfriends who were really jealous like that it was very frustrating. My husband was actually overly jealous the first couple years we were together. I couldn't even look in the direction of another guy. I am very happy he got over that.

jealousy always tested your Trust on each other, sometimes it happens on such relationship.even you respect both, it's part of the relationship to make it grows.

I believe a small amount of jealousy is normal, but when someone is extremely jealous that is due to being insecure in the relationship. On one had you could have one of the individuals in the relationship projecting what he/she is doing behind the others back. They could think if they are doing it the other must be also. On the other hand if one of the two creates reason for distrust or a reason to be insecure I believe this is also a reason that jealousy starts in a relationship. I also feel that once jealousy has evolved to a certain point there is no way to return to being in a health relationship again with that person. I realize that each individual may feel somewhat jealous but there are boundaries that should not be crossed when it comes to jealousy because it could change into a very unhealthy relationship if the jealousy gets out of hand.

We would be telling a lie if we said we have never been jealous.I think a little bit of jealousy is good but not to the point of being posessive or obsessive.

Yes, When I first met my wife I was very jealous all the time. The girlfriend I had before her had cheated on me and I was not very trustworthy of women at the time. It took a long time before I could trust again and got over my petty jealousy. Now I am comfortable and don't get jealous all that often any more.

I think your partner should be happy every time you make jealous because it is a great sign that you really love her. But not all jealous is a sign of love, as you said it is also a sign of disrespect, which I agree. So I think every person have to control with their emotions, that we have to be jealous in order to proved to that person that we love her and not to show her that we are disrespecting her already....

I think that there are different types pf jealousy. There is the kind that shows that you dont trust your partner,the kind where shows that you love them (jealousy unspoken). I am not sure how to explain but jealousy is not always a bad thing. It is only bad depending on how you react on it.