The Ultimate Breakdown and Why.

I remember you were in love with someone here, but she said she didn't want to meet you to consummate that love.. just would rather have you on the net. I thought then she wasn't serious about you. I think we all can have friends here on the net and some we re closer to than others. I don't think I could ever get up the courage to meet someone though, if he was coming on too strong to me. I have lots of friends on the net and I have met one of them.. and almost met another one, but my plans changed before I could set up a meeting. I don't think you should get your heart involved when you meet up with people on the net. I think you should just be friends and let it go however it wants to go, but you not force it. From the start, I remember you were wanting to meet up with this person and she started telling you she had a disability and couldn't make love. I didn't believe it for a minute, because I can imagine that was the only way to put the brakes on this relationship... so it won't get serious. Sorry you are lonely, but I think you should just enjoy the net and all it has to offer without getting too serious.

So sorry to read that Ram! And here I had thought that you have truly found 'the one.' As hard and painful it is, at least you've seen her true colors and avoided more deeper pain down the line. I can relate, after having gone through similar circumstances. What hurts more than the loss of someone we really cared about, is the hurt that comes from feelings of being 'played' without our feelings taken into account. My friend, I hope someone even better comes along for you. You deserve much happiness in life!

I'm sorry to say, but, I don't think this was a "real" love to begin with. Unless you can hold her in your arms, feel her breath on your skin, it's mostly something going on in your head. Sometimes our virtual worlds get confused with real life. The woman of your dreams is out there, go find her, and not online.

Hi friend, I´m sorry your love story did not end well. I did not know it was a "virtual" marriage. I just discovered (am I right?) that you met your love by Internet. How long did you know her personally before getting so involved? I don´t think that people change much in their whole lives. If your lady was obstinate, she will be that way all her life. You have to take her as she is or look elsewhere. Don´t worry. I´m sure you will find the woman of your dreams.

Well, don't fret. She is not the only fish in the ocean. I am sure that the right one will come to you. She is not for you because look at her. She has never returned your feelings for her. It is right that you move on and find the right one.