Time will tell.....
By zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
September 4, 2011 1:44am CST
Where did love comes from? From the eyes to the heart or from words to the heart? When in the real world the eyes play a great role in sending thunderbolt reactions to the heart, sending blood rushing madly around the veins and the heart pumping faster that you can almost hear the whizzing sound of the heart when you fall in love. The unexpected love is something beyond anybody's control and it comes without warning. Those who have been there knows what I am saying. This out of the world feelings of falling in love is creeping its way to the virtual world unannounced. Even without eyes to eyes contact people are making a big wave into the virtual world of romance. Who could have ever thought that internet love is as real as the real world love? The feelings of love keep the hopes burning that 'one day we will make it there'? The words we read on screen can string two hearts together filling the void left in many complicated relationships in the real world.
Do you think the world of internet is a curse to many relationships or is there a hope in the survival of love formed online?
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11 responses
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
4 Sep 11
sometimes time shows us that love someone or not.
regardless of distance sometimes love is evident in the eyes lips heartbeat and many other things.
But time is the best friend love.
because the time shows us that our love is real and large.
nice day!
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
5 Sep 11
I think online love has about as much chance as a snowball in hell, of course there will be the exception but let's face it very few are honest online and when
it comes to face to face, which it must for love or lust to be real. The reality
often just won't hold up to the online bling.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
We found love from the most unexpected places and with the least person that we thought we could ever fall in love with.
Cheating can happen online and offline.
I do not consider internet love as fun..there are real love that happens from the ner and I do believed in it.
I found someone who give me true love from internet and I am happy with him.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 11
Hi jaiho, so many people have found their soul-mates online and are happily married. If you love and trust someone enough to make you happy, then you should proceed with the relationship. Love sees no boundaries in the virtual world and is no difference from the real world romance.
@edsss17 (4394)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
Online relationship may not or may not work...
If I may quote one line from Jaiho's poem about internet love..
[b]Internet love is not a fad, it’s not a game. It do happen the least I expect it would happen.
I can never even say I never ask for it, nor I will never indulge myself with such kind of fun.
It’s never a fun, because it is for real and it hurts more than real.
Internet love is even harder to maintain than real life love affair. Because I cannot touch the person, I cannot feel.[/b]
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
4 Sep 11
I guess I am old school. Online indeed but before the internet there were words. I agree love has a connection with words. Writing is a wonderful picture of the human soul, vision, understanding and yes heart condition. What is more, it is timeless. "if you be well pleased by this and hold your fortune for your bliss then turn to where your lady is and claim her with a loving kiss" - who could resist?
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 11
if you be well pleased by this and hold your fortune for your bliss then turn to where your lady is and claim her with a loving kiss" these beautiful words sure can create a strong impact on people who appreciate the beauty of soothing loving words. People who are in love can suddenly turn poetic and make the world go round with their creative love words. 
@Bluedoll (16770)
• Canada
5 Sep 11
So true zandi though credit goes to an ole English poet whoes time has past. Do you believe in the power of attraction - not that I know what that is just that it sounds much like what you are expressing which seems to me to be so totally positive. Have a nice today.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
4 Sep 11
I personally would not get involved w/love over the internet. I had a hard enough time w/the two i married , knowing them etc. I sure wouldn't fall in love w/someone i hadn't met.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
4 Sep 11
I think love is love and if two people are meant to be they will be regardless of whether they met off or online. Having said that we all know about individuals who use the Internet for dishonest and evil deeds and those who are so desperate for love them will make poor choices. I think it a relationship is real it can work in cyber space; there have been many that have.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
4 Sep 11
I think falling in love in cyber world can be good as long as we follow the rules of the real world, which are honesty and sincerity...but we need to remember we don't know the other person...so I think before getting too deep into the cyber/virtual world of romance we should check as much as possible about the person before compromising any thing and not details of your life should be revealed before then.
@rose1717 (190)
• United States
4 Sep 11
I really don't know about the internet thing. I have friends that met online and it worked out, but I have a family member that also met someone on line and it didn't work out and they ended up divorcing after 3 years. I guess it would be about the same as if people met at work and such.
I think that love starts both from the eyes and words to the heart! And not from just one or the other to the heart.
@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
4 Sep 11
There are so many ways of showing love, but if it's real love you can only tell if you look into someone's eyes. Still words are so important and even if you are not able to talk you can write. If you write you can think over what to write, what to say, how to touch a heart. I don't think internet is a curse to so many relationships. I can keep my relationship great this way since the one I love is not living with me. I love letters but the post doesn't work over there. We text daily (phonecall is too expensive), we email, we chat, we can see eachother by videocall and share or show what we do/did or have.
As long as you are honest about who you (and the other is also) it is also a great way to know eachother very well. You can be honest about every subject without feeling ashamed or hiding your real feeling (nobody can see you), If the other one can accept you the way you really are the love formed online can only survive.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 11
Don't you think those who are committed are abusing the internet by getting entangled in love affairs online? That is why I say internet might be a curse to many relationship. It can either break a relationship or make the relationship stronger. It can work either ways.
