Love love love...... seriousness.... not now.

dear shiby, Hahahaha...this is really funny my dear brother. Well, how did I start my love? It was on the day of my wedding day and my knight in shining armor came riding in a horse and grab me from my supposed to be groom who I never loved at all

your story is better for Bollywood cinemas where unrealistic situations are portrayed in films

you can start by giving a smile you never know the wonders of smile Sibhie then you can proceed by starting a discussion like here in my lot. or maybe you can find it here

Just be natural. Get to know her first...

Oh my boyfriend and I were suppose to only be friends, as I was not interested in him when I first met him. I agreed to have coffee with him a week later and the way he looked at me suddenly made me change my mind right away. He has this wonderful way about how he uses his eyes that now almost 8 years later I still see this same loving look. So my friend love happens when we least expect it. I was not interested in loving anyone at the time and I was resistant in dating. So when the time comes my friend you will know. Sometimes it is gradual and sometimes it happens instantly.

This is really a funny post. Anyhow, you must not stress yourself out with such things when you meet and love a person. The best thing you should do is just be yourself just go with the flow. Treat that person like a special friend so you would not get nervous and do stupid things. Do not be overly aggressive and just take things slow. If your meant for each other, you'll ultimately end up with each other in the future. I hope this comment helped. Hahaha!

Hi Shibham, So you are in search of tips for getting a lover…I don’t know why the angel is still hiding but I am sure she will come to you very soon..

Not sure how you do this but i do have a boyfriend and have had him for a little over two years and is the best thing to come into my life. We were friends before we were boyfriend and girlfriend and we had alot of stuff in common and still do of course. You dont propose to a girl until you know for sure she is the one for you and after you all have been together for a couple years or longer. I am not engaged but know you usually dont ask someone to marry you within the first few months. You can go on to a match site and hope for the best too and ask someone out for coffee or go out to dinner of course. Of course you want to find someone that lives close to you and you have things in common with as well.

wow ... I was became reminded my love story when young time ago. When I started falling in love with a girls. The first one I did was steal her attention. If she be interested with all my behavior, it means the sign of a good start for me to approach her. If I was able to approach her, then I will attempt to borrow her book or any thing which I borrow from his and promised to return it immediately when I visited her home. If I has able visit and often play at his home, this means just became a matter of time for me to speak up "I love you", so that she would become my girlfriend. If she refused to love me, I will threaten, "your books that I borrow, I will not return it !!!".

Hiya shibs, Have been reading some of the lovely love Stories here. My that is a dramatic meeting with you and that Girlfriend of yours lol. After nearly marrying another and getting out of that small disaster I went to Spain on a Holiday that I was forced to go on as at that age and until you were 21 you had to go where they told you you were going. I thought oh no Spain what a pain (grin). To tell you the truth apart from spending all Day in the Shops by the Seafront I did not want to get to know any more Men in my life. While we were in the Hotel a Waiter okay so now you can all fall about laughing all over the place was making a big fuss of my Mom and indirectly talking to me and my ex Brother. My Mom did not like anything so he was back and forth to the Kitchen all the time changing the Plates all the time for her and asking now do you like this? Got the patience of a Saint actually because she was rather trying as we ate anything that was going. However he did not seem to mind and the more she disliked something the more he was around our Table and talking to me in English but only a little. Okay so I thought he does not know much English silly me. Days went past and he was always waiting on our Table and he was speaking to me in Spanish and I said I don´t understand a word of that at least not yet. So he wrote things down for me to look up and learn. We went out in the company of my Brother as my Mother did not want to come out with us he said that he did not mind if she came but she stayed in instead. It turned out that before the end of the Holiday we were getting along very well but I never thought of it as anything else but friendship. He did know a lot of English of course he did he speaks it better than me too. We took it from there as he had to do Military Service in the Month of September of that year so he started writihng Letters and I used to take them to work with me and read them there. Of course they were all in Spanish and I had to start learning it by myself. But one of the Girls a Supervisor took the letter off me one Day well I let her and she translated it for me and I was going red in the Face grin because everybody could hear all about it and she says oh Sue he loves you and I wanted to hide away under the Switchboard as all were looking at me. Eventually I began to understand what he was talking about so I made it my business to translate my letters on my own after that. Military Service was long and there were many letters and we started to meet up again over here and we took it from there up till now. There you have it very condensed bit long yes but all the rest is between me and the brick wall its secret well not really but the main part I have put here of how it all started. You are funny you should write some more like that shibs hope when you find your Girlfriend she does not act like that (grin).xxx

I realised that you know to make fun as well!! Nothing to worry, you are still not married, and in a discussion to day I was so talkative on a similar topic. She also disappointed when she heard that one of her friend is getting married soon and she don't have a boy friend etc etc. I repeat my response here also. You will get an eye catch sometime somewhere and some time you also notice someone in the same way. It is happening very rarely only and as long as you covered the college phase now really look like a matured man, this eye catch also little difficult to get into. However, this 'eye catch' is important and when you both have the same intentions in their eyes to the hearts, it is done. So just avoid the earlier mentioned methods and I am very much sure that the eye technique will work out. [I din't meant that you should close half the way when you see a good looking girl, if you do so, I am sure that we all need to come to the hospital to have a visit!!! So take it seriously and go ahead, it will be happening shortly. Also, don't go and stand on railway statiion or bus stands for this, when the time comes, she will come search for you ... Yahoooo...

hi shiby, He just bought tons of chocolates, flowers and a band to serenade me Then we get married and have divorced later have a nice day!

Funny..ha ha..can't use emotion here because i am still in low number of post.. Well,you are single..?sure you are still giggle your self because there is no love experience. I am still single but waiting someone....same as you, ...just be careful to find a girl that is surely!if you find a girl that is a boxer,well you both will be fighting each other! haha hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.