why are some people so talkative? Its noise pollution!

I am a very talkative but yet more so an outgoing side type of person. Though I tend to talk up a storm, I do have my limits and am not loud by no means. I don't like being somewhere and loud people drown out the entire room with the sound of their voice. I mean the entire room does not have to hear each ended word. Just last night at around 3am I was awakened by a very loud voice. I took a peak out the window and OMG, could this woman speak really loud and fast. She was talking to a cab driver and my goodness, I could hear from inside my apartment about how, and where she had to be. She went on and on about a situation with her mate. I had to go back into my room and close my bedroom door and was so hoping she hurry up and climb into that cab. Wow!

Hi chiyosan! Your post reminded me of a co-worker that I really strongly dislike. She's not just talkative, she's got the nerves for someone like her without anything to be proud of. She's patay-gutom, mukang pera, makapal ang muka to say the least. Sorry for the terms. Just thinking of her makes me annoyed. When we were in the same division before so I know how loud she is, she laughs so loudly without finnesse showing her tonsils. And her normal voice is above the normal decibels. Anyway, there was also this old lady who I met last month during an exhibit I attended. She went to visit our booth and bought our product. I think she stayed for half an hour in our booth just talking about everything. Me and my co-workers were already tired of her but she kept on going. But she was very amiable so we couldn't really get annoyed of her.

I am a very talkative person too. I just love talking and talking without stopping, I even want to go where my friends are. If somebody will say "I will go to the mall", or "I need to go to the church", I always say "Can I go with you? Can I? Can I?" I did not realize that I there are some people who need to spend more time with themselves alone, without other people with them. I used to be very insensitive with the time of others. One time, my room mate was asleep, and she looked very funny that I shouted at her and said "waahahahah!!! You look so funny when you're asleep" and she got really pissed that she told me, "you are very insensitive. You saw me trying to get some sleep, you should at least be mindful of others' time and moment, not just making fun all the time. You are very annoying!!" one time, my friend told me that she's very pissed with me, and I'm annoying her. I did not even do anything to her. But my voice was very annoying, and nobody wants to hang out with me. I realized that I need to tone down a bit, and get matured because I was really childish. So, now, I could say I changed a lot. I make sure that I will respect the private moment of other people. I keep quiet and I only speak when asked.

I know a few people that seem to talk loud and that is just the way they are.I also think that there are a few people that tend to speak softly and not even the person next to them who they are talking to can hear them.I do find it strange that also there are people that talk loud and it seems like they are shouting to the person next to them.

I remember when I was at the army , I used to stay in a room with someone who could talk and talk and talk about the same issue and not adding any new information but becoming more and more into it. Once he started to talk , I could only nod my head and tell him "yes" . He was such an annoying guy , i'm glad he forgot about me. Some people just talk and talk without making new ideas , just powdering the issue. I sometimes try to figure out new information out of their talkings , it's like a game for me. Some seconds after telling me "good night" , he started to talk again from the beggining...

Sometimes when I can come across a girl like this, who was talking on the phone with her friend. At first, I didn't pay much attention to her. However, I became more irritating because she was keep talking for thirty minutes behind my ears. Most of the time, I found the girl was rather negative. So I began to hate her because I hate people who tried to take away my positive energy. Actully, I don't always dislike people who talks a lot. If he is a person who is positive and excellant and nice, I'd love to listen to him.

yes My dad's childhood friends wife!!!! She is talking machine.I mean its just unbearable.I just dont understand how come she keep talking for 2-3 hours continuously without her jaw paining.Me and my brother always make some excuse and run from home when this couple comes home.

My boyfriend talks alot and it does get annoying he will talk to anyone and will talk about anything. But when we are in a grocery store or just at a local walmart and we are in line i dont want others in front of me talking to the check out person and i really dont want the check out person to talk that much and just get me out of the store as fast as she can too. I want to get in and get out as fast as i can too. I think its the best way to get in and out is without talking and for me sometimes to go by myself helps too.

I go both ways - sometimes I am quiet and not very talkative, and other times I am a chatterbox and can't keep my mouth shut no matter how hard I try. Mostly I am very talkative with family members and friends, though, and do not really get into lengthy conversations, especially particularly opinionated ones, in the middle of a line at the grocery store or other similar public places. Of course there is the idle chitchat from time to time to easy the boredom while waiting in line, but it is not loud and definitely not nonstop.

Surely this lady you are talking about has not been restricted which only shows that she is tolerated in her close circle. It takes all sorts to make this world and it is for us to go with the flow. There is a way to handle this. Just do not listen but go about having your own thoughts. This works.

I have friends who are noisy, I am noisy. But it happens in the spirit of fun and enjoyment. But when the noise is something negative and rude, that is really annoying. Most especially people, who say aloud bad words just because they think so. Opinions that are highly un-valued!

i know exactly what you mean i know three people that will just talk and talk and talk with no end its so horrable for i am a quiet person and i think it is best just not to talk most of the time than it s to talk my grandmother will go on and on talking about stuff constantly digging into my life concerning my relationships and its just an awkward conversation (not stuff i want to talk about with her like how it is with my boyfriend) haha the lady i board my horse with talks so much that i try my best to avoid her she thinks she knows everything and will tell the same stories over and over again

Hello chiyosan I think you had a very bad experience with these type of persons.But I usually like with these type of persons as they always talk and my time just pass easily.Otherwise I have to make my time pass by doing any other work.But these persons make my time pass easily. Sometimes they also make very much problems when I want to be alone to do some stuffs or to think about anything.It become impossible to do that.

Ha ha ha..blah blah.I have friend who always talk but not loud just slow to talk but can't stop to talk!!Even she eat any where you go,she talk!I want to slap the mouth! ha ha ha..Well,well,that person is a sanguine person..Overload of thoughts to talk about.

Some people talk louder than others and the talking might seem as if it will never end. My aunt that is my mom's sister is very talkative indeed. Some of my relatives are shy and hardly say much at all to strangers. It is all about personality and some are more outgoing and friendly than others. I parked my car in a car park and when I came back I saw a very cool looking camper van. I quietly said to my daughter about it. The owner had been getting a parking sticker and she heard me. Luckily she said she agreed and I smiled.

have different people speak some other quiet loud. I understand what you feel you have the feeling that the more you live with this person will go crazy. Just relax. nice day!

Yes, everyday I encountered different people who are very talkative. Whenever I ride to jeepney, bus or cab over-talker people is there. Sometimes I get annoyed of their voice but most of the time they are funny.

Some people are by default so talkative they actually do not realize that front people are not interested in you gossipy same situation is here. Here one lady is so talkative and she cannot understand that some people are not interested then too she start that we have to tell her i have to leave then she stop then too not fully