Should a girl in her late twenties and still single be Bothered?

To be honest, i married when i was in my late 20's. Whereas my sister married when she was 35. And yet, all of us now have families of our own. Well, when i was in my middle 20's already, boys in our office would always tease us ladies because we are not yet married. Thus, it seems that we are pressured to marry before we reach 30. Hence, when i was nearly reaching 30 , i was frantic and requested my husband that we be married already. And so we did. But they weren't able to attend it because it was done on office day, to avoid too much guests. Serves them right.

It take a lot of confidence for a lady or a guy to choose to remain single. Rather than accept the social norms they, they would have nothing less that what they set out to find. Not to compromise on their standard. If you ask me a big majority of then people who are single are either on the extreme end of the confidence scale. Those who lack of it would repeal people away and those who or fullnof it would continue to attract people and they would continue maintain their standard.

I don't think being single is something to be worried about. There are a lot of ways to enjoy life even if you are single. For me I would rather be single then be in a relationship that makes me miserable. Some people are born to be in a relationship and some people are better of as single.

When I was like 14, I always said that I want to get married when I'm 25 because I still want to be some what young when my kids grow up. I just turned 21 and I don't think that plan is going to happen lol. I can't imagine myself getting married in four years. I feel like I still have a lot of things to do, learn and experience before committing to marriage. People no matter what their age is should not be bothered if they have not yet to find the right person not should they be pressured in to marriage.

hi..no need to bother i think.m in my thirties and m still single.m waiting for the right guy..i feel great as m independent.i planned to marry when i was 27 but the things didn't work well so we broke up.m happy now.my sister got married when she was 34 and she has a happy family..right now enjoy have fun because marriages are made in heaven and have to wait for that.cheers:-)

yes, there is nothing to be bothered about being single at the late twenties anyway there is still thirties! hm, i think the thing that most women are bothered about marrying late is the risk for some risky pregnancies. well, women can still be pregnant and have no risks at the age of 35 but could have some risk at their 40's but whatever it is that they are worried about i believe that God has plans for each and everyone of us we just have to trust Him. with God, ALL IS WELL! :)

I guess it's different in different places. Here, it's fine to be single in your early thirties even. I think it depends on the individual though - some people are happy being single, while others prefer to be in a steady relationship.

i know a lot of single ladies, and they are not even young, and they are even happier than the married women i know and even with the people around them. that's what i can see and read from their personalities.

In one case, I shouldn't be one to say anything here because I was married at the age of 24 and I've been with my husband since I was 21 years old. However, I don't think that there is anything at all wrong with being single when you are in your later twenties. The world today is a lot different from the world of yesterday and there are far more women that want to have an established career. The goal of establishing a career is the reason that women are older before they are in committed relationships, and if that is what works for a person, then they should by all means do it.

A pleasant day Chiyosan, With reference to your main topic discussion, for me, there is no reason to worry about. Being single is not an issue although the age is on the late 20's. As long as you are enjoying what you are doing, satisfied with the results of your effort and getting done the things you need to be done, then there is no grounds or situation you should be worry about. In addition, being single is a blessing, maybe you are aligned to be single for the meantime as God wants to develop more of your talents and mold you to become a more mature individual. Just leave every bits of your life to God. And when the right time comes, He will also make a way for you to meet the right guy. God knows the best for each one of us. We just need to be patient. Enjoy life. Have a stressed-free life.

Age should not be a real issue when it comes to being single but if you are concern about child bearing thats a different story. Women in their middle 30s are high risk for being first time mothers except for some small lucky percentage. Women who are of this generation recognize that career can give them the freedom from being stuck to being fit in the standard mold that woman in the Philippines are placed into.

The fact in our country is that many single women and men(from their late twenties) are suffering from stress now. Maybe they're not worried about their marriage, but their parents, relatives and friends are worried about this. They often ask if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? Or say,see, your friends and classmates are married etc. Besides, people around may always ask, why you are single, do you require too much? So many questions. Or they just talk about this behind your side. That's quite boring.

I think it's a thing of the past.Women now are more career oriented compared to the past where women are confined to be home makers.Most successful women are marrying in their 30's and even 40's.So you really not have to worry.Just enjoy your time as single.When the right time comes and if marriage is for you,it will just come on time.Marriage is very complicated thing.The fact that they are now promoting divorce and renewable marriage license attest to that.

I don't think so that girls at the age of late twenties should get married. .as long as your happy being single and why force yourself to get married if your not yet ready with married life yet. .Just be happy being single . .

Oh please! I am 49 years old and I am still single! I will be froever single! Society puts to much into this! Society puts to much pressure on single people and it is wrong! If a person,woman or man,wants to be be single and wants to be for life,if that is chosen,so be it! They people should honor that person's decison! I chose that and I am happy! As long as a person is happy,why should they worry or other people worry about not being single? It is not good!

It is out of the girls choice that she remained single till her late twenties.The people around her shouldn't trouble her with questions like when she'll get married.Similarly women of this age need not be stressed out as they haven't got themselves hitched to a guy.I think they should take life as it comes calmly and have a steady relationship or marriage if and when they meet the right person.

It is not fair to place an age on when we should be in a relationship. Sometimes we find that special someone at an early age. other times it may be much later in life that our relationship of a lifetime will come along. Being in your twenties and still single should not be something to worry about. there is someone out there for you. the time just hasn't been right yet.

My sister is already in her mid-20s and she's really worried about not having a serious relationship till now. We always advice her not to feel bad about it and that the right man will come at the right time. Going after a man just for the sake of having one will not make things right.

Absolutely! It's really not a case to be bothered about! Women should be as confident as she is when it comes to every aspect of her life. No one can put her down. Soar high, be pretty and confident enough! I love being a woman!

YEs goto enjoy Life before get caught up :)