Are you agree with me? One wrong number may be spoiled your married life

Oh my friend, owlwings took my words right from my mouth. Meaning as I read your discussion and responses his exact words is what I was so ready to respond with. See any couple whether married or not if they do not have a good relationship with trust and communication would not easily assume there was something wrong with this type of call. If I had a caller like this and my partner instantly assume I was in the wrong, that would say to me that there are some serious issues with my relationship. A good relationship as your with your husband would not assume there was anything outside of it being a misunderstand from the caller dialing the wrong number and or perhaps that the number belonged to someone else prior to me getting it from the cell phone company. So what this says to me with regards to your situation is that your husband trusts you, as it should be, where he did not assume anything more then a person bothering you and or that the caller was completely mistaken. Here there are many times a cell phone company and or any land line company issues a phone number that use to belong to someone else. If we begin to get wrong number callers to often we can call the company and they will switch the number for free, especially if it is a fairly new number to us. If I had a partner that assumed I was in the wrong for this type of situation, that would yet more confirm to me that my relationship has been in serious trouble. Any partner that will assume me in the wrong for something like this means either I am seriously insecure to have tolerated it and or have no business being in this type of relationship. Relationships are built on love and trust and not trusting me is not exactly what I can call a relationship, at least not a good one.

No, I don't think that ANY marriage which was worth anything at all could be spoiled by such a thing. If there was no trust in the marriage already, then this kind of call MIGHT just serve as 'the last straw' for anyone who was already looking for an excuse to end the marriage. Let's be quite clear, though! The marriage would already be 'spoiled' long before this kind of incident. Many people are living in unhappy and unsuitable relationships. Sometimes they don't want to even recognise it because to do so would break up what little security they have; sometimes they privately wish for a way out but never actually do anything about it because they know that they would not be able to cope on their own.

Dear friend, It may differ from person to person. If the wife and husband understand each other I feel they any number may come and go as long both of them trust each other. But the phone call reminded me of the news I read in Malayalam news paper where a person who mostly harassed through phone to a women. As you did the women handed over the phone to her husband and her husband changed the call setting that diverted to the Inspector of Police in Cochin in Kerala. The rest was so bitter to reveal that the police caught that man and this was put up in the newspaper. I feel it would be better to be careful when attending and calling strangers.

if there is not proper understanding and proper way of living and respect to each other then there will be a problem.Should always be careful while we give away our mobile numbers to outside people who arent the family or friends.Should always note down the names and numbers so that we can gues who it is.Be always brave ,sometimes tackle the problem by our own.

Hello surekha! There's really no need for your husband to be worried about. It's clearly wrong number or somebody just want to joke through phone. If I were you, don't ever answer it anymore till whoever it is gets tired. Enjoy your new phone!

Yes talkative women you are right wrong number or sms both can be spoiled our life. Even the husband trust on wife but when call is came again and again from same number at least once their mind changed why it is coming.. But in between husband and wife trust is most important factor for happy life..

I really think that if a marriage were ended or even in trouble over a single wrong number then it is a fragile marriage that is probably going to end anyway. I can't even imagine this being an issue in a marriage but I suppose it could be for some.

Actually, my husband would be one of the people that would think that something like this was really funny if it was to happen to us. You see, he just got a new cellular phone a few months ago and since he's gotten it, he has gotten all kinds of calls for someone named Shamika and he just tells them that he has no clue who Shamika is and will hang the phone up. I think that is the best thing that you can do when you are constantly getting wrong number calls.

Hello, one more interesting discussion from you. Indeed marriage is a relation of mutual trust. Here in no room for any type of suspecion. If a wife or husband think in wrong way for this type of non-sense instance it means they have not trust in each other. Did you see old Hamraj or Apki Kaeam movie. These movies are on this topic.

I can see that your husband trusts you, you come across as a loving trusting person. As far as the phone calls, if that is a new number that you have, that means that maybe someone else had that number before you. I have had that happen to me before. I just hang up the phone. What you could do is call the phone company sand have them block that number that keeps calling you.

I have such incident few months ago with text messages. The person who was texting me all the time asking for meeting. First I ignored all the text but later the person started calling me. So I decided to text back and I wrote " Live me alone". The person was a man. He started to be really weird and I had enough. I text him " I'm her husband. If you text her again I will find you and break all your bones" The man text me back " Sorry man. I did not know she was taken". That was very absurd situation.

that's good that your husband trusted you...just do the same when same incident will happen again!!!good for you also because your husband is so understanding mostly of men nowadays are very jealous just always be honest to your husband and show him your love...god bless