Why do people moan about others and yet they are the first person that
By joystick
@joystick (1675)
September 25, 2011 6:42am CST
sucks up to the person that they have been moaning about.This crazes me, it seems that it is always the same person that moans about a person, yet they are the first person to go out of the way for the person that they moan about.Why moan about people in the first place.
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@joystick (1675)
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3 Oct 11
I have just found another one that i have known for years that is two faced.This person will be the same no matter what as when confronted they usually say things like, you know that i am to soft for my own good.To me that is no excuse, also they hide the fact that they are friends with the person they have back stabbed all the time and when they are stuck or seen with the person they make an excuse.
@celticeagle (189988)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Sep 11
Rellly! Why is that? People are so self serving now days. They don't want to be thought bad of so they will be plastic and even nice to your face even though they are moaning about you constantly. People are hard on one another. Life is short and we only go through it once.
@joystick (1675)
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3 Oct 11
I think there will always be people that will moan about other people, but most people do not go out of their way to chat to the person they have been moaning about, neither do they invite them to their house for a chat or what they call is a catch up.Some people are really two faced no matter what and these kinds of people tend to upset the wrong people.Even people that you have known years tend to sometimes be the two faced people.
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@celticeagle (189988)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Oct 11
THis is true. And there will always be those that don't strive to be anything but gossipers and moaners. Sadly so.
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
26 Sep 11
I think people do this for a few reasons. Some people are two faced. They say one thing and then turn around and do something totaly different! I worked with a cook like that! He was so bad he was scared of one woman who was not nice at all and turns around acting like they are best friends! I heard he did this so she would not do anything nasty to him! She was nasty! She known to scratch people's cars with her car keys,find out where everyone lived and drove by their homes to check out what their residents looked like.Then brag her home was better when it realy wasn't! If she got ticked off,sometimes,she would go without weeks not spaeking to some people! She spread vicious rumors about some people just to piss them off! She was are baker! A lousey one at that and the boss,not the cook I mentioned before, was scared of her too! He let her set her own hours and treat everyone in the kitchen like dirt! She finally got fired when she scared the crap out of one of employees in the kitchen abd wrote out a report on her! Then our boss got everyone in the kitchen to tell our stories on how bad the witch really was! Then she was reorted to HUman Services and was finally fired! So I think do it because they are two faced and scared!
@joystick (1675)
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3 Oct 11
I think some people do it, as they feel either under threat of having a person not like them, or that they are a user when it come to their friends.You always knew when this person had been caught out, as they would try to be really nice to you.Some people that are your true friends would say what another person had said, if they know that you would be angry if you found out other ways.I hate two faced people that tend to lie all the time, thinking that they will not get found out.
@jugsjugs (12967)
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25 Sep 11
I know a person, well a few people that are like that as well, i will say that i tend not to see some of them any more.I feel that these are the people that are known for telling a load of lies as well, best to let people like that get on with their lives, rather than entertain them,lol.
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
25 Sep 11
It is like they are two faced and I do not enjoy keeping this type of company. They moan about the person and then they to a sense are patting them on the back. I prefer to distance myself from people like this as who knows they might be moaning about me then sitting down to admire my wonderful cooking. lol
@joystick (1675)
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3 Oct 11
You are right there and i will say, that certain people have used the excuse for the way they are is, you know me im to soft and can not be nasty and not talk to them.These are the people that are forever doing this to people and they also say things behind other peoples backs and then they have to think why people make excuses why they can not see them.
@henkiprananda (2729)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 11
can you explain it with simple language?, well, my english is so bad.
thank's...
@jugsjugs (12967)
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25 Sep 11
lol, i think that what joystick is saying, is that there are people out there that moan about other people, yet they make out as if they are the persons friend when they see them.In other words these people are very two faced, or they are friends or people that we can do without.
@henkiprananda (2729)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 11
haha, sorry jugsjugs. i less of words about english. so i can't understand full of the discussion.
