Do you prefer your birthday cake's with candles?

Helicopter Birthday Cake - The latest cake from my talented daughter Helen!
@oldchem1 (8132)
September 30, 2011 7:05am CST
My eldest daughter utilises her fabulous talent to make celebration cakes for many people. She makes cakes for weddings, birthdays, anniversary's etc. While I think these cakes are truly beautiful, I wonder what happened to the traditional candles in birthday cakes - especially for children's cakes. Modern birthday cakes tend to be themed (like this latest helicopter cake that she has just finished) and have no space for candles, what do you think? Would you prefer a themed cake like this or a traditional one with candles?
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@Informer (802)
• India
30 Sep 11
Hi Friend, There are many people who love to have candles on their B'day cakes. I don't like to have any (Who Want to have 25+ candles on B'day cakes lol!!) as they do not good to me. And Sometime mix with cake to make its look bad. lol...
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@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
25 - you are just a spring chicken!! I will need 61 candles on my next birthday cake So your cake will be a candleless one! Do you have a special design that you would like??
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@Informer (802)
• India
30 Sep 11
I hate the Heart Shape. I just prefer to have it simple or in round shape like my life, a full zero.. lol.
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
2 Oct 11
Wow that is such a lovely cake. Your daughter is truly talented. In cakes like that, putting in a candle would really hurt me, even cutting it! The last time we bought cake was of a cat. It was so cute I didn't wanna eat t at all. It was so perfect. But we did eat it LOL And I am ok with any cake, candle or not. But i do anyhow light candles on my birthday, even if they are not on the cake, just at the side :)
@oldchem1 (8132)
2 Oct 11
Yes I do agree about these cakes seeming to pretty to cut or alter by placing candles on them; and I also agree that most people do like to have candles to blow out when celebrating a birthday, so some on the side are a good idea!
• Romania
1 Oct 11
I think that candles shaped into numbers are a good idea. By using them, the birthday cake won't be covered by a bunch of candles and you can still have a themed cake for your birthday.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
Yes I agree, unless the cake is for a VERY young child these seem to be the perfect solution!
@globaldoc (858)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
I think it really does not matter. It is just a meaning that for each year, a candle is represented, by its being lighted. I think I am not really that into cakes anyway.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
oh you know that you want a nice cake really!!!!
@minimoyz (277)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
I prefer cakes without candles because it's clean to look at and sanitary too. When a kid with a colds and flu will blow the candle, the virus will be transferred to the cake and thus this will be the start of an outbreak. LOL just kidding maybe outbreak is so exaggerated. But I think you get what I mean. Better to make cakes as simple as they can be.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
I see what you mean, big blows can mean big bugs spread all over the cake!!!!!
@tedkur (21)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 11
for me the most important thing is not the cake. it's enough if someone shake my hand and tell happy birthday to me. but if somebody come to me and bring a birthday cake of course i will accept it. with candle or not it doesn't matter, but i prefer with no candle.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
Nice sentiments!! So you are in the 'no candle brigade', the 'candle brigade' seem to be in the majority so far!
@prasanta (1948)
• India
30 Sep 11
Dear friend, I always used to prefer it without candles. I mean since the time, I developed my senses. Reason is why some petrochemical should directly contaminate my food? But honestly, I always failed to communicate my thoughts, and surrendered to traditional public will -- after all these are entertaining occasions mostly for the guests. I think not keeping candles on cakes is a very good idea.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
18th Birthday Cake - a cake in the numbers 18
It is a difficult decision - to candle or not to candle!! This cake is one my daughter made yesterday for an 18th birthday, and yes I can see that candles could take away from the look of the cake - perhaps we should have a small plain cake just for the candles and have the best of both worlds1!
• United States
30 Sep 11
Themed cakes are a great way to showcase one's talents as your daughter does. But I think I'd prefer more cake and candles compared to a fancy themed one. I'd imagine a creation like her's runs alot more than your standard square cake with decorations.
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
Yes they're not cheap due to the amount of work and hours that go into making them, and as I said earlier, I think they're too good to cut!!!
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
1 Oct 11
Birthday boys - Blowing of birthday cake follows soon after.
I admire your daughter's skill! I've been dreaming to have baking skills but not yet very successful. Maybe someday when I devote enough time in studying then I could be the best baker in town. Now for a birthday cake, I still prefer one with candles because it is always my delight to make a wish then blow the candles during birthday celebration. I also want my guests to sing birthday song for me after the blowing of candles. It sounds quite childish but honestly I always believe that blowing of candles should always be part of any birthday celebration.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
I hope that one day you achieve your ambition! I actually used to make and decorate the cakes myself before I handed the business and equipment over to my daughter. It is not childish to enjoy blowing out candles it is a tradition that we have grown up with!
@Keola12 (799)
• United States
1 Oct 11
Personally, I prefer my birthday cake to be beautifully decorated, in addition to having candles. There should be a balance.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
I think that this is probably the best option, depending on your age and how many candles you need . It would have to be a VERY big cake to hold my candles!!!!!
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
30 Sep 11
To me it just isn't a birthday cake without candles to blowout to mark the occasion. You are never too old to blow out the candles on your birthday cake. Admitting the numbe of candles can be the hard part.
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
So true, and the older we get the less puff we have but the more candles we have!! Think I'll need a fire extinguisher this year!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
• United States
30 Sep 11
Firstly I have seen the photos and have to add that your daughter if very talented. As for themed cakes I find them best for children. However, there can be themed adults cakes too. I wouldn't mind a plain one and numbered candles would be fine, as somehow I can't see a cake full of loads of candles, there may be a fire with the high numbered ones. lol
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
60th birthday cake - A cake for a 60 year old man
There would certainly be a fire with my birthday cake - this year I would need 61 candles!! With regards to adult themed cakes, Helen does many of those - this is a picture of one for a 60 year old man she made recently!
• India
1 Oct 11
The cake is beautiful and you daughter is talented indeed! Coming back to the question - yes, since we are so used to the candles...birthday seems incomplete without it. However, the candles can be placed alongside the cake but, its up to each individuals preferences. I would certainly prefer blowing the candles even if one day I have to blow around 70! :)
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
Beatles Birthday Cake - A birthday cake for Beatles fans
In the past I have made similar cakes to these (my daughter took over from my cake making business) when I had placed candles on the cake board; however with so many of Helen' cakes the board is an intrigal part of the cake - as with this one for a Beatles fan, I don't see where she could have placed 65 candles!!
• Australia
1 Oct 11
I don't really mind. It is just candles to blow out, the wish part isn't true but if it was in the middle of the night for some lighting decoration then yes i would prefer candles.
@oldchem1 (8132)
1 Oct 11
I think that the blowing out of candles is a good birthday tradition that I personally would be sad to lose!
@Nadinest1 (2016)
• Canada
30 Sep 11
I think a traditional cake(or any chocolate sweet desert) would be fine with me. It seems that so much hard work goes into these beautiful cakes, that it is a shame to actually eat them. The people that make them say: that's what I make them for, but I feel it is sad.
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
I always think that! When I see some of the creations that my daughter makes I really do wonder how people can bear to cut into the cake!!
@marguicha (215397)
• Chile
1 Nov 11
Baby Sofía´s birthday - My granddaugter´s Sofía´s birthday cake. Their parents places a candle for each month so everyone could blow.
In my family we like candles and thinking up three wishes before blowing them. Even when the child is a baby, we all blow after we sing Happy Birthday. Once, many years ago, I made a house cake for one of my daughters. Even there, at the top of the roof, there were the candles. I would not feel it was a birthday party without them.
@emptydb (80)
30 Sep 11
I prefer the traditional one with candles when it's his/her first, 60th birthday something like that, the occasion that needs candle to be blown for a wish or wishes but there are themed cakes that can have candles on it since it will be made personal as to what it should look like for what the celebrants want...stylish, thin candles that can be perfectly match on these themed cakes.
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
I have also used those candles that area shaped into numbers. For my son's 15th birthday I put a number 1 and number 5 candle on his cake!
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
9 Aug 12
hi, themed cakes is the modern cakes now a days,most of the children choose those themed cakes especially when their favorite character is draw their,but for me its more especial when the cake have candles because it will show the real spirit of the cake.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
30 Sep 11
prefer to have a nice cake but also I have candles. For me this is very nice. to have such a beautiful cake is that the picture prakrasna also very nice. candles are also quite traditional to me like. nice day!
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
yes I do love candles in a birthday cake, however at my grand old age I would be likely to set the house on fire!!!
• India
30 Sep 11
actually birthdays are very good moments and like to share it with loved ones. so i like it to be with candles and want to blow them off with my love. i'm waiting for it.
@oldchem1 (8132)
30 Sep 11
I hope than that when your birthday comes around you get a lovely big cake - complete wit candles!