long distance realtionship? how stable and strong?
By evanfred0219
@evanfred0219 (209)
Philippines
October 4, 2011 10:13pm CST
with my present relationship, me and my boyfriend experienced long-distanced relationship. when i was in college we seldom see each other because he was working in a hotel that time in a different city and im studying in the other city. we just texted and called each other. but within this span of time, we still made it to 6yrs. after i graduated we spend each time with each others company in a span of 1 yr then he got the opportunity to work abroad. eventhough it's a 10month work contract still it's a long time to be apart with each other. with the trust we put on each other, the respect we vow to each other, we are still holding on to our promises. and now, it will be days when he comes back. how about you? are you experiencing long distance relationship?
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4 responses
@motskimotski (17)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
my friend we have the same problem..even though there are lots of temptations but if you really love the person nothing will go the wrong way. TRUST is the foundation and never think of any negative feelings, it'll just ignite the curiosity and you will find ways to prove him/her being a failure in the relationship, in the end you will end up losing him/her. nobody's perfect but let's make the most out of the relationships we have and make it fruitful and productive...matsalam..
@evanfred0219 (209)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
yeah i agree with you motskimotski. temptations are everywhere,but if we truly love the person, temptations are almost invisible.:)
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
I am into same situation right now.
I love someone who is in a far land.
Trust is the main thing in this kind of relationship.
Without trust, the relationship will not work and love will surely fade away.
Keep the love burning with trust and honesty.
have a good day 
@evanfred0219 (209)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
yeah, i agree. TRUST is the main ingredient in a long distance relationships. :)
@totallyundecided (3190)
• Philippines
5 Oct 11
i am currently in a long distance relationship. its really hard to be in this kind of situation. its hard to express yourself thru text or phone especially if we are on an arguement. It is indeed challenging but it is possible. Thanks to the internet ofcourse 
. we are on our 5th year and we are both looking forward to be with each other soon. And i love him more everyday. 
. we are on our 5th year and we are both looking forward to be with each other soon. And i love him more everyday. @evanfred0219 (209)
• Philippines
5 Oct 11
yeah, one thing that i've observed of long distance relationships is both tend to minimize arsing any aguements. because of what you have said, it's difficult to express one's feelings. but the good thing with this is the relationship has less arguements. one thing also is that one opens more in discussions about likes and dislikes of the other because when you are texting or calling every now and then, you tend to run out of topics, so topics mostly focus on both of you. it's what i've experienced.;-)
@ayeshashahid (1)
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7 Oct 11
well i have had two experiences with long distance relations.they have been painful. because the guys betrayed me....:(
@evanfred0219 (209)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
hi ayeshashahid!. don't fall out of love just because you've been hurt by them. just think positive and trust GOD. maybe you haven't found the guy that's really for you. maybe that experiences happened for a purpose.:)
