I love a mylotter.

@shibham (16977)
India
October 7, 2011 11:08am CST
Hi everyone.. Shocked by the title? Be sure, really, i love a mylotter. I don't know does she love me or not? Well, i don't know anything about her, her family, her community, her complexion,(as she has not uploaded her picture here)... nothing about her, but still i feel that i love her (promise). She is unmarried... i am sure and i am too. She is really supportive towards me and if she does not visit mylot, makes me worried (perhaps its the love). I always need her around mylot. Hey, i cant disclose her name. but please help me, how can i proceed? how can i tell? Am i wrong here to love a mylotter? Always i feel, mylot is my own world? Please help. Please help. Have you ever feel that you are in love with a mylotter without his/her awareness? Please help me, how i can say her that "i love you" N.B.- Admn. I am serious here. Its my life related issue. Please dont delete this discussion if i have done anything wrong.
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20 responses
@khare_1005 (1310)
• India
17 Oct 11
oh dear,how could i have miss this post? my bro is in love?wow and he didn't tell me before.why? i guess the one whom you love must have come across this post of yours and now knows it very well that you love her.you see feelings if true,are always mutual.there is some chemistry working at both the ends.as i have advice you before,don't rush into her and give her some time to decide.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Oct 11
Yes yes, i am sure that she has visited this discussion but not sure has she guessed my feelings or not? No, rush. Actually waiting for the proper time. have a nice time.
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Oct 11
I have downloaded her picture but exactly not sure is she there? How are my niece?
• India
18 Oct 11
ok bro all the best, but be careful about the advice given to you as you won't be knowing the real face behind the screen until and unless you get to see that one in person.
• China
9 Oct 11
I think you should tell her. Even if she doesn't feel the same way, there is no need to worry about breaking your friendship. I think a girl won't hate a man who loves her. If the man knows she doesn't love him and he still want to cross the line, that is the thing which is really disturbing. So if she doesn't love you, just let her know that you can be a good friend. Besides, I think she might be know how you are feeling cuz your love seems so strong to me. Maybe she's just not so sure and waiting for you to tell her. Anyway, best of luck to you!
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@shibham (16977)
• India
10 Oct 11
Oh friend.. I am still afraid off ...... i dont know how will i react? i am still in puzzle. Actually, being truth.... i really love her although i have not seen her. I am blind for her and ready to marry her at any cost, if she agree and i am damn sure i will make her happy beyond her imagination. take care.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 11
Love does not come unexpected. And now you have, a unique love story. You've never seen his face, but you seem very confident, to the love you feel. I do not know, what advice should I give. Did he come from the same country with you?
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 11
Wow. That's very good. You can send a message, and invited to meet. But, you must make sure, she has not had a partner.
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Oct 11
Yes, we have same country.
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Oct 11
Have a nice time.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
She haven't uploaded a photo? Are you sure of it? then...shall I cancel the arranged marriage you asked me to do for you?
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 11
So you act as the marriage broker for Shibham? Finally he found a sweetie in mylot and it seems that he is writing his own love story here now. [em]thumbup
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@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
@didi, she already have rejected me. lol and moreover, you are too late as i am already in feelings. @zan. Not my own love story but need all of your blessings and help to share about my married life with a mylotter. have a nice time to both of you.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
He asked me to do a favor..I never volunteer.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
22 Oct 11
Hi amigo! I guess I now have the clue why until now you are not yet married,hehe! I don't know if it's really LOVE you're feeling amigo as you are so repulsive to a sudden feelings you are having. But if it's really love you're feeling now,I'm happy for you. Just a piece of advice though,be sure of your feelings first and be true to yourself and her.
@shibham (16977)
• India
23 Oct 11
Hi amiga. you too. i also dont know whether its a love or something random feelings. have a nice time. hugs to crystal.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
25 Oct 11
hahahaha... nice description of a lover's feeling. I dont think i am like that one in sort. take care.
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• Philippines
23 Oct 11
Let me tell you about love amigo,this is actually based on my hubby's experience,since he is a man,I suppose you have common feelings: If you always think of the girl from time to time,you love her. If she is the last person in your mind before sleeping,that's love. If she is the first person in your mind when you wake up,that's love. If you happen to be happy for an achievement,your happiness will not be complete if you don't tell or share it to her. If you like talking about her even to your friends,you love her. If you always want to see or talk to her,that's love. If you don't see or txt her in a day,your day seems incomplete,you love her. Those are just examples of love you should be feeling towards your "she" amigo. If you feel those things towards her,then you must really be in love.
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
hi shiby, It is good to know that someone who doesn't know what LOVE IS found someone to love For me it is better to take a risk rather than not telling your feelings it can be a minute of embarrassment or a life time regrets. Love is not always a two way street we can't force the person to love us back lucky those who love and love in return best of luck happy mylotting
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Oct 11
So what is your advice? Should i say her "i love you"? Nice day too.
@shibham (16977)
• India
21 Oct 11
If she is ready to accept my " i love you", then be sure i am ready to marry her. Nothing can hinder me.
• Philippines
18 Oct 11
it depends upon you what you really feel about her if you can bear the consequences of your actions then why not It is better to put serious action with this rather than just saying I LOVE YOU Best of Luck
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
7 Oct 11
Hullo SHibham! I guess this is one of your stories . You had written many earlier but now this has you in it as the main character. I feel you have written it all in jest.
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
No didi, not a jest, i am serious here. really i love a mylotter. i feel she is supportive towards me. have a nice time.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
7 Oct 11
She will be back ; don't worRY. She must have got totally scared with your earlier avataar.
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
If i would know that, never put such an avatar.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Oct 11
Shibam! It appears to me that you were looking for an interesting topic to start a new post and you would have thought nothing could be better than a 'mylot love story'. . You already have many responses/suggestions (before me). On a serious Note - one sided love could not be considered as serious love. Till you get to know about real her and her feelings, there is no use or fun in falling for her if you do not know her side of story (remember she is an unknown/unseen mylotter). This may be your figment on your own imagination that she has developed a soft corner for you, therefore she might be interested in you. I am afraid you may not be correct. I am not at all discouraging you, if you really have feelings for her, you really need to go deep into it and explore her further. All the best to you.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
18 Oct 11
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Oct 11
hahaha... no it was not my intention anymore. lol Sometimes, if someone seems caring and supportive to you, then s/he feels that the other person in love with you. Practically, you cant be sure, a friend may show same attitude. Hence, we should not jump to a decision in hurry. Lets forget it as a joke. Take care dude.
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 11
wow..that is so surprising for me Sibhie just make a chat further like try to invite her in your facebook accoun. there you can know more about her friend and her family good luck to you
@shibham (16977)
• India
25 Oct 11
hmmm... nice idea ifa.... let me chat with her even more than now. Have a nice time.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
13 Oct 11
I can see how you could develop a love for someone from myLot. There are a ton of great people here and we talk all talk about a lot of stuff that can develop strong relationships. I'm not sure how to proceed for you. Maybe PM her a couple of times and see if that's ok. Then if it is..maybe you two could start emailing each other. Good luck!
@shibham (16977)
• India
13 Oct 11
Hi jen... That love is no more i think. after starting this discussion she is almost missing from mylot. So, how can i dare to PM her. have a nice time.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
15 Oct 11
Be warned shibham. This person who you say you are in love could be for all you know an old lady, married or whatever. It is never wise to have fantasies in the virtual world.
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Oct 11
hi friend. Thanks for your caution but we share over phone too and mail and chat engine also use... so i think i am not so wrong if she has not lied. have a nice time.
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Oct 11
Your doubt is right. mails or phone calls never go to that point where i can ask her something private.
@allknowing (130067)
• India
17 Oct 11
"Well, i don't know anything about her, her family, her community, her complexion,(as she has not uploaded her picture here)... nothing about her, but still i feel that i love her (promise)." This is what you have said in your topic and I wonder what mail she sends or you talk to each other about. It is still a virtual contact and virtual contacts are dangerous if they do not open up.
@sanofer (525)
• India
7 Oct 11
very interesting love story.you dont know anything about her and you didnt see her yet. Before speaking with that girl just check ask yourself whether your love is strong and whether you will accept her however she looks and will i find something wrong with her status etc. If you are able to answer yourself go ahead. Hope your love is true and she will accept your love. All the best.
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
Yes, I am ready to accept her whatever she looks like, Its not a matter at all because i do believe that love starts from heart... My love is true but unable to expose to her. Help needed. Nice time ahead.
@shibham (16977)
• India
10 Oct 11
All risky brother. huh
@sanofer (525)
• India
8 Oct 11
first check did she have the same feeling for you.did she miss you,if you are not online.if it so,be bold and say your feelings towards.no love has won at first attempt.so try,try and try hard and achieve.make her to feel comfortable with you and see that she believes you.one advice.please be truthful to her because girls dont belieave in online realationship.hope you will succeed and my prayers are with you.all the best friend:)
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
Wow, this is really interesting to know! I haven't thought of this that a mylotter will eventually fall in love with another. I don't know if it's you who started a discussion sometime the last few weeks about if ever a mylotter falls in love with another one and would it be possible. But whoever that is who put up that discussion, got an answer with you! I just hope that she, whoever that is, gets to feel that you love her! I'm giddy to what will happen after she had known about it. But of course, if you want to tell her how you feel, I think it's better to know her first, at least how she looks like or what's her background, such basics. Because that's essential. Maybe you're just really overwhelmed with the feeling of her kindness, support and care. But if you truly feel the love, I have no right to be against it. Good luck and let us know what happens next! I'm so thrilled!
@shibham (16977)
• India
12 Oct 11
Hi friend... Yes, i started a discussion like you have mentioned earlier but not same, it was about a dream and online love. But here i am saying that it really happens and i feel someone around me. How can i know her first? Already, it seems that she have got an idea and moved away from mylot. May be you are right, i am overwhelmed. Lets think what should i do further. Thanks and have a nice day.
@rollylolly (2843)
• India
7 Oct 11
So you are back to form I mean with a profile picture . Hey don't keep us in suspense please disclose . It never happened with me till now . But little risky as you know nothing about her and don't even see her profile picture . If you don't tell her how can things go ahead . Hope all goes well . Best of luck
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
Hi... I had always a profile picture but sue i was a zombie earlier. No, i cant disclose, huh. lol yes, risky but i think she also loves me. Not sure, but i think. How can i proceed, please help. Thanks for the wishes. have a nice time.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
Sure. Sure. Sure. Please.
• India
7 Oct 11
I have got a brilliant idea Would you like to know ????????
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 11
Oh...you've been struck by the cupid arrow? If you know how to play your cards you will win her over. Good luck to you.
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
I dont know Zandi, Really. Please help... i know she loves me too ( although, guess) Help. Have a nice time.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
8 Oct 11
wow love can develop here too! well, get to know her more.. like personally.. or find ways to talk to her more. goodluck!
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Oct 11
Obviously jazel. Do you not think so? Personally. Hmmmm.. better idea. have a nice time.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
9 Oct 11
And you didn't even tell me about her, Shiby? How rude.
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Oct 11
Yes, always i am.
• United States
7 Oct 11
How sweet that you find yourself in love with someone from myLot! The only thing I can suggest is that you PM and continue the friendship, informing her that you are in love without as much as communicating and or finding out how she too feels maybe a bit awkward for her at first. However, she may not feel the same about you, or she might. The only way to know is to communicate and see how it goes. However, be sure to express to her that if she does not feel the same way, that you still want to continue the friendship. Let her know that is important to you. Perhaps with time if she does not feel the same way, she might grow to love you. As for me, no I have not felt that way about any myLotter outside of caring on a friendship level. It is not wrong to feel this way as this is how relationship do start. Best of luck!
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Oct 11
Yes HWG, its true that i love a mylotter but dont know about her feelings. Yes, its hard to communicate with her having a passionate feelings. She may misunderstand me and it will really bother me always. So, trying to enhance the friendship rather than telling the truth. Have a nice time.
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
7 Oct 11
hi pal, learn how to differentiate love from infatuation, it's just a friendly suggestion,well if you really feel that way, then why not get to know her more and be true to yourself and tell her what you feel, yeah and don't forget to tell us who she is(just kidding) sorry i did not read you did not want to disclose her name, good luck on your plans
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Oct 11
Hi dear. I am here only for friend's suggestion. I never do mind. How can i ask her as we are related here friendly although i have some feeling towards her. Its not a plan pal, need help from all of you to make my love succeeded. have a nice time.
@prokat (229)
7 Oct 11
Haloww my handsome friend, I think there is nothing wrong with love, be it age, religion, race, 'distance', love is magic, love is grace. You did nothing wrong at all, the problem is how dare you express how much you love about it, if it is my I will immediately say hey I love you, you must be brave, and I'm sure this does not violate the rules here. Gather your courage and face challenges in front of you..!!! But look at my article 'distance' if it was not an obstacle for you..???
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Oct 11
Love is magic, i am agree with you. No, i am not so brave at all to say her immediately that "i love you". very hard task to me. Distance is not an obstacle anymore. Have a nice time.