That's Karma for you,Jerk! :(
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
Philippines
October 8, 2011 11:39am CST
I knew it was coming, i just think it would be sooner..
Sometimes I can't help figuring if it was my fault that I introduced him to her when we were back in college. he seemed to be a good guy at first and matured. we weren't really that close but he turned out alright a bit and then things went by as they develop a relationship. she had a crush on him first. though, i had feelings for her, i decided to throw it out because STUDIES where more important.And the thought of her being way too much for me and too good on you, was perfect.
After Graduation, I had no communication between the both of you. It seems like am just another guy and always out of the loop. But after six years of your relationship, he just Threw it all away just for some Woman who match your figure of beauty. he didn't even give a damn whether you and your (ex) lover had a child.
[i]But now, I saw that the girl you replace our friend with DUMPED you, I think it was necessary because I thought you were mature, but you're a JERK. you deserved it my friend.
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Do you think good looking guys are mostly jerks?
I ca be good looking, but looking good INSIDE is best suited first
sheesh, they had a child..
[i]But now, I saw that the girl you replace our friend with DUMPED you, I think it was necessary because I thought you were mature, but you're a JERK. you deserved it my friend.
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Do you think good looking guys are mostly jerks?
I ca be good looking, but looking good INSIDE is best suited first
sheesh, they had a child..1 person likes this
7 responses
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
8 Oct 11
Some do not realize what they have until it is long gone. Others realize that what they had, had to go because it wasn't good. Love doesn't always show us truth.
If they didn't love each other anymore and fought, then it is better they don't stay together for the child. It is sad though..
I am not sorry for the man if he cheated and then the one he chose left him. What goes around comes around and at times.. ten fold.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
8 Oct 11
I believe that's true. People don't realize what they had until it is gone. I'm going through that now.. a friend (platonic) and I were very close.. we even worked together. I was his right had, as he told everyone anyway. We had a falling out because he refused to listen to me.. he abused me verbally and threatened me.. the wrong thing to do. Now he wants to play nice and get me back... I'm done. Karma bit him in the butt. He will have to move on without me. I have the software he needs to go on with his business. I bought it and now he will have to buy his own.
@Youreyes4Today (2356)
• United States
8 Oct 11
It sure bit him in the butt and wallet, it sounds like. Thing is people do not realize that when you get upset you need to stop, think and then start to make sure what you say isn't going to take away what you have. Apparently your friend didn't see it that way. The being nice now, to me sounds like he wants things you have and built together before the fall out including material items. IF not sincere then its a game to get what he wants from you and then will be gone again.. I stand with you.. let him buy his own and deal with business on his own.. Nobody deserves to be walked on NOBODY... You know him well enough to know the difference of what he wants from you... Do what is best.. Hugss n Prayers..
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Hello
Youreyes4today, I think they didn't really have much conflict, except the fact that the guy cheated on her so many times already.In my knowledge, i don't think they fought much but because the guy cheated on her, and that's that. unfortunately in this situation i can only hope that she just move on. have a nice day.


Youreyes4today, I think they didn't really have much conflict, except the fact that the guy cheated on her so many times already.In my knowledge, i don't think they fought much but because the guy cheated on her, and that's that. unfortunately in this situation i can only hope that she just move on. have a nice day.


@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
9 Oct 11
It just boomeranged, that's all. " What thou sowest, thou reapest "

LOL!

LOL!1 person likes this
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Hello Louievill, oh,well stuff like that really happens. though i think they fit together but he never should have courted our friend in the place if he's going to find some one else better for him. have a nice day.



@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
11 Oct 11
Yep. Most of them let their good looks go to their head and they think they can get by with anything. I look inside first now in people too.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Hello
Stephcjh, It's sad though that these people only rely on some good looks and the guys only prey on pretty woman, and use or discriminate women that are not pretty. as for the insides, i think more people would consider hiding and revealing it later. have a nice day.

Stephcjh, It's sad though that these people only rely on some good looks and the guys only prey on pretty woman, and use or discriminate women that are not pretty. as for the insides, i think more people would consider hiding and revealing it later. have a nice day.

@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
9 Oct 11
What comes around goes around and I believe he deserves it.
I also believe that most good looking guys are really jerks especially for those guys who are really good in sales talk who can fool many girls as much as they can. Because of course their looks are big advantage to attract people. The problem there is on how other people handle it. Some are just totally concern with their physical attributes without knowing what is inside. But there are still some people or women who are sensible enough to prioritize on what is inside rather than looks.
But nowadays it is not only the good looking guys who are jerks. I know many guys who are downright ugly but as long as they are really best in sales talk and they have strong and challenging personality, chances are they can still fool many women as they can make them also cry to the extent that they can be also a womanizer. Not only that, they can really have the most beautiful girls that are hot chic and look like a model.
You know the mentality of other guys, it is part of their ego booster to have many beautiful girls as they can no matter if they already have a kid with that woman or they tend to offend them as they don't really care about it as long as they will commit the victory that they want.
Sad to say if that is always the case then I don't really believe that LOVE is involved there. When you are loving a person it is not just about admiring the physical attributes and make them satisfy your needs inside your body. It has many important elements such us responsibility, trust, honesty, humility, and other good more traits that is important in relationship because those traits can define for being the REAL MAN. As I could see I can't really think that he is man enough to be a husband and a father. @LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Hello
metatronik, am sure more people had that kind of experience as well. the problem as well is that most girls prefer good looking guys and doesn't care who are they on the inside. unfortunately, being a bachelor and having so many girls isn't really gonna make you happy, the best thing is you find the ONE and spent the rest of your life with. have a nice day.

metatronik, am sure more people had that kind of experience as well. the problem as well is that most girls prefer good looking guys and doesn't care who are they on the inside. unfortunately, being a bachelor and having so many girls isn't really gonna make you happy, the best thing is you find the ONE and spent the rest of your life with. have a nice day.

@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
9 Oct 11
Everybody deserves their fate. And my granny used to say: God makes a delay but doesn't forget. And what lesson do you get? It's up for you to decide. Studies are important, work carrier too. But you know, sometimes you can meet your match in this life and not recognise him or her. And I believe that this happens only once, if ever.
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Hello fannitia, In my experience and my state of life today, I really don't think i will ever meet up and see her, if she does exist. I bet i won't be her choice if time comes that she and I would meet. yeah, meeting your soul mate would probably once in a life time. have a nice day.

@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
8 Oct 11
I'm a strong believer in what goes around comes back around to bite you in the butt. This guy got what he deserved.. it was only right that he got a taste of his own medicine. I'm sorry for your friend. I hope she knows you are there for her as a friend, if nothing more.
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@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
13 Oct 11
Hello Pointless-Q, I agree with you that once that situation has bitten you back, there is no chance for you to reconcile but to move on. I have been talking to her lately and she doesn't mind as long as she got a company for her. have a nice day.


@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
11 Oct 11
hi LK,
Most guy blinded by physical appearance
Well he deserved it, if you just tell her your feelings she might not end up in that way
but we can't do anything now it already happened
you just choose to have a better future to finish your studies
happy mylotting

Well he deserved it, if you just tell her your feelings she might not end up in that way
but we can't do anything now it already happened
you just choose to have a better future to finish your studies
happy mylotting








