Do not run away from reality!
By didi13
@didi13 (2926)
Romania
November 5, 2011 1:19pm CST
We happen often, but not many who would recognize this. Sometimes, however we are involved in our projects happen to not have the power to complete them. And because it's easier and comforting, often adopt the attitude is that to blame anyone, except ourselves. Can we learn to go to complete what we want?
Sometimes happens to us all to give up the projects we are involved. Even when it's something we really wanted. Sometimes things seem to be more difficult than believed, less tempting than I hoped. But worse is that for some people, this attitude can become a way of life. Why can not carry out what you started and how to solve this problem?
Cease to flee from reality because of something you have complete the proposed means to face with reality. Even so, the results are not always safe, as we wait for that, often, fear of failure and desire to protect us from disappointment are the causes for delayed or give up what we wanted.
Sometimes, not afraid of reality, the results that we might have, we can abandon our plans, but the fear of ourselves. In some cases, those who do so are restrained by the thought that can do anything, everything seems possible when it has not yet been brought to an end. But the effort it requires completion of an activity makes us face our capabilities. Keeping them in the state of desire leaves us still believe that we are very valuable. Fear of making mistakes prevents us from facing our true qualities and defects, to deal, in fact reality. Which is not always pleasant and friendly to us.
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@curmont (343)
• United States
5 Nov 11
This is reality sometimes things will go our way and sometimes they wont, yes it is easier to blame someone or something else when things do not work out the way we want but no one can lie to themselves forever. Eventually you will have to accept the reason why things did not work out and when you do you will learn a valuable lesson towards making things work better the next time around.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Nov 11
curmont my son taught me this if you fail try try again but in a different way each time til you do succeed. so m any just keeping do the same damned error over and over when with a b it of experimenting you could succeed. Edison with light bulb had many failures but he did not give up until he succeeded and thats good to keep in mind. sometimes just one more different trial and you will succeed.sometimes on a computer its in the details.a period in t he wrong place kept me from getting my email and I did not see it till my son pointed it out,mom he said what is the only thing that does not belong there.I looked again. a period where it was not supposed to be in my email addy. took the period out and IU logge in and got all my tons of email.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
5 Nov 11
It's true that most, if not all people, are afraid of facing reality. I think it's because reality bites. Reality has many faces and cruelty is one of them. This is something that cripples people and sends them back to their holes, preventing them from coming out if ever opportunity comes. Although I believe this limitation can be fixed. Someone I know told me that no one is really broken, they're just operating on a wrong state that's why they seem broken. People can sometimes seem like acting out of their minds and this is because they perceive reality differently than everybody. In fact, we all have different realities because all of us grew up with different environments and people surrounding us. These are big factors that affects our growth. If we can locate what went wrong by studying that, the illusion of being broken can be eliminated totally.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Nov 11
hi didi some of that is the fault of parents who demand to o much prefection from kids. they need to fail to learn how to handle it and how to make things right.If we cou ld just praise kids for tying then help if they need it if they have made errors, tell them that how we learn by turning our errors into successes. ,my mom was an excellent seamstress and I was not good at all but she encouraged me and I learned how to make simple garments. I do not do that now bu t years back I did and she taught me how to crochet and I still do that and am very good at it.My dad and mom both taught me the only person who never fails is one who never tries and thats the biggest error of all.so i did try lots of things while growing up.my realtyh is I am bad at math but excellent in English, I can actually keep accounts b alances though.my reality is I am still a poor seamtstress but a great crocheter.
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
Reality will set us free.
They say "it is better to tell lies than to hurt someone"
No, i strongly oppose to that.
I prefer to be hurt with the truth than be happy with lies.
We are not perfect and we do mistakes,so...we need to face reality or whatever consequences/result from mistakes that we've done.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
6 Nov 11
For me yes it must do what your business is all about if you do that you have gain the responsibility.
@sjvg1976 (42727)
• Delhi, India
6 Nov 11
Hello Didi,
Its not necessary that what we think we always achieve, sometimes we hardly gets what we wanted but to run away from the reality is not a solution to it.We must face it and at least we should have the guts to face it.
I have seen people who easily get irritated and start blaming others for their debacles but in reality they are afraid to accept their failures in that case.They forget that instead of complaining they should stand by it.
I have seen people who easily get irritated and start blaming others for their debacles but in reality they are afraid to accept their failures in that case.They forget that instead of complaining they should stand by it.