With love our life is so complete, but without love, we can still live

@adhyz82 (36249)
Indonesia
November 9, 2011 5:26am CST
someday some "stupid people" are really losing their motivation for living because they lost their lover..yeah, i agree that it`s hurt when we see our lover did not love you..but why you must think stupid things because that?? your live is so beautiful..yeah with love, your life is so colourful but without love you can still live..Trust me..
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14 responses
• Indonesia
9 Nov 11
ifjust love like that, i still can life and get money. i only need one love, a love from god.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
But God ask us for searching a lover to be married..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 11
but God ask us for married for complete our devote...
• Indonesia
11 Nov 11
oh, adhyz. god ask us to searching our part of soul, not just married. god hate who married without true love between man and woman, god hate their who married bacuse money or avenged. god hate us who married with a compulsion. we must find our part of soul by ourself, and make a happy family, a good family. that is what god want.
@Jhovarie (1168)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
Love is useless if you dont have money to buy love because before your have some love one you need to spend money to them.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
is this your experience ??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
i see.you are really gentleman i think...salute for you Jhovarie
@Jhovarie (1168)
• Philippines
10 Nov 11
Im not sure if she will love me if i will not spend some money to here because i am a Male so of course i am the one who will spend money to a Girl but i think she loves me because i observe her.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
10 Nov 11
There is more love than just the love of romantic relationships. I disagree. We cannot live without love, not really, but we don't have to be in a relationship to love or be loved.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
11 Nov 11
Vocab of Feeling - Love
The love of family; the love of friends; the love of our hobbies and interests; the love of art; the love of a sunset; the love of our favorite foods; the love of life. It is sad that English only has one word for love. There are so many different kinds, yet all our focus is on this one kind, which because of our attitude, can often be missed.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 11
thanks for giving me information like that.. yes, maybe we need some another term for differentiate the term about love
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 11
define the love that your meaning, please
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 11
i trust you i have been a broken heart for about...4 times all my life see the one i love with somebody else, hugging and kissing that is so hurt
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
i had lived for 31 years and over in my life and i am so sure about that i managed it with ignorance and try to find another guy to get fun this world have over than 2 million men why can't i have just one of them?
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 11
are you sure?? so how do you managed your broken heart?? with your campus mate too??
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
9 Nov 11
I agree that to lose the person we love is very difficult. We at times come to hope that we are going to spend our life with that person. And so our whole out look on life has drastically changed. We start to think and feel that our life is pointless without this person. And we become depressed only thinking of how different our life would be if we could be with that person. I do agree that this isn't logical thinking. Our life is beautiful and important. There are many things that we can do and achieve. It's just sometimes we aren't able to see things that way because we haven't experienced the situation that we hoped for only to see that we can do better without that person.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 11
and what about your personal experience dominique??
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• United States
11 Nov 11
I went through this type of thinking when I was younger. And when I and the person I loved went separate ways for some years. I started to feel like my life wasn't very happy because I wasn't with that person. And I would think that only if I was able to find the right person or be with the right person for me then I would be happy. I'm married now to my best friend and I have come to see that then those years I was said and depressed because I only thought having a successful relationship/ marriage would lead to happiness- that I still could have been happy single.
@Mashnn (4501)
9 Nov 11
That true. We need to learn to accept things and take thing not so serious. I wonder why human beings cannnot realize that they capable of achieving too much and end up been miserable.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 11
but for some people they think more seriously when their partner left them...
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 11
yes, sometimes the first plan did not work well..so we must add second options
@Mashnn (4501)
11 Nov 11
Let us always have a second option in whatever we do. Otherwise, it become a shock for most of us.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 11
Without love we are still alive. Because, love is not the angel executioners.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
I will live my life like flowing water.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
so you must be optimistic with your life indah
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• China
9 Nov 11
yeah,everyone has the ability to make oneself happy,and the biggest happiness should be given by yourself,especially for women. The life is always full of colourful,so we should make joy and happiness by ourselves.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
@yichue : yes, we make ourself is happy or not..don`t depends for another people..
• Mexico
14 Nov 11
HI adhyz: I would say that you can live without the love of a partner. I mean, even if I am single I think I have love in my life: love for my mom, my dad, love for God, love for my sister and brother and my family. I love what I do and I love life so love is always present. It's definitely sad to think you can find the right person but that's not a reason to start thinking that you can't live this way. ALVARO
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
actually this "status" is not my current love experience..this is my words for my friends here who had losing all their hope for living
@atleya (946)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
It is a very good suggestion adhyz... love make our life is perfect, but we can still live without love... everybody who is losing love this time, they should read this post...
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
15 Nov 11
i am happy if you like my "status" here..i do hope it can helps many people that they maybe lose their love but they should not losing their hope for living
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
19 Aug 12
hi, thats true,when we find the ending of our love life it doesn't mean we need to stop to live,having a love life will only add colors to our life to make us more happy but when its gone life shall go on because our family still there.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 12
are you happy with your current condition asliah?? are you in love now or you are alone without love??
@Jhovarie (1168)
• Philippines
11 Nov 11
"without love you can still live" yes its true because imagine if our parent dont love as do you think we still alive until now? because of love of our parent we grew up like this moment because of their love.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 11
yes, if our boyfriend or girlfriend left us, we still had parents...and God too..don`t worry...
• United States
9 Nov 11
This is a problem that I've been seeing almost every single day for the past year or so. The problem isn't that people are depressed over a lack of love (I've been seeing that for my entire life). The problem is that people aren't living for themselves necessarily. They're trying to obtain things that aren't guaranteed for them. Take love for instance. People don't let love come to them - they actively search for it. I think this is a bad thing exacerbated by the commercial market of our times (at least in America). Everywhere you go there, especially the movies, there's always the message that finding love will lead you to happiness. While love will probably make you happy, when you get this mindset of "love = happiness" and you actively search for it, you will only be further disappointed when/if you don't obtain it. People need to begin living for themselves. I don't mean this in a selfish manner, but I think the point of life should just be to be happy. If living for God makes you happy, then go for it. If playing music makes you happy, then go for it. Be happy because you only have, presumably, one life to live.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 11
yes, we don`t mean to become selfish people but we must be independent and don`t too hope for another people
@JER616 (545)
• Philippines
9 Nov 11
"Your life is so beautiful...yeah with love, your life is so colorful, but without love you can still live.." This philosophy is true if one is just concerned about eros or romantic love. Please do note that love has three forms-- filia, eros and agape. Filial love refers to the love one has to one's kins. Agape refers to brotherly love. For agape and filia love, I don't think one can still live. Otherwise, the Bible won't call love as the greatest over faith and hope. Besides, love endures forever as it comes from Someone Eternal. Without such love, and one lives in anger and hate, one will eventually die overwhelmed by negativity in life.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 11
i give the best response for your comments..
@JER616 (545)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
Thank you for that, adhyz82.