how can you manage people who had a really bad attitude?

@alquizar (480)
Philippines
November 12, 2011 8:11am CST
How can you manage people who had a really bad attitude?I really do hate people who always make trouble.Many people complained about it and they can't really change their attitude.If you are in such situation how can you manage to be with them?because you had no choice but you are staying with them.
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@scheng1 (24650)
• Singapore
5 Dec 15
Just ignore them. I think you can spend your time on constructive things, These people are sucking up your life, and make you feel miserable. I think the term is "energy vampire".
@mariahhh (1328)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Nov 11
I handle those kind of people with patience. If that person really has bad attitude, I will really will try to not talk to her. But if she is my colleague and I really have to interact with her, then I just ignore her attitude. I have this one colleague who really has bad attitude. I just try to communicate with her more and I'm trying to understand her. She has her good points, but there are really times that her bad attitude is just too much.
@jugsjugs (12967)
12 Nov 11
I think that there are a lot of people out there that are those kinds of people and are forever trying to meddle in other peoples lives all the time.I also hate people like this.I think the reason why people are like this is people that are jealous of other people and this is the only way to upset them.I tend to avoid people that are like that, as i would not be happy being one of their friends.
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
13 Nov 11
It's kinda hard to manage. I am also in that situation, she was really a trouble maker and will never be happy if she can't make trouble. As much as possible I don't argue with her. I just let her talk about her opinion, listen and then let it pass through my other ear. Patience plays an important role here too.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
It is easy somehow dealing with this kind of people who have a bad attitude. I learned from my mother that even though they are bad in attitude, you should treat them good so that they may realize how ugly their attitudes are! Yes we hate those who have bad attitude. Haven't we checked ourselves whether we are good or bad to others? Let us always be careful with our choice of words and actions.
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
You can ignore them and not let them irk you because those kind of people are not worthy of your time and attention. Just be yourself and try not to cross their boundaries, or rather step your foot forward first as it could set a fire. ;) You can always have other things to tend to plus with the booming trends of telecommunication and internet today, talking and chatting with real "optimistic" friends are not that hard to do. :)
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
I think you should manage people with attitude problem with patience. Next is never show them that they are getting into your nerves. Remain calm and let them be the one who would be mad, raise a voice, etc but you should already remain calm and still talk to them as if it does not get to you. (this i have always tried and has always worked! because it makes them wonder somehow why you were not competing with his/her voice, and why even after being provoked you remained calm). :D
@GemmaR (8517)
12 Nov 11
I think that there are some people who aren't happy in their own lives unless they're actually making a lot of trouble for other people. I will never really understand why people are like this, because I am of the opinion that people should be nice to others and not try to cause trouble for them whenever they get the opportunity to do so. I just try to get these people out of my life, because I know that I don't have the time for them or the time for the trouble that they caused for me in the past. We all deserve a lovely quiet life with people who are going to be nice to us for who we are.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
12 Nov 11
I had been unfortunate enough of having been in the company of people with whom one had a terrible attitude. I wasn't actually staying with her but I worked with her every day so I guess that's close enough :) Well, I tried several ways to make the situation bearable, being pleasant with her at first, then confronting her in a nice manner on her not-so-pleasant attitude, and eventually just giving her the cold shoulder and just minded my own business. Sometimes there are really things that you have no power to change. You just hope it does.
@Mashnn (4501)
12 Nov 11
Just be yourself. Don't engage in argument with such people. Try to keep off from their conversation. Set your limits and expectations so that they is no room for arguments.