How to know if a person who married a millionaire is not a gold digger

It is not easy. I have done two sign-up tasks for dating sites with the same photo of a ugly guy. In one of them, it was, according to his profile, a poor guy : I got 2 messages in a week. The other was "independently wealthy" and got 29 messages in 3 days. It shows that gold diggers are not a myth. I believe that a good test would be to see if he/she would accept to be married with a prenuptial agreement with separate estates. A gold digger would certainly refuse.

I would think that actions would be the best indication. If the person that does not have much money still enjoys the same activities as he or she did before the relationship and tries to include his or her partner in these activities (I imagine they would not involve money or very little money as the person did not have much before the relationship), then I would imagine they love the person not the money. On the other hand, if the person that did not have money all of a sudden develops a lot of new interests that require money, then I would definitely be suspicious.

well, you see cases where the rich person doesn't tell the other person they are rich until they've known them for a while, but sometimes it is hard to tell however... I've seen cases where guys tell people they have money and education when they don't to try and impress women to sleep with them... jerks

I guess the best way to find the truth would be a test. I would tell the person: "I lost all my money, and we will have to leave our huge mantion, sell the cars and all the other things that we own and rent a small apartment" and then I would watch the person's reaction, and see if they said: "That is okay honey, at least we still have eachother" or if they said: "Bye bye" and ran away as fast as they could

There are some signs that can help you to know if that person is in love of you or in love of your money. He or she asks you for a lot of help pretty early in the relationship. Sure, partners ask for help sometimes. However, in the scam marriages, the dishonest partner was asking for WAY too much help early in the relationship–buy me a plane ticket, call me because I just can’t ever call you, I can’t use email because I need you to buy me a computer, I need new clothes, I can’t pay my rent, etc. He or she tries to rush you into marriage. He or she tries to make you feel guilty for needing time to make a decision. This person has lied to you about different things. (A liar is a liar and will be dishonest for many reasons, not one.) This person doesn’t do things a person in love would tend to do–call often, ask you on dates a lot, want to sit and talk to you for long periods of time, hold your hand, act affectionate, try to help you in different situations. Your friends tell you this person seems rude or seems to be using you. Even if you are blinded by love, your friends and family probably won’t be. A healthy partner in love will NOT treat you poorly. Your “partner” claims to love you but treats you very differently from how he treats his or her friends and family. He or she spends lots of time with friends or family, but barely has any time for you (though lots of excuses!).

There are a lot of ways to identify if the one you are dating is a gold digger or not. 1. Define the word Gold Digger. When you are married, you become dependent on each other so being financially reliable with one another is normal. In this case, you are just exercising the role of being a provider in a family. The difference of that and being a gold digger is a gold digger would leave you whenever you lost your ability to give material things to him or her. True love would stay. 2. "Oh no my bills are coming". You would always hear this from a gold digger. They always drop hints whenever they have bills to pay. Usually they become really sweet and be all over you when this time of the month comes. 3. "I want a house and lot for my birthday!". When you ask them what they want for an occasion, they would give you answers that are expensive like jewelries, watches, cars and house and lot. 4. "How much do you make in a year?". I believe this is the first question gold diggers ask when you are in the 'getting to know' stage. They don't care about your hobbies or your favorite movie, they want to know how much you salary is and if you own a car or a house. 5. They never ever split the bill. When you go out on a date, their role is always to eat and enjoy. Your role is to pay. They don't even offer to pay. They just sit in front of you with their innocent eyes and wait until you reach out for your wallet. You see there are many signs to spot a gold digger. There are a lot of them these days so love with precautions people.

hello Capt, Yah, sounds like the famous/common soap opera, thu this really happens in real life. However, most stories are true love and not due to money alone. It's hard to determine, when the person is blindly inlove...how can he/she sees the real intent?.. Well, he/she will only realized it soon as he/she lost her wealth.

I think it is one of those things you might not realise until it is too late. Not all people who marry a rich person do so for their money or lifestyle but I do wonder how they meet in the first place sometimes. I think if a poor person was hanging around expensive places hoping to "get" a millionaire or putting themselves into situations where they would definitely be able to connect with them, I'd soon be wondering about their motives.

Attitude and behavior are usually the giveaway to goldiggger status. A gold digger usually can't think those thoughts to themselves for long and end up showing their true colors.

simple, if he or she signs a pre-nup.

Well, sadly that is usually the reason young girl go after rich guy-based from my observation. Maybe one way to test their love is to pretend that the rich person became or and then live in an old rundown place for a few months- to test the girl..sound outrageous but maybe it's work..

ok, this is very easy to tell, when a rich person marry a poor girl is because he might be in love but in most cases the poor girl do not love this guy, she loves this money and also this happens almost everywhere, i have seen this so much in thailand, philipines, china,singapure and of course japaon.

there are probably quite a few rich men in this world married to women from wealthy families that turned out to be golddiggers, as they may well have wanted to maintain the lifestyle to which they had become accustomed. i can understand that when a man has a bit of money he might get paranoid about women only being after him for his money, and some people find it hard to identify when someone genuinely likes them. but we can tell when people like us, and also what matters, equally, is if we like them. after all from the male perspective the woman may seem like a golddigger, but from the female perspective the woman may be a trophy bride that the man has married only for her looks, not for her personality. neither motive is particularly appealing, though which is worse is an interesting question.

You are right, it is definitely like a soap opera. I think there are a lot of gold diggers in the world. One of the first sign that a person is a gold digger it if the person marry someone older because of money. Other factors may include, too expensive lifestyle but not so well off living, this person needs someone to finance all the expense in his her life.

I think it'll be difficult to ever know for sure. But one way I suppose is to not let the other person know how rich you are in the beginning. Once you're sure that they're not into you for your money, then maybe you can slowly reveal the truth?

For me yes she married only a money to the man he loves because a girl can develop.

It's really not so easy to tell if a person is a gold digger. The poor person can actually act like he/she doesn't want anything from the rich one and when they finally get married the poor person shows her real character. I think it would be better not to get married for at least 5 years with the poor one