The Party's Over, It's Time to Call It a Day ....
By grandpa_lash
@grandpa_lash (5225)
Australia
November 18, 2011 7:05pm CST
I have to say that I have come across some pretty nice people here on MyLot, although many of those I really liked have either disappeared or are very sporadic, a bit like myself. The few who are left are being very quiet, and that leaves me with trying to communicate with the others.
Now keep in mind that the money I “earn” here is totally irrelevant, I’m here for, as my Irish friends would say, the “crack”, but with the current population of the Lot “crack” is very hard to find. I’m just one of many who occasionally lose the plot and scream pathetically about the inane, banal, and totally meaningless babble that makes up most discussions, but that can be ignored to a large extent if there’s some good stuff around. There is also a large element within the population of religious fundamentalists, politically conservative zealots, loonies, male supremacists, and bombastic ignoramuses, all talking (to my mind) rubbish.
Then there are all those for whom English is a second or third language, and although I can say they do better at it than I would in any other language than English, it is still sometimes impossible to make sense of what they are trying to say. And finally, there are the large numbers of members who clearly have no idea of how this place works, and who never return to the discussions or comments they post thus making my responses a waste of time and space. Communication requires two people at least.
And so it becomes increasingly difficult to wade through the banality, the rubbish, the incompetence, and the language barriers to find anything worth replying to. So difficult that I am giving up.
So, to all those people on my friends list, it’s been nice talking with you over the years but fare thee well for I must leave thee but do not let the parting grieve thee, for remember that the best of friends must part ...
(After my next payout, that is, but that will be this month. It may not be much, but I’m not going to just throw it away.)
Lash
So, to all those people on my friends list, it’s been nice talking with you over the years but fare thee well for I must leave thee but do not let the parting grieve thee, for remember that the best of friends must part ...
(After my next payout, that is, but that will be this month. It may not be much, but I’m not going to just throw it away.)
Lash5 people like this
10 responses
@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
19 Nov 11
I totally agree with you and I will be sad to see you go. I had intended to leave after my last payout but I am still here and half way to the next one. Sometimes I feel a need to correct the prejudiced views of some of the people who write here and other times I just ignore them as too silly or too extreme to ever listen to reason.
This site was so interesting when I started and it gave me a forum where I could express my views. The money is nice but it is not that important. I withdrew for quite a while after being attacked for talking about religious issues and women. It seems the extremists here cannot argue rationally but can only respond by attacking people who do not agree with them and especially women.
So I will be really sorry to see you go because then I will have even fewer discussions of interest and there are so few now. You will be missed.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Nov 11
odd so many of you come here,call all of us nasty names
then leave as if you are too perfect to mingle with
'us common people. but if our discussions are all'
so awful, I d o not see you coming forth with discussions
showing us poor idiots just how to make a great discussion.'
It does not take a whole lot of talent to low rate people'here at all. I feel that I have a lot of wonderful,intelligent friends'
here and I love mylot. but evidently you see us all in a much
different and sour outlook .sorry we cannot seem to any of us'come up to your and Grandpa Lashes standards.





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@sharra1 (6340)
• Australia
19 Nov 11
Curious. I did not call anyone names but I do avoid 90% of discussions here as they have no interest for me. I did not condemn those who write them just that they do not interest me. I almost left months ago but I kept my account alive rather than lose the money in it and then when Grandpa Lash started again I stayed.
I have submitted a number of discussions but it seems not many people are interested in the issues I discussed. Some of the people on my friends list answered and many of them no longer have accounts.
I got bitten last year when some misogynist male vehemently attacked me for my views. I stopped posting discussions for nearly a year and even now hardly bother. After all my views on women and my dislike of male chauvinists usually get attacked. I simply got sick of being attacked for views that I thought should be mainstream. So I rarely post and even more rarely start discussions. I have to be very interested or feel strongly about something for me to post these days.
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
20 Nov 11
Just another dimension of fun! Saphy style!
If you come back in another disguise...grandpa_lash, include me in your friends list, just for the he!! of it...
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
20 Nov 11
Whips? Ha Ha!! She'd be sorry. Or maybe not lol.
Lash
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@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
19 Nov 11
I will miss "your tongue-in-cheek" banality, whenever I stumble across it (not so sure this isn't another one).
With over 2 million population...you couldn't find a way to amass a circle of friends, of your intellectural parameters...interesting!
I guess there is only room for one...on your throne? LOL!

@pergammano (7682)
• Canada
19 Nov 11
DANG! Saphy...I am going to have to learn, it's NOT just all about FUN
! Will get that "still" bubbling away-- and we'll have a going away party from granda_lash! any excuse!
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Nov 11
hi grandpalash well so another great mylotter leaves, what the heck is wrong with people. I do not think I am banal or rubbish or many of the words you slung around. but I guess none of us like to be told we are junk,trash.etc. you know all you people who complain about these various things should put your blasted writing where your mouth is. give us great discussions show us how it is
done,to me some of what you are saying is like saying oh I am a hell of a lot better than all you scum on mylot. I think you do bad mouth a bit too much as I see a lot of my friends are wonderful caring sharing,intelligent people. You are not on my friends list but thats okay. I always responded to your discussions anyway. But to me to call all of our well thought out discussions as babel makes me think you
are just too too perfect., so be gone with you.

are just too too perfect., so be gone with you.

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@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
19 Nov 11
"I have to say that I have come across some pretty nice people here on MyLot" was my opening sentence, but you seem to have decided to take this as a personal attack. Actually, the reason you're not on my friends list is that I took some offence way back at one of your occasional attacks of paranoia, but you are not one of the ones I am criticising here. But to try to pretend that the bulk of the members here have more than two brain cells to rub together is just plain silly, and flies in the face of the evidence. And yes, I do have a good opinion of myself. So what?
By the way, your diatribe against sharra1, who is my life partner as a matter of interest, was a bit unwarranted.
Lash
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
19 Nov 11
Aww...I hate to hear you are taking off. I enjoy your discussions and responses. It was also very nice to see you back after being gone for so long before. Although I am hoping you change your mind, I do have a ton of well wishes for you if you go. I am disappointed that you are leaving.

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@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
Hello Grandpa_lash,
I just don't get it why you want to leave when there's no one trolling you around. What's wrong with people who has English as a second language, Does our presence bothers u? would you rather have all from your old gang to return just to keep you from leaving this place? It's not really a good thing when veterans like you started leaving this place
. Look, it's their lost if they don't want to comment on the responses in their discussion, it's their loss am not bothered by it.
People in mylot are coming from all over the world, i thought you have gotten used to that? or probably because every thing is different now? I got friends here that are either too busy or no longer around. but that doesn't give me reason to leave and end the party.
Well, I respect your decision. You've been known here for years.
. Look, it's their lost if they don't want to comment on the responses in their discussion, it's their loss am not bothered by it.
People in mylot are coming from all over the world, i thought you have gotten used to that? or probably because every thing is different now? I got friends here that are either too busy or no longer around. but that doesn't give me reason to leave and end the party.
Well, I respect your decision. You've been known here for years. 1 person likes this
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
19 Nov 11
I said "those for whom English is a second or third language, and although I can say they do better at it than I would in any other language than English, it is still sometimes impossible to make sense of what they are trying to say."
Hard to see where you get that I have a problem, other than sometimes not being able to make sense of their language. Many are fine, and you are one of the ones I can understand, and so I reply to you. No problem. Why do people who clearly don't fit my targets take it on themselves to be densive?
Why I'm leaving should be clear from what I said in the OP: I can't be buggered spending two or three hours a day here trying to find something worth responding to.
Lash
@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
20 Nov 11
It does'nt help that the Lot is excruciatingly slow to load and has a habit of kicking me out at random times. Who knows, I may do a PPE and come back incognito.
Lash
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
19 Nov 11
You are part of this community and you have no idea how
sad we can be knowing that you don't come back any more. anyways, i hope you find it in your heart to return to this place. many people have left recently but your decision stands. best of luck to you buddy

sad we can be knowing that you don't come back any more. anyways, i hope you find it in your heart to return to this place. many people have left recently but your decision stands. best of luck to you buddy1 person likes this

@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
19 Nov 11
I love meeting new people.. both in 'real' life and on the web. I understand how people lose track or forget to go back to their discussions cause I likely do it too, but hopefully I do get back to them before too much time passes.. so much to do, so little time!
I know what you mean about extremists.. every group though has got 'em! Liberals, I think, have a lot of good ideas, but they want government to do it, which is noT a good idea!
- hope you don't leave mylot! I just met ya!
I know what you mean about extremists.. every group though has got 'em! Liberals, I think, have a lot of good ideas, but they want government to do it, which is noT a good idea!
- hope you don't leave mylot! I just met ya! @MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
25 Nov 11
Now I find that news quite disappointing but exceedingly understandable. I believe I am more or less heading in the same direction but I'm terribly indecisive.
Good luck, I hope to spot you here and there from time to time maybe.
See ya round Lash.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
•
19 Nov 11
Who will come to my D/s discussions if you leave. Please forbid Sharra to go with you. Speaking as someone who flits in and out I certainly understand your reasoning. However, never say "never". The money is a nice to have, but cruising along dropping into the occasional discussion, even if it is a tad banal or trivial, can be quite an amusement. I have found that there are few folk here willing or able to mount a discussion about philosophical issues in the way that you do. As Descartes said: [i]"You just keep pushing. You just keep pushing. I made every mistake that could be made. But I just kept pushing."
[/i] Keep pushing and push here please.

@grandpa_lash (5225)
• Australia
20 Nov 11
Thing is, P1ke, I tend to be a bit obsessive, and I find it difficult to just drop in and out. And patience has never been my best bit.
Sharra1 will stay, and if the need really gets to me lol, I'll post under her moniker from time to time.
Lash









