MyLot has helped me a lot!

@Masihi (4413)
Canada
November 26, 2011 8:33am CST
I really like Mylot, it's really helped me talk stuff out and look at my life from another perspective. So many times I've had to keep things inside and when I did talk to someone they couldn't give me an outsider's opinion because they knew me or they had already formed an opinion already about the situation. It's like a soothing heart-and-gut massage for the brain. I've gotten to look at things from a fresh perspective some times, and learned a great deal. Have Mylot helped you look at things from a fresh perspective before?
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
26 Nov 11
"a soothing heart-and-gut massage for the brain." Hmm, never thought of it that way, but yes, mylot has put my emotions in perspective over many things, including relationships where I am too close to make a good decision.
• United States
26 Nov 11
Oh no, don't get me wrong, I think what you said was an interesting way to look at it...
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
26 Nov 11
I know it doesn't make total sense but that's just about what i feel like :-p
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
26 Nov 11
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• Philippines
26 Nov 11
Hello Masihi, It's nice that mylot has helped you a lot. I think mylot has helped a lot of its member already in their own different reasons. I myself was helped by mylot because I am able to pay for my bills because of the earnings that I gain here. Aside from that, I am also able to earn some knowledge through the posts of the mylot members. I can see that, all of us have different outlook in life and we have our own perspective and it keeps me open minded. Take care and happy mylotting!! red_amethyst
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
26 Nov 11
I just reach payout probably every six months or so, but the extra change is always good.
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30 Nov 11
obviously ,,i can not agree with red-amethyst any more.i can not believe it at begining,,a place you can speak out your feelings and share with others,,whats more,,make extra money ,oh i love it
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• Philippines
2 Dec 11
@tomlaw, you better believe it because we have been paid by the site several times already and its fun to discuss life and experiences with friends. @masahi, at least you still get something out of the effort in posting and in discussing things with your friends here in mylot.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
26 Nov 11
i am not a talkative person. i only talk with my wife. i have few friends but sometimes i would rather shut up than to talk to them regarding some matters for sometimes they create more damage than solutions. so i get the best solutions here. a lot of intelligent and cooperative people in here. some who had experience the thing that you are feeling right now can speak base on their experienced for the wore that shoe already. plus you post and you earn...
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• Philippines
26 Nov 11
me and my mom used to talk about anything too... but she is half body paralyze for four years now and i dont like her health to get affected with my own misery. i only tell her funny and enjoying experiences. i miss those days were we can talk about anything but for now i would rather tell white lies than to let her worry and think. yes i am blessed for having a wife that can stand by me like a friend and scold me like a sibling.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
26 Nov 11
That's really sad that people are so sensitive in real life like that, we should be able to talk to our loved ones about anything. I"m glad you're able to talk to your wife about anything, though, that is a blessing right there
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@anil02 (24688)
• India
27 Nov 11
Hello, I am agree with you. My lot is much helping one. Indeed my lot community is too friendly and co-oprative. This thing is important than earning from this site. Though I don't like post here my personal problem. But when I post here any problem I got enough reply to solve these.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
That's true, you really need to find a balance in telling your personal info, but that's just common sense anywhere online.
• United States
27 Nov 11
I don't put all my personal stuff here, but i do put some of it.. I put it in such a way that I am not giving everything away. I don't think it is safe to put everything on the Net because it is out there... but what we all put out here is usually okay. I don't try to make my life a soap opera on the Net... but there is nothing wrong with it if you have a lot to get off your chest. Sometimes people only have the people here to talk to. People, like me, are shut in and don't get out much to see anyone.. it's good to talk to the people here. I still try to be careful though of what I say.
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@babyanna (1216)
• China
26 Nov 11
Hi,Masihi~ Yup,that's one good thing about online friends~Sometimes because they don't know so much about you,they could give you quite different perspectives. Just a couple of weeks ago,I was upset about my boyfriend letting another girl using a pillow designed and sent to him as a birthday gift by me.We went back pretty late after his birthday party and her dormitory was closed and she couldn't get in.So she crashed on the couch in my bf's living room while my bf and I slept in the bedroom.I was unhappy because it's still a brand new pillow back then and he himself hadn't used it yet.Yet he let the girl use it. And giftsandbagscom said it's pretty nice and gentle of him to let her use a pillow unused.It really made me look at this whole thing from a new perspective. In other cases,I've read people's different opinions towards certain things and their own life stories.It's a great journey in Mylot,with people sharing and helping each other. So yes,Mylot has helped me a lot too.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
26 Nov 11
I think that's awesome how mylot helped you in your situation. And because of Mylot, you and your boyfriend are still together
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@babyanna (1216)
• China
27 Nov 11
Haha,it's not like that kind of serious situations that would led to breakup.I was just feeling upset.But yes,it did help me in my situation.It helped me to realize sometimes we shouldn't focus too much on these trivial things.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
26 Nov 11
I have to keep things inside. The cia, fbi, interpole (polish police), rcmp, survey police and other establishments would search me out, find me and lock me up for sure if they found out what I was thinking. ā€“ did I say I might be delusional and paranoid??? Seriously, I understand what you mean by getting other opinions and perspectives though because it does help and I like that too about mylot, honestly. It is good. But it would be great to be able to just let it all out and see if someone could sort out the mess that inside my head but to be honest ā€“ Iā€™m afraid to. ā€“ inferiority complex.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
26 Nov 11
Mylot does help some, but I know it won't help with all of my issues. I'm on the waiting list for therapy, and the intake worker said it'll be around the new year when I can start my sessions, and that'll help me tremendously. I suffer from depression and anxiety disorder and am taking medication for it, which is helping the physical part, but not the psychological part. Mylot is definitely "holding me over" till I get there!
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
1 Dec 11
At one time I couldn't live without mylot or the people here. Then I ended up with a facebook account and found most my friends here..over there. I loved coming here and getting and giving opinions on things about life,love,cooking and everything in between. I am trying to get back into it since lately I am bored out of my mind..lol Mylot always has something going on..its such a busy body..lol
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Dec 11
Hehe, that's why it's so addictive!
@derek_a (10874)
27 Nov 11
Yes, I would say that myLot helps so many people, especially those who have stressful problems. As a therapist, over the years I have always recommended my clients to write things down about their stresses and anxieties. It doesn't really matter what is done with the writing afterwards, but it is a way of getting things out of the mind and onto screen or paper. When people can acknowledge and respond to these problems, it becomes even more beneficial because sharing is a great way to get things clear in the mind. When you can get things clear in the mind, then it is easier to accept what cannot be changed, and change what can. When we are confused, there is little clarity and the problems can then persist or even get worse. Mylot serves a good function for many people, in many different way.. _Derek
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@derek_a (10874)
28 Nov 11
You are very welcome and I am always pleased when what I write here can help others. I hope that you do very well in your therapy in the New Year, and you are most welcome to contact me here through myLot if you have any questions. Thank you for choosing my reponse as BR.. _Derek
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
Thank you for your thoughtful comments, I feel it's very therapeutic for those of us struggling. I'll be starting my own therapy in the new year, and Mylot is "holding me over" kinda thing until then. Hopefully, Mylot will stick around for a good few more years at least, because as you said, it helps so many people and many different ways
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• Australia
28 Nov 11
Mylot too has helped me alot with trying different things with my 4 year old to get her out of habits, etc...I have learned so much here & have made some amazing friends
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• Australia
10 Dec 11
You got it in a nut shell there...we all know what works for our kids...not the experts...we can all try each others advice to find what works for each of our kids
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Dec 11
Ya, the parenting section here is great, nothing like a good parent-to-parent talk, and not just reading an article from experts. WE are the experts, haha!
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 11
Yes. MyLot is very helpful to me. I often create a discussion, about the problems I was facing. The response from members of myLot, so help me, and give a solution to me. While not all the solutions I use, but I have a choice of solutions that I can take. In addition, MyLot is also very helpful to me, to pay my internet bill and electricity.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Dec 11
I'm glad for the emotional benefits as well as the financial benefits. I hope Mylot will stay for a long time.
@marguicha (216432)
• Chile
1 Dec 11
My real online friends (all but one from mylot) have been very supportive in times of need as it has happened with my cancer. some other times we have shared small things and they open new ways of loking at the problems and issues of daily life. Other times, they enrich my life by letting me peek a bit at their own world, sometimes very different from mine.
@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Dec 11
I love my friends here as well Including you! :-) I love reading about other people's lives as well, espeically of different cultures, it's very interesting.
• United States
27 Nov 11
Hi Masihi, I love Mylot also. I have to say that Mylot has helped me a lot in my life. I've had people to talk things out with. Like you, I gained a new perspective when I hear what other people have to say. Besides that, I get a great deal of emotional support from Mylot.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
Yes, I love the emotional support as well. There were so many times when I felt depressed and Mylot has helped me through it all.
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• United States
27 Nov 11
The same for me. If I am all down and out I can come here and feel better. It's like therapy for me. It really is.
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@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
27 Nov 11
Mylot have helped me in lonelyness,because I pass 45 hours alone weekly and those hours I can say that I am not alone because all my friends mylotter friends are with me sharing experiences and helping each other.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
That's good it helps with loneliness :-) What do you mean by 45 hours a week alone? Is it your work?
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
27 Nov 11
I mean that I am home alone from 7 in the morning to 6 in the afternoon and you guys give me your company.
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@darekmr (46)
• Mexico
27 Nov 11
yep i not know very well the page im new here lol i have heard this site is the best to earn money while you comment solve doubts and people solve your doubts at the same time but my question is (forgiveness for off-topic) how many time you takes to reach the minimum payout??
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
Welcome to mylot, you can look at the FAQ for that question. Min payout is $10.
• Mexico
28 Nov 11
thanx!! :)
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• United States
27 Nov 11
I personally like mylot it one of my preferred sites, is just lately with my kids schoolwork and my own I haven't had any time to spend on it, but yes, I do agree mylot has helped me not only meet people, but get other prespective and outlooks from others other than family members and close friends. Sometimes it helps to get prespective and ideas from outsources to get things resolved and/or a clearer picture. Mylot definitely provides that, I do agree.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
Yes, it does help a lot with perspective. :-)
@liumirror (138)
• China
28 Nov 11
period of this time,I am so busy that I can't go this net.I also think mylot as a place which I can read some people's opion about life,work and other things.I can tell other people my happy and sad things or somethins pulzzed me.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
28 Nov 11
Yes, it helped me straighten out some issues in my life as well.
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
Hi, there.. I should say a very big YES to this.. Mylot has helped me a lot. It is only in this site that I get to express what I am feeling at the same time learning from others too. I really loved this site. I have no regrets in joining this site. Go, lotters! Let's make the world rock!
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Dec 11
I joined initially to earn but it is a real gem - I hope Mylot can stay here for many years to come
@deliar (609)
• Indonesia
28 Nov 11
yes, Mylot has give me a different perspective when i see a problem., it give me an another way to solve it, and it give me abig deal. like what you have said, people around us couldn't give us a different opinion because they have influenced by a formed opinion in the environment, they couldn't any different thing there. when in mylot, we will find many different way, it really possible to be applied in our life. fresh perspective that we need could we find here,. so, mylot also help me out from many problem with more effective ways. Thanks mylot.
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Dec 11
I like that as well, seeing our issues from various angles and helpful suggestions. Yeap, I hope MyLot is here to stay
@bjc66bjc (6730)
• United States
27 Nov 11
Hi Masihi,that is great...as you can probably I am a new mylotter, I don't start a lot of discussions but I love sharing in others discussions. This web site seems to be a great site for people to make friends, get insight from other with experiences..and just learn from other just reading others post...And when you can help or get help from others...IT'S A BONUS....
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
27 Nov 11
Welcome to mylot! You'll find all your answers in the FAQs.
30 Nov 11
yes ,,exactly,,,i like it very much ,,this is a place people can communicate with each other freely,and i also learn a lot from it
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@Masihi (4413)
• Canada
5 Dec 11
I like the general non-judgemental environment here as well.