If somebody insulted you?!!

@svjomboy (873)
Philippines
November 27, 2011 7:24pm CST
Friends sometimes we can encounter people that they love to insults people, how could you react if somebody insulted you? Some of people can't handle and endeed of fighting sometime, for me if somebody doing me that way i just egnore it the beest way to do. what about you friends? share me your views!!!
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8 responses
@ferbjohn69 (1127)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
If they insult me,it is just ok.I will just keep quiet to avoid blood to spill. But if they insult my family or my parents,I will absolutely start a fight with them.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
yes keep quiet is the better way, but if related to family, well i think i need to figh the right coz its another issue.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
yes thats really true better to insult me than my love ones.
@junmae (1586)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
I used to have a co-worker who loves to insults me in front of other people especially in front of our co-workers. Before I just ignored her because she is my close friend and I thought she was just joking. But eventually, I noticed that her jokes became serious, she even told the whole staff that I was the one who support my partner financially because he didn't have a job. But that was not true because my partner works in a condominium as Building Engineer and he always gives me money for me and our child. I don't know where did she got those idea. I was so mad at her because of it. One my friends told me to just ignore her because she thinks that our co-worker is just insecure with me. She makes fancy story because she envy me because my partner has a better job than her's. Her partner is a factory worker but she cannot admit it. Instead of being mad, I just pity her.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
well she has a lot of jealous on you thats why she invented some false story, ignore him you know that the story is not true leave him and ignore is better to do with her.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
That depends on the situation I guess. I never encounter such scene so-i cannot say what will be my reaction in real. I am sure to have a shocked- and maybe, I need to calm myself before facing the person again.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
yes it all depends the situations but stay calm is good away from trouble.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
28 Nov 11
Well i think you just might typed it wrong but its ignore as i know :D But well most of the times i do the same , i dont like getting in to fight , and if i insult back that might end up there if u dont know how to pick your words . But i think the best options is still jsut to ignore him and pass by , cuz well its not like you care for some random ret*rd right ? Just leave and spit on him on your mind :D
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
yes i agree, ignore them is the best way, they will stop insulting you if you never response or say something.
@sunli123 (538)
• China
28 Nov 11
I don't know what I will do in future. I quarreled with one of my collegue last month. Then she said many bad words to me and even wrote them down in her QQ signature. I was very angry and felt very depressed during that time. But if she was that kind of person, how could I do? I told myself not to care about her actions but I failed. I got many pimples in my face and body then. However, I've learnt to observe my emotions gradually, includes joyance, happiness, anger and sad etc. I am learning to accept them as my normal feelings.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
if you cant control your anger it may sends of quarrel so next time you better ignore them.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
28 Nov 11
Well, I would most likely ignore what that person has to say. However, it depends on what kind of insult it is. I may choose to confront that person to clarify my stands. So far I haven't encounter such things often but my mom used to insult me and I did confronted her XD
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
yes ignore them and dont care what they say. they will stop it.
@jonahh08 (261)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
Yeah, just ignore them. You know what? It pisses them off to see that your not affected with their bullying. They're affected, you're not. It turns the table around.
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
yes i agree, when they saw you your not affected with their insults they feel more than insulted.
28 Nov 11
I am a boy , I can not think a better way to solve this , maybe the last we can finish this by our fierce fists........... That depend on who is insulting me . If it is my boss , and I would not say a word ,and just waiting for the storm past ............ Life is tough ,hahhha
@svjomboy (873)
• Philippines
28 Nov 11
so you mean if your boss insulting you you just keep quite and what if one of your friend?hehehe