she can't look at me straight!
@leon3000502000 (1564)
Philippines
December 14, 2011 6:16am CST
Hi, I have this cute and beautiful girl at her 20's which i really like her so much but every time i will shake her hands and look at her in the eye, she cannot look at me directly to the eye and instead she will look at my hand as I shake her hand. what do you think meant by that? is it that she's shy or she likes me? this happens many times that instead at looking at me she will look at my hand every time I shake her hand. please help
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9 responses
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 11
Friend, some ladies are shy to have contact with the opposite genders.
It does not mean that she likes you.
Do not guess so much and you will make everyone around you to be embarrassed.
Anyhow, I am not an expert in this matter to mislead you.
For me, I shall concentrate in my work and leave everything to develop naturally.
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@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 11
Like or do not like. Shy or not shy. All of these are not a problem now.
You should move a step forward to say hello to her and to invite her to go for luch or dinner together.
ha! ha! Then you can find the answer by yourself.
Good luck and take care, buddy.
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
i am planning for that but i still can't find the right timing, i don't want that she would know that i am interested in her. i would like that she would think that what i am doing is just as friends.
i hope we could cross our line so that i could say hi and hello and how are you and what are you doing now and then ask her number and then call her during at night and say how are you and good night.
maybe that is what i am going to do but i am not sure yet.
@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
if she is shy with me, what do you think might be the reason? but when we see each other at a distant, we smile each other and say hi and hello.
but is it possible that she is shy with me because she likes me? what do you think?

@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
You can't interpret a situation and draw an accurate conclusion with just what you mentioned cause it could mean a lot of things. If you really like her take the risk or chance of trying to win her . " no pain no gain " the same applies when in love.

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@louievill (28846)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
again we can not make conclusions just by that
, oh you are Christian like me lol, you should pray your intentions first and then go for it and accept any outcome as God's will
, oh you are Christian like me lol, you should pray your intentions first and then go for it and accept any outcome as God's will
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
yeah, i have been praying for it and i can feel it that she's the one because I really love her in every way and the most important thing is her love and passion for God.
In the the Church, I don't feel this love to anyone except her. everyday I keep on thinking of her but she did not know that because i am hiding my feelings for her.
so I believe she have no idea that i really like her.
@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
you are right. usually the setting is in the church after we sing songs of praise and worship then we are going to welcome each other by shaking each hands and others through kiss and hugs.
maybe also she don't like me because she don't look at me.

@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
why is it that you are shy to look at a guy in the eye?
maybe she is just shy with me but i don't know why. i wanted to ask her out like taking her for launch or a snack. but i am shy also to say that to her.
@tess_quinain (1148)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
Take a risk of courting her and be ready with the result. At least, you won't have any regrets right. It is better to try than not at all. Who knows she might like you and you would be the happiest man on earth.Lol.
Make sure that you wouldn't be affected that much if the result is negative. Goodluck!
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
thanks, you are right. i am also thinking that maybe she don't like me because i have this old lady and we are staying with the same roof and when we talk to each other i don't look at her in her eyes because i don't like her and i just don't like to talk to her. is it possible?
maybe i need to ask her cellphone number so that i could ask her if she okay and say good night to her before she sleeps.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
when you're not shaking her hand, can she look you in the eyes? maybe she is shy because she likes you or she is just shy that she cannot make eye contact...for me, i sometimes cannot make total eye contact to a guy because i am conscious or a little shy because i kind of like the guy..so maybe it's either she likes you that she is a little conscious about it or could be she is just shy...so good luck to you..
@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
15 Dec 11
I know that she is not shy because she is so friendly and has a lot of friends. we know each other but we are not close and we just smile each other when we see each other somewhere else.
she can look at me but it is just a blink of an eye, we cannot cross our eyes or when i look at her she don't look at me in return. i think it maybe also that she don't like me.
i planning to get her out, but i am looking for the right timing. she is now having her on the job training in a hotel and in a restaurant but i don't her fixed schedule but she don't have a fixed schedule because she is the one chooses what time she would be in the hotel and in a restaurant.
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
18 Jan 12
Is she like this to everyone else or just you? If it's just you, then she might really like you! LOL! I was like that girl, I couldn't look at my crush's eyes either. It's highly likely that she likes you! Congrats!
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
yeah it is. she is not a shy girl and she has lots of friends and she is so friendly. but when i look at her and i can see that her eyes is not with me and instead she looks down at her shoulder.
when i transferred to the afternoon church service and stopped going to church in the morning where she usually go in the morning, i saw her in the afternoon church service.
but i cannot chat with her after the service i am also too shy. maybe because her mom is with her or maybe i am just very close to her parents.
is it that you can't look directly to the eyes of your crush?
how do you feel when you see him and when you are not seeing him?
if you have on a guy do you think about him? how often? day and night, everyday?
do you also dream about him?
do you also fantasies of having him?
@Aja103654 (5644)
• Philippines
29 Jan 12
Maybe she behaves differently towards her friends and to people she likes?
I'm just shy so I can't look at my crush's eyes. Hmm, not sure why. Maybe I'm afraid he would find out or just embarrassed why I like a guy like him, he is not even good looking. LOL, i'm so mean.
When I see him... my heart beats faster(totally cliche, but true!) and when i don't see him, i think about him all the time!
Yes to all your questions LOL! That's why I'm quite positive about her liking you.
When I see him... my heart beats faster(totally cliche, but true!) and when i don't see him, i think about him all the time!
Yes to all your questions LOL! That's why I'm quite positive about her liking you. @katie0 (5203)
• Japan
14 Dec 11
Don't be too happy, it could be that she is really insecure with herself but I believe 75% that she IS INTO YOU. I'm talking about my own, I always look people in the eyes but the guys that I was into it was kind of hard but I looked anyway but it wasn't like looking at someone else, I had the urge to look away so that could be happening to her.
Good luck dear, hope she is!
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
what do you mean by insecure? actually i am not happy because i cannot make a move for her. i don't know how to get started and i would like her to become one of my close friend and i don't want her to know that I am interested in her and that I like her.
any advice?
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
14 Dec 11
to determine this is one shy boy who was very excited when it is up to you.
but it is very nice because you know it means that this girl likes you an awful lot when you are ashamed of and is so shy.
just love this girl and be with her.
nice day!
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@leon3000502000 (1564)
• Philippines
14 Dec 11
i am in love with her but i don't know what steps to take when i am also afraid to be rejected that is why i am not letting her know my feelings for her. i think both of us are shy with each other. i hope she likes me that i have an additional credit.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
I think if a girl allows you to hold her hand it also means that he likes you and she also like you because she cannot look at you straight in the eye. I also think that she is shy to look at your eyes because if she will look at you,you may notice her face expression. I think those are the reason why she cannot look at you because that is what i also feel when i was in her situation.










