Best friend through think or thin???
By Emdjay
@emdjay23 (1575)
Philippines
5 responses
@Dominique25 (9460)
• United States
27 Dec 11
I think for the most part I try and have a good relationship with my spouse, and my friends. We all are imperfect and definitely rub each other the wrong way but a relationship can endure these hard times. I hope that things will improve in your relationship if things aren't going well. Those times are really difficult and it almost seems as if there isn't any hope. But don't give up if your relationship is very important to you.
@Dominique25 (9460)
• United States
28 Dec 11
I agree with you that those individuals who are there for us when we need them are a true source of support. We are able to endure a lot more when we know that there are people who genuinely care about us. I too hope that my friendships will continue to grow and get stronger over the years.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
27 Dec 11
I may say yes. I am a guy and have a guy friend who's really close and whom I trust a lot. And he reciprocates the friendship with trust and respect for me.
He has a girlfriend, and shares with me everything even though his girl asks him not to. And I respect that, and I help him the way I can. Even otherwise if he has a problem, he tells me and if I do, well I don't tell him and keep it to myself, but you got the point right?
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
27 Dec 11
Yes, It's good that you have someone you can rely on.. and Knowing that you're very close is nice.. I thought some guys don't tell their problems to others and just keep it to themselves.. I was wrong.. I guess some guys are just open to whatever problems come their way and tell their friends about it..
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
17 Dec 11
I had been burnt by a best friend years ago and since then I prefer not to have a best friend, I prefer to have many close friends but I never share secrets or anything like that, I feel human nature is too complicated and best to keep a lot to yourself.
@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
17 Dec 11
It's true..sometimes or even most of the time your best friend can be your worst enemy. you give them the trust but all of a sudden they will just destroy it.. It happened to me also long time ago.. that's why It became really hard for me to trust someone..:)
@celticeagle (190074)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Dec 11
My best friend (BFF) lives with her family in Oklahoma. I have known her for fourty five years. We lived together for awhile and I think I know her quite well. She is always stead fast and true. My last husband was a good friend but had a very strong head. Not easy to live with at all. No betrayal.
@celticeagle (190074)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Dec 11
Be honest and foreright and how your BF is the same back.
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
18 Jul 12
In our time today it is really difficult to find a true bestfriend that will stay with you through your up and downs.Some not all only try to make friends with you because they can get something from you and if your not useful anymore then you will be dump like a trash( so sad)
As a piece of advice, it is better for you to put limitations on the things that you are going to share with your bestfriend.
