What does it means if a girl invites you to stay with her?

Malaysia
December 23, 2011 5:45pm CST
Well, in my campus. there are thousands of hostel rooms available for the students. However, the total number of students is much more than that. That is why this semester I have been forced looking for houses around the campus. There is a fair girl, my course mate who texted me and ask if I want to stay with her at the house she rented. What do you think? Why did she do that?
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13 responses
@areskya (398)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 11
There are many possibilities could be the answer of your situation. For the certain answer and avoiding misunderstanding of her meaning, it is better to talk more deeply about her meaning. You can ask her in relax way so she will not feel be offended of your reaction. It is also give you a chance to ask other guy or girl to stay with you there, so it will be more comfort to stay with many friends in the same house.
• Australia
24 Dec 11
maybe to save money. it is expensive to rent a place by yourself, bills do skyrocket all the time. or maybe bored to be alone in the house. or depends on what kind of girl she is. do you think she likes you? from the very uninformative description of the girl, i dont see any harm to it. i can only say it will benefit both of you
@savypat (20216)
• United States
24 Dec 11
You better ask her. She may just like and trust you as a friend. But both of you will be much better off if you get the boundaries of the relationship clear before you move in with her.
• United States
24 Dec 11
As other people have said, you really did not give much information about her or your relationship with her, so it is difficult to speculate about what her motivation might be. However, from what you did say, it sounds like she knows that you are looking for a place to stay, since she is your classmate. She would also know how difficult it would be to find housing at your campus, so if she has a free room, then she probably is trying to be nice and most likely also get help with the bills at her rented apartment.
• Valdosta, Georgia
24 Dec 11
This could be two things. One shes a nice girl trying to help you out or she might like you more than that. The best way to find out is ask in a polite manner. =)
• United States
24 Dec 11
It might not mean anything since there are many students looking for housing. She may be trying to save money and think you might be an alright person. Ask to see the living arrangements. That should tell you more than anything else. If she's already set up for a room-mate maybe she had an opening. Unless she gives you some other signs of interest I would just consider it a financial opportunity.
• United States
24 Dec 11
Means she likes you, it means that she might want to start a relationship with you. Thing is you better take is slow and really get to know her and find out if a relationship really is what she wants from you. Find out what this girls motives are. Trust me, you don't want to make the mistake that a lot of people make, and take it from the adults around here, many of us have made mistakes that we all really regret when it comes to relationships.
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
24 Dec 11
Might be a good thing and you may get a better rate than the other housing. However, before you get your hopes up, you might expect that she will clarify sleeping arrangements. This is the easiest way for her to keep you out of her bedroom, unless she falls for you, of course. If it works out have fun.
@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
24 Dec 11
She appears your well wisher and you should go and ask her straightaway what made her send a text message to you and why does she want you to stay with her.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
24 Dec 11
There are several ways to look at this offer... (01) She might like you & wants you living with her....OR... (02) Maybe she understands your situation & is just trying to be nice. You didn't really give enough information to know which one it really is. You didn't mention her asking you to share expenses & you didn't mention her being very friendly with you other than her offer. Maybe she's having a bit of the Christmas spirit & just wants to be nice to you without any ulterior motive. Maybe if her reason bothers you, you might want to ask her the same question you posed here!!! I'd definitely ask her how long you are invited to stay & what expenses she expects you to help with??? That way there can be NO misunderstanding as to what she's expecting!!!
@sjvg1976 (41127)
• Delhi, India
24 Dec 11
Hello squallming, There are many reasons like she likes you and wants to be close to you.Secondly she thinks you may be a perfect room partner for her or she may not be getting anyone to share house with her as she might be unable to pay the whole rent so she needs a partner.
@Dymo75 (340)
• New Zealand
24 Dec 11
You really don't know, so just be nice to her, and see how it turns out. They say, the more you know someone, the more you either hate them or love them. Either way, it'll turn out all right, so everybody wins! (I think)
@davaome (1826)
• Philippines
24 Dec 11
(evil laugh) There is nothing but dirty thoughts that are running around my mind right now, i think she is no close friend to you but she invited to stay at her place, either with good intentions(which i doubt) or she has someting in mind. To use you for something beneficiary maybe?