My dreams are dashed

Make some more plans! I have severe depression. I know just what you are saying. I have made other goals for myself. We have to come right up against that wall that defines our unabilities. We can kick, scratch, yell, scream and cy about it. Then we either get on with life or we go to bed and sleep through it. You know the drill! You pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get on with it. You are a crafty chic and I think you have few more hats in your closet. Put one on and run with it. Good luck to you!

I have no words. I Want to say things will be ok but if you are not even dreaming... Know this. I'm glad we met. And that you were willing to help me If you disappear I would miss you. And I hope you can find something to go for, to try.

I am in a state of denial. Although most of my dreams have also been dashed, I still try not to accept it. There are also a lot of restrictions creeping in, but I try not to look at them. I hope you don't give up winterose! It may look bleak, but I hope that a few kind words from a few kind people here would help you up a bit.

Hi winterose, I can understand why such thing have caused you depression. We all comes to that realization sometimes that we cannot do anything more in life and will never be able to achieve our dreams. Like you I have felt depression too - there are things in my life that I regret not doing because of some reasons. I try to still put a positive thought about it. I may not have achieved what I want but I think I still have done something better in the past. And still believe I will be able to achieve something in the future maybe not all the things I dreamed about - but at least have satisfaction in my life.

Someone once told me to never give up on dreams, for if we don't have dreams we don't have life. If you can't do the dreams you once had, why not find new dreams to follow or pursue?