Summer dream Part 1
By winterose
@winterose (39887)
Canada
December 28, 2011 10:49am CST
This discussion will be in 2 parts because I had two dreams.
Both of the dreams reflect my state of mind.
The first dream the summer happened when I was going through a bad period this summer. I was working for K and we were not getting along. I felt that he was taking advantage of me by paying other people for some work they had done and not not. He also cut me down in public telling all the writers how I botched up the managerial job he gave me. And then he ignored every suggestion I made. I was feeling used abused and ignored. I have never hurt that bad over an incident in years. It took its toll on me. K and I could not speak without fighting.
I had a dream that reflected the way I was feeling at the time.
Here is the dream:
It was my birthday and my girlfriends were going to take me to a restaurant, but in the dream I didn;t want to go to that restaurant. They wouldn't change their minds and so I decided to go to a restaurant of my choice alone.
I was walking along the street looking for a Chinese restaurant because that is where I wanted to eat but along the way I discovered a restaurant that I had never been to. I decided to go in and try it. However, a big crowd of people were going in at the same time.
When I got in I couldn't find an empty seat. I looked around and found a area of the restaurant that had empty tables and chairs. Nobody was sitting there. I sat down and waited and waited. Nobody came to serve me. Then a waiter came told me that I had to give up my chair because they needed it for someone else.
I was so upset that I was ignored and dismissed that I just left the restaurant.
This clearly was a reaction of what I was feeling in reality
I am over the the situation with K we no longer work together and I like it just like that.
Have you ever had a dream that reflective what you were feeling in reality like this? Please explain
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3 responses
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
31 Dec 11
Was there ever a time when this happened in real life? This story seems like it is familiar to me. Maybe you told me about it in an email or something when it happened. Anyway… Wow! I can’t imagine it being your birthday and you don’t get to decide where you eat and you have to eat by yourself. I can relate to how it made you feel. I would have made me feel like I didn’t matter to them.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 Dec 11
I told you all about this dream in the summer it was when I was having so many problems with K and was feeling like nothing I said to him mattered. He was either bashing me or ignoring me. And then I had the dream which pretty much said the same thing. The people in the dream and the birthday scene never happened in real life.
There is a part two because I had another disturbing dream the other day.
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@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
31 Dec 11
Well, I’m glad to know it didn’t ever happen in real life. I did vaguely remember you telling me this but I couldn’t remember if it was reality or a dream. Thanks for reminding me. You know how bad my memory is, so I’m glad I even remembered it at all.
@celticeagle (189874)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Dec 11
When I was young i had the measles at one point and was really sick and miserable. My dreams were more like nightmares. They were of me running actoss a field and I was being chased by a dark dressed man. He was in hot persuit and i was scared. I look back on this as what I was going through in reality. I had the dream again one other time again when I was really sick. Working so hard to get my fever down and get well.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 Dec 11
yep they reflect how you are feeling in real life maybe scared not sure what is happening to you and the sickness is the man chasing after you in your dream
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Dec 11
My dreams are mostly about things to come I assume. They have nothing to do with the day I went through. Once I kept dreaming about sleeping with others close by in a high building. It stoppewd When I went to New Orleans and... stayed in a Highrise hotel! These days I am staying in a new , weird place . There are others but I am not friends with Any of them. Then I wake up!
As for your friends Not changing Their plans for Your birthday , that part made me livid!! In my family ,it is up to the birthday Girl or boy to tell The rest What is to happen on their birthday. So the thought of " friends" not wanting to do what you want made me so angry. Me? I would have said you go celebrate without me, I'm going to the restaurant I Want! ps. I'm glad K is history!
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 Dec 11
well what you had was a prophetic dream I have them too.
The friends and birthday was the dream did not happen real life, the real life part was I was feeling ignored and felt nobody wanted to listen to anything I had to say.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
31 Dec 11
That's not real anymore. I am interested in listening to you , Always!




