are you sure of your boyfriend / girlfriend ?

Philippines
January 7, 2012 7:22am CST
when i'm with my first time having a girlfriend, i feel like this will be the girl i will marry. however, as time goes by, i realize that it's just a puppy love. i just realized that i don't love her and i just want to have girlfriend just for an experience. i'm only high school at that time. now, i'm in a relation for almost three years . i want her to be my last . we love each other. she's very sweet. i hope that she's mine for the rest of my life.
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7 responses
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
Yeah.. I have thought of that too with my second boyfriend since my first boyfriend was just for a try. With my second boyfriend, I thought he was the one. Our relationship lasted for almost three years. But it just ended with the thing he has done. Now we're over and I am now in a relationship and I don't think that he's the one I will share with for the rest of my life. He has a complicated life and I'm hurting. I just don't know if he's aware that I'm hurting so badly. I hope you and your girlfriend will be together in good and bad things.. If you really want her to be yours, why not propose a marriage to her? Have a happy life!
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• Philippines
8 Jan 12
to say the truth, i'm not yet ready for marriage because i'm only 21 and i'm just a student right now. but we're having a small business. we're thinking of many things to earn money of our own so that we're not independent anymore with our parents. i want to finish my studies first and also searching for a way to earn money.
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@beamer88 (4261)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
I guess a lot of us had thought that our first relationship would be the last. I for one had thought that way back in high school. I've been in a couple of relationships and one thing I noticed is that your love for someone might not really be that deep. I mean, at first we think it is, but then after some time, we realize it isn't after all. But it's nice to hear that you both love each other. All the best wishes for the both of you :)
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• Philippines
8 Jan 12
thank you:) well this is it. we are sure with each other. we're having a baby by august or september. my problem is, i don't know how to say this to my parents but her parents did know about this issue. i hope this will be solve.
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
Well, I'm a person of many doubts and anxieties. Due to my past relationships, I have this assumption that my boy friends will never hold on to me long enough to think that I am the person they would marry. However, my boy friend right now has always told me he thinks I'm the one and if I hadn't went steady with him he could have called me his "never was". He is already thinking about the future, although we were just months in the relationship. He's three years older than me. I'm nearly a graduate from the university and he's a very dedicated employee. He works hard and tells me that he wants to save enough so he can ask my hand in marriage. He told me that I was the only person he was compatible with. He is extremely anti-social and distrustful so I feel as if it was an honor just to get along with him. His taste is very sophisticated and he is highly intellectual. We get along with our humor and our interests. We also think alike most of the time. He's attractive too. Well, it's too early to say whether he's the one, but right now I think he might be the one.
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
when your in a relationship, you must now doubt that person. you must move on with your bad experiences in your past relationships because it is unfair for your boyfriend you are right now.
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@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
I use to think that my first boyfriend is 'the one'. I was so into him. I don't know if I really did love him though and not just all infatuation and just loving the feeling of being with someone. I am in love with my boyfriend at the moment and he is great.
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
that's great. may your boyfriend be consistent of the love she gave on to you. god bless you both.
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@besweet (9449)
• Greece
7 Jan 12
When I was in your age I was falling in love and I had very strong feelings for my boyfriends, but they did not last for long! Now, I prefer to take things slowly and time shows if you can actually live with the other for the rest of your life. Three years is long enough to learn many things about your partner and I have seen many couples that get married from such a young age. It's because you grow up with the other and you have many common experiences.
@besweet (9449)
• Greece
8 Jan 12
Most girls get grumpy and jealous when their boyfriend is playing video games! :P I do the same :) It's because you guys are so focused on the games for so many hours and you don't pay much attention to us!
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
yes it's true. actually, she is possessive but i understand her. maybe she's just afraid that she's gonna lose me? there are times that she will be very jealous even though it is not to be jealous with and when i'm playing computer games too but even though she is being that way, i don't care. i understand her and i love her.
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• Philippines
8 Jan 12
yes i admit i'm addicted with that before but right now i'm focusing with my studies and my future. i'm business minded now :) playing games right now is just my past time.
@kath91 (35)
• United States
8 Jan 12
my boyfriend and i are together 2 years 9 months. he is very attentive,loving, caring. i met him in college he was a friend of my friend. he did everything possible to converse with me . at first i paid no attention because i did not know the intentions that had me. our friendships was 5 months and one day after my birthday i asked if i wanted to be his girlfriend and i said yes. and during all this time we have been pretty and bad times and there have been many fights and until we have finished but always come back i feel that the fights make the relationship stronger.my boyfriend is the love of my life that we want to lose neck plans for the future i hope to meet them only
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
yes, fights make a relationship stronger. that's very true. we had so many fights back then but when the fight is over, out love gets stronger and stronger. forget about the pride because that's a one reason that your in a relationship will be gone.
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@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
7 Jan 12
How sweet of you to say those words for your current girl, you must be in love and deeply in love with her for wanting to share your life with her. May your love reach the ultimate stage of courtship which is a wedding to celebrate your sweet togetherness.
• Philippines
8 Jan 12
thank you for your inspiring words :) may it all come true and may god give us a happy life. i hope all of the problems that will come will not be solve.
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