Everyone is Invited and I DON'T Take NO as an Answer!- That's Final :p

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
January 10, 2012 11:17pm CST
You received an Invitation and that is written in bold letters [b]P.S. I DON'T TAKE NO AS AN ANSWER![/b] Have you ever received such invitation? What if you have other things to do before the said date. Would you cancel the other or first transaction? Let's say, the one who send that invitation is a very dear friend. Would you let her/him down? Hmn....maybe you can divide your time right dear friends? Have a good day everyone jaiho® -Inviting everyone and take note- I DON'T TAKE NO!!! 1-11-2012 1:16pm PT Wednesday
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31 responses
• India
11 Jan 12
hey, love to come their. generally these kinds of invitations come from best friends they also do not like to hear NO. they just orders you are coming and thats final. hey thats good one jaiho
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
aha...do you like Justin?
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
hello jai :p Perfectly....such kind of invitation and order/demand comes from bestfriends and dear ones Okay..you are invited and never say NO
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• India
11 Jan 12
now its sounds like the famous song by "justin bieber".... "never say never"
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@tamirs (1807)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Hi Jai, I will surely laugh loud rolling on the floor must i receive an invitation like this.And i will really clean the day to go to the party.Why? I am sure i will enjoy it to the maximum level or there must be something different about the party And of course no one will send me invitation like this other than those who really know me and whom i also know and love.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
hello tamirs, I love your response How I wish you were just near so I can send you such invitation
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Jan 12
Dear sister, I think the person who sent the invitation must be very sincere and love the presence of all so added that line too. I would love to get such an invitation but nobody sent any such till now (Can I expect one from you?). For attending the party, I must find time, even if I am busy, to such a sincere friend. Then… where I should reach….
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
dear sis Yes, I would love to send you such invitation and your absence will spoil the party... so, you cannot say NO..
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 12
I have never get such line of invitation before. No matter what it will depends on my time whether I will be free or not. I think that line usually been used to emphasize that it is important for us to come but it will make me feel something if I could not make it and at the end it will give me some stress. Better not to put such line~~unless you write after it,'Just Joking'..(^^) You are inviting anyone??? I have saw you wrote it to someone here right??
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Oh sis...you did remember it so well Yes,I wrote it from LK's topic. It's his birthday that day he posted that topic... I am inviting them- he and bhabycatch... Now,I am inviting everyone
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
sis...my party... and you should come
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
11 Jan 12
Yeah, it's in LK discussion. You are inviting them for whose party???
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@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Hi jai If the person is a very dear friend whom I know for a long time. I will find the time to go there. But just in case there is a very important thing/event I would call my friend to make her/him understand that I cannot go anymore. But if I can still make it I will still go even if I come late.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
en You're really great I am sure a very close friend only has the guts to write such kind of invitation. And that person is so confident that you will never let him/her down
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
yes en,and its happen that I am demanding you to come and attend the party
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Yup jai that's also true. Some people will not be that demanding to write it to an invitation.
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@JakeHawk (34)
• United Arab Emirates
11 Jan 12
this has happened to me twice.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
hello Jake, Wow, so, this is possible. I am thinking to write on my invitation- but of course, to my close and dear ones only. I am sure they know that their absence will spoil the party, and that they cannot say NO
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
11 Jan 12
I think it would irritate me to receive such a demanding "invitation." My time is mine and no one else's and if I do have other plans, it's my choice as to whether I will change them or not. Even a dear friend does not have the right to demand that I attend anything for any reason. Maybe I'm grumpy, but I would not like it.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
@ peavey, I think only a very special and close friend can wrote such words. None will ever dare to write such demanding letter if that person doesn't know you right?...
@sabado_dc (1001)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
I would advice you to go and don't ignore the invitation closest friends among friends makes our life longer... go go go
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Jan 12
Hi Jai! I would spare time to attend to such an invitation, where it is specifically mentioned that the host does not like me to remain absent.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
24 Jan 12
Many thanks!
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
hello dpk, Exactly as the invitation wants to convey okay, I am expecting you then
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
12 Jan 12
I have never received an invitation like that. If I had it would upset me to say the least. I would not go to the party. I would go to the other party instead. I am sure it is sent out to be funny but, I think it is rude. I am sure other people would be upset with that type of invitation as well.
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• United States
13 Jan 12
That type of invitation would remind me of the chain letters that we use to get years back. They would say if you don't do what it says that you will have bad luck. I think people responding to them, out of fear. So this type of invitation would just end up in the garbage in our home.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
hello Mary, It will surely sounds rude and demanding if the sender is now a close and dear one. And, I think no one will dare to send such kind of invitation to someone whom he/she is not close with.
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
11 Jan 12
Hi, Mostly it depend on how the thing around. For me, 95% wish goes to 'YES' and the rest of 5% depend on the urgency of the excludable situations. If we have certain high priority or unavoidable circumstances at the special occations, we may have to say 'NO', and later on we can meet the person and bid for a genuine sorry. It works out and I think if the occation is such an important one, of course, I will try to attend the situation with no excuse. Regards Thank-s
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
hello thanks, I could understand that my dear. Especially when you have an important thing to do on the same date. We need to choose between the two -as always, as we cannot divide ourselves. Unless, the time for those occasions are not the same, maybe we can attend to both.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
Yes, that was fine inspite not feeling well. I am about to cook more dishes for same number of people again. Yes, maybe 10 dishes for 100 persons... And you are invited dear
• India
11 Jan 12
Hi, Nice to come back, I just missed to ask you that how was the special preparations and food servings? All liked your food? Still, my share is not yet reached here. Unless tasting it, how can I evaluate about your cooking?? hahaha (just for fun) Thank-s
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
13 Jan 12
Well, if I had nothing planed then I would go. But if I had major plans, I would have to decline. But in order for a friend to send an invitation like that, it must be a big deal and they want all their friends to attend. So, like I said, if nothing else is going on, then I would go.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
hello inertia, I am sure it's a big deal and the sender never want to miss your presence aint? I don't think an ordinary acquaintance will send such kind of invitation, for sure it's a close and dear one who only has the guts to send and write such kind of demand (hahaha)
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
18 Jan 12
I have to agree with you there. Only a very close friend or close family member would send such an invitation.
@Mayuko (1268)
• United States
23 Jan 12
I have never received such an invitation, but if I did, I'd hope it's something I don't want to go to just so I could say "No" and be final with it It really bugs me when people are so demanding and pushy. It's like everyone should do what they want, but if someone else wants something, they may or may not agree. And they know no compromise; it's there way or nothing. My older sister is like that
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
25 Jan 12
hello Mayuko, Well, even if the invitation says something like a demand...the final decision still depend upon us aint? Who can stop us from saying NO or YES! Have a good day
@Mashnn (4501)
11 Jan 12
I would not like someone giving me such un welcoming invitation. I would probably not attend such a party and wait and see what will happen.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
hello Mashnn, If the invitation comes from not so close friend- or acquaintance,I will consider it as a joke. But if the invitation comes from a very special person/friend/loved ones who really knows me and close to my heart. I am confident that, that person knows I cannot say NO! Have a good day
@Mashnn (4501)
11 Jan 12
Wise consideration. Happy a wonderful day too.
• India
11 Jan 12
If any of one calls me confidently and urgently to take part in the occasion I will sure take part in it. This type of calls or invitation signifies the importance of our presence in the occasion. So I always used to attend such occasion which needs my presence. Hey jaiho 2009, Do you miss such occasions dear ?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
hello wonder, Indeed...you got it! No one will ever sent an invitation with words like that if you are not important right? No-I never missed an occasion today but I did missed one last New Year. I am inviting friends to attend my special event...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
11 Jan 12
wow....I am so pleased I will be hosting a special occasion on Sunday. So special -but not allowed to be posted here or else my topic will be deleted
• India
11 Jan 12
When ? I will surely come with my family Make all the arrangement dear
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@SinfulRose (3527)
• Davao, Philippines
12 Jan 12
If the said date is already appointed with another activity...let's say an activity that involves family and the one who sent it to me is a very dear friend, I will not go to the event. My family is my first priority. But also I will apologize to my friend for it. It is best if I tell my friend about my decision sooner so that he/she wouldn't worry if I couldn't come. If you are confused on what to do in this kind of situation, determine your priority, do not think yet about the outcome. Choose what's more important for you: your dear friend or the subject of your activity?
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
hello Rose, I agree. Family always comes first and let the person knows our reason not to make them feel bad. I am sure the one who send the invitation is expecting our presence so much - and an apology is not a bad at all.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
12 Jan 12
You'd have to have a very special relationship with the sender (or the invitee) to send such a demanding 'invitation'. I would think this would only work with close friends. But if I were given this, and I'm still unsure if I would go or not, then I'd just say MAYBE. It's still not a NO.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
hello bounce, Exactly my friend No one will ever dare to send such kind of invitation- but a close and dear friends/loved ones. Yes, we cans till say NO- if we really cannot make it. I am sure that friend will understand about it..
• Mexico
14 Jan 12
Hi jaiho: I feel that is a little bit unpolished to try to force someone to accept my invitation. If I know that is very important, I would try to do almost everything to and be with this very important person in my life but if I definitely could not go I would tell this. I am the king of my own life and people should understand that sometimes you have to take no as an answer. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
16 Jan 12
hello Alvaro, There is nothing wrong for saying No. However, I am sure the one who sent the invitation is dear/close one. No one will sent such kind of invitation, unless a very dear and close love ones.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
12 Jan 12
You know, I have never received such an invitation and if I did, fine, they would not be getting "no" for an answer. They might be getting "no" for an answer proceeded by a certain four letter word that rhymes with truck, but seriously, people who demand that you show up for something so trivial, that would anger me beyond belief. If I decide to show up, it will be because I want to. In fact, I don't think that person will be a friend for much longer. This is the kind of obnoxious demand that I personally would severe all ties it. Unless you're writing my paycheck, you have no right to make demands on my time and how I spend it. Therefore, that is just a rather agitating invitation to receive and I pray that no one I know would be stupid enough to do such a thing involving me.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
hello megamatt, I am sure no one will dare to sent such kind of invitation to someone he/she never knows so well, or not a close and dear friend/loved ones. No one wants to demand someone they know will be pissed off- (who wants an angry visitor anyway- lolz) Thanks for your response and have a good day
• India
19 Jan 12
Jane beta I have never received any such invitation in the recent past. It is marriage season here, on my table lies about 50 invitation cards, some are from friends, some from relations; well it is not possible to attend all; moreover i don't move alone, need an escort always.. If my son is available, he is out from 7am till 8pm on duty 60 kilometers away, on his off days, he can take me.. Thanks for this discussion. Hugs from Papa
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
19 Jan 12
hello dada, Marriage season there? And where is my groom? Arrange one for me soon
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
That's really a unique invitation :P That leaves you no choice but to attend. Lol! Smart one :D Well, if you said he/she's a close/dear friend, then I'd definitely make time to attend the party :)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
hello kei, Sorry for my late response dear I believed a close and dear person to us has the guts to write such demand. A person who knows you can never say NO and knows that its not a demand or command invitation- but a fun with love invitation