What will u do if a person whom u love cheats u?
• United States
15 Jan 12
Well rahularya....... I went thru that same exact situation just last year. The butthole that I was in a relationship with for ten years, cheated on me. Now mind you, this jerk lives right around the corner from me, as well as the jerk he cheated on me with. My first response was to do something mean to the both of them, but the longer I avoided seeing them together, especially him, I was able to move on. Of course I am still hurting, but I know it will get better.
14 Jan 12
I am not also a revenge type of person, if she cheated on me then so be it, but she'll definitely regret cheating on me for the rest of her life.. Somehow, if someone cheated on you, you will just have to live on it, its more pathetic to see that you're begging for her to come back..just spare yourself some dignity..
20 Oct 12
If a person whom I love more than anything else will break my heart, never will I take a revenge. Because I believe in karma, a good one for a good did and a worse karma for a bad did. At first, I know that I will surely live with a broken heart, but that won't mean that I will live that way forever. I know aside from my friends' help, I need to help myself too to recover from the pain. Loosing one love who cheated on you is not worth a lifetime of loneliness. There is always a good reason for everything, you just need to realize that.
14 Jan 12
I am not a revenge type of person but some are.I know people who tried to take revenge from their beloved ones and some they have succeded in it.I can not imagine myself try to hurt the others and especially people who i love and care.I would rather live with a broken heart..
• United States
11 Mar 12
Good question and a hard question. I think it depends on what type of relationship you had. As for me I would find out what drove that person a way, starting with myself, did I have something to do with this? If a person loves you then finding someone else means that something was broken between you and it was bound to happen. You can forgive but you will never forget and it will take a lot of love and work to heal the heart. It can happen, I have girlfriend who was married then she got a divorce because of cheating husband, but she found it in heart to forgive. They went to counseling and talked it out. Now they are back together and working things our. It is so important to communicate and to keep an open mind. It is not easy! But it is possible.
22 May 12
i will not take revenge. i will just let karma revenge for me.. sooner or later he will realize what he loose. just show to him that he made the wrong decision. and show him that you are better off without him. stay happy and enjoy life to the fullest.
20 May 12
..hai friend.. i deep -felt many times..i'll take not revenge, i let the time heal my broken heart, to move on..i'll try and try to love but it's not meant for me..till, i met a gurl,who truly gives her truly love and care, i saw myself to her, the way i care and love,she changed me a lots,, we should not lose hope to find a person who will love us with all her/his care and heart...and now im so happy and thank GOD for giving me now i had.. nice day ahead
29 May 12
People react in different ways to a broken heart... Personally i cant see revenge as an answer for anything. no good ever comes from a revengeful heart. I know when i found out my first wife and second wife were both cheating on me behind my back, yes i was heart broken, but i tried to keep the marriages together as there were small children involved in both cases. But there does have to come a time when you cant take it any longer, and seperation is the only answer.... For my second marriage it was coming home hot and tired from work one day to find my wife in bed with a strange man. He had exactly 30 seconds to get out of my bed and house before he had to be carried out... But that was the last straw and I knew it was time to get out of the marriage... i still see my kids on a regular basis and they know i still care and love them and thats the main thing.
10 Mar 12
You know, my friend. Being cheated really hurt and painful because we don't expect that the person we love so much was betrayed us. When my partner betrayed me...I don't think about revenge but still hoping things being settle but come to point that I realize things still gone wrong besides that I forgive her always. Now, she doing so much pain for me and I really dissipate my heart so much and cried for revenge. I don't know how to start my revenge but still hoping not gone that far...