Sometimes I am scared of her...

Stay clear of her when she is in a bad mood.

f she is a friend be honest and tell her when she gets like that as she might not realie she is crossing the l ine friends who are close can be very honest with oneher.

Would you be able to tell her, when she's in one of her calm and approachable moods, how she makes you feel when she's being scary? I'd hope that if she is a real friend, she'd take it on board.

Then don't approach her if she is this way. Give her room and just observe until you are able to approach her in a positive manner. If she is good and positive in her leadership and if you are a good friend maybe you can tactfully help her to hoan her frank and hurtful into honest and tactful too.

Hi lady! I am just like your friend and frankly speak I don't like anyone to get near to me when I am focused on something. Even if they wanted to asked me something I will treat like I am not bother with it. If they insist me to respond they will surely get something from me..(^^) Don't be scared. You just need to let her do her works and wait till she get back her good mood. As for me, when I get done with my works I will welcome anyone who wants to talk with me. I hope she will do the same too..(^^)

Hello lady, I am exactly the same person as your friend is. Most of my friends too say the same thing about me when I am focused. Too much of mood swings. That's right! I would suggest you to keep some silence when your friend is really focused on doing something with all her might! This will only annoy your friend. And as you know, when she is in a good mood, she will be the best person in the world.

In any friendship one find a person who is more dominant than the others and as you have said, a born leader.As long as that person acts within bounds of decency and is not arrogant and spiteful,then one can continue the friendsip.However if he/she becomes egoistic and nasty then its better to give up the friendship.As long as your friend acts decently you can continue with her but be on your guard as such persons are very unpredictable in their behaviour.

Many people who seem perfectly normal have areas in which they are compulsive. I have several friends like that so once I learn what sets them off I just stay away from those subjects. Religion and polltics are the most usual subjects, that is why we are taught never to bring those subjects up in public. Of course with todays wide exposure to communication sometimes it's very hard to ignore them.

be cool. just smile before speaking when you see that she is in this so-called mood swings. and ask her if everything is going ok at the moment, then you can talk. friends are friends no matter what. it's a strong bond, much stronger than mood swings. so don't be afraid. take care!

Maybe when you will be friends with her for a longer time then you won't feel scared or intimidated when you're with her. There are people who have different mood swings and they can be unpredictable sometimes when they are focused on something. I could be that when I'm really focused on something that I wanna have it done ASAP. Cheers!

I have a friend that is like that too. I just try to accept her and not let some things she says hurt me. I just think to myself oh it's just how she is and let it go. It's funny but if someone else says the same thing it would hurt me. I love this friend and we do get along most of the time so when she goes off on one of her rants I ignore it completely... =)

Maybe you just feel a little intimated as she's more frank than you are. If you both will be friends for a longer time I am sure that you will know how to act when she started so become so serious on things and you will know how to approach her even on those times.

I think you became friends because you have the total balance. If sometimes she is authoritative, just bear with it by complying to what she wants. There will be time that you will be needing that character of her or you can atleast learn from her.