miscarriage
By novelcai
@novelcai (600)
Philippines
January 25, 2012 8:24am CST
hi there myloters,
I lost my 2nd baby. I had miscarriage last january 12. First the situation still not sinking on my mind because we just need to make sure that my health will be ok. And now that im feelin better i starting to feel sad and even had a bad dreams. This past few days i dont even have good sleep. Im still in bed rest and going back to work on feb.
Do you experienced to lost someone and or something? How can you mange to make you feel better? I know time will help a lot. thank you
9 responses
@sjvg1976 (41132)
• Delhi, India
26 Jan 12
Hello novelcai,
I am sorry to hear for your miscarriage
.I know it is hurting you and its not that easy to forget your unborn baby but its life and you will have to recover for your future
.Yes you need complete rest for few days hope so after that you will be OK.
.I know it is hurting you and its not that easy to forget your unborn baby but its life and you will have to recover for your future.Yes you need complete rest for few days hope so after that you will be OK.
@tatzkie23 (770)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
hi novelcai,
I'm sorry to hear about your unborn child. I know how you feel. I also have a friend who had lost his son recently. It was depressing. I was depressed too. I hope that you'll be able to cope up. I haven't lost someone before, but when i do get depressed, i just make my self busy and control my mind and emotions. I also get along with family everyday, i always to talk to someone so that i can share my thoughts and say what i'm feeling. Being with other people i love makes me move on. And also, One thing i did is that, I hold on to God. I pray and talked to him. I let go my life to him. And that helps me a lot. I have faith in God.
Don't lose your hope my friend, i know you are very sad, but i know that you can make. If ever you still want to have a baby, plan for it. Know your body so that you'll know if you're pregnant or not. So take care of yourself my friend. 
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
3 Feb 12
HI there tatzkie23,
I'm agree with you.. Talking to God will give you strength we need in any hard situaton. Just having a hard time because I'm alone inside the house and now one to talk to and having many times to think what happened to me. My partner is in abroad and i live far from my family and cant go outside because i was under medication and need to rest.
But now Month of february I came back to work,, Being busy and to someone to talk and back to my normal routine helps me a lot..
I know everything has a reason.. Hope this month will be also a ngood start.
Thank you for the respnce and happy mylotting. HAppy day ???
@ayumitakashi (4462)
• United States
25 Jan 12
I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. I've never been pregnant or had anything dealing with this; I can't even imagine how you are feeling right now. I hope that you are doing well right now and that you are getting plenty of fest and love from your family members.
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
Im feelin better now physically. just need one last check up and get "fit to work" from my doctor and ready going back to work. Maybe being busy to work will help me a lot.
time will come you will be a mother too. its amazing experienced.
Thank you for the response. Have a good day.
@post2sawa (88)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
Feeling sad for loosing someone you love is normal, specially if it happened just recently. But that doesn't mean that you would stock your self to that situation, you have to move on even how painful it is. You should take care of yourself the more now, think what will your love one feel seeing you in that situation.
Maybe God was just preparing a lovely angel for you who is just waiting when you were perfectly ready to meet him/her. Focus on your life, make yourself ready till God introduces you to your angel.
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
Hi there post2sawa,
Yes your right. Don't worry im not going to stock my self here. What makes me feel more sad and more time thinking about what happen to me because im alone in the house. And thats why i come back here to mylot just to express my feelings. I will be ready going back to work on Feb1 and i know being busy will help me alot.
I like what you have said about the lovely angel.
Thank you for commenting.
have a nice day..
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
26 Jan 12
that is pretty hard novel, you should rest and make sure you are healthy. i got no words to say regarding miscarriage..as i never experienced it but i believe God has purposes in life. Just be strong and get back to your health 100%, take care
@minnie0923 (136)
• United States
28 Jan 12
I know how you feel. I was told at 18 that I could get pregnant, but that I would probably not be able to carry to term. I have had 10 pregnancy's and only 2 live births. It sucks every time, but the best advice I can give you is wait a couple of months before trying again, that way you can let your body heal. Also it is okay to grieve for the lost pregnancy. You need to go through all the steps of letting your mind, body, and spirit to heal and then you can try again. The worst one for me was when I lost a set of twins on the same day my sister had her second baby. It broke my heart to have to be happy for her when I felt so bad. I would go and do things that I could not do while pregnant or after the baby was born to get my mind off of it even for a few moments. I wish I have not lost as many as I did, but I am thankful for what I have. Here is hoping you will feel better soon.
