telling secret really needs a big courage

Yeah thats true . But , secrets sometimes are not told because of the fear to be unacceptable in society, or scare of what people will say about you . or maybe afraid of loosing what u have untill now, I think if one wants to reveal a secret has to be prepare psicological to handle all the concecuences , well , depending of how big and delicate is the secret. Have a good one.

hi aira, I believe that each and everyone of us has it's own secrets that nobody knows even our closest friend or love one. We just keep it ourselves which is ok, but if this is causing you some troubles then might as well say it to the person you trust most. In your case, well, if it's really important and need to be told, then say it, even though you know that somebody will get hurt. I also have a lot of secrets, but i try my best to keep it with myself. LOL.

Keeping a secret is good-if it means protecting someone. There are instances that we need to keep a secret -yes, not to hurt people. But sometimes, if hurting them will do a better result- then, so be it. It is better to hurt them with the truth than with a lie. It's hard to keep a secret if someone trusted us to keep it. It's a promise that we should and must keep in our heart. When it regards to our own secret- I agree, it takes a lot of courage to disclose it, even to the most trusted person in our life. But, it will help us to have peace in this life.

your right not all secret can be reveal to our family or friends thats why we have white lies to avoid any problem nor to avoid hurting someone else feelings but just our self. thats the reason why mylot help me a lot as i normally share my thoughts and secret here with other people to get some idea and to also lessen some heart ache and burden in mind, i dont mind sharring it here since i dont know my friends here in person.

Some secrets can be told to others which will do no harm to persons ,i think. But there are some secrets which we should not let out .Otherwise we will be regretful. there is a principle being human.we shouldn't hurt people although we would not have done it.

I think it depends on the kind of secret if it's hard to keep in. I agree it takes courage to tell someone else about it, although this can also be done because it can be a relieve to share it with someone (even if that person can't keep your secret and is no longer your friend). I don't know if I have secrets. to my opinion you can also make secrets out of things not worth it. I mostly tell everything inmediately no matter if people are shocked or not.

Keeping a secret to myself has never been a problem to me.I can keep secrets easily.Keeping your own secrets is fine everybody do that and it is no big deal.Well i can keep my secrets and others secrets too that's fine but when someone else tells me something their secret and want me to keep it discreet and I know that if i don't act upon it then i will make situation worse.That is really really hard.

telling a secret is a way for us to dispell stress in our heart.

yes but you should choose the person you can rely on...

secret, to tell or not, it is existing. Find a way out to feel comfortable.