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vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 16 Jun 12

Man seems to cheat a lot more than women in romantic relationships, whether it's a man from the West or from the East, man is always a man and the same everywhere. That said, women are becoming equal to men in all aspects...

who flirts more man or woman

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safety69 Nowadays , women cheat a lot , but , they are just more careful to be discovered , because society is more harder on women than on men. So , we still hide some of our secrets. We want to be called Mrs. ..... with all the respect .

8 Jul 12

Always smiling @allknowing (126553) • India 8 Jul 12

If there was a free gift offer announced in a mall and you miss it but those around you are displaying their 'wealth' what would be your feelings. I would simply cry[em]cry[/em. Actually at the moment I am...

4 times bonus

missed it

mylot

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safety69 Dont atach too much to things. Just relax and think that , that thing was not meant for you. If something is for you , somehow it will get to you . In my country we say: The Juan s things are not taken by Peter. What is for you, nobody will take it. Just let...

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Tiana @kkaria309 (297) • United States 14 Jun 12

In India, arranged marriage is still the most accepted way to get married. Parents choose a girl or a guy when they feel that their offsprings are of the 'right age'. The girl or guy has to simply interview the person chosen by...

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safety69 I think it shouldnt be your parent s desition , it should be your own and only desition. and you can do so many things in life , you dont have to marry before getting to your 30s . I think getting marry is a love disition , and you will know the time when you...

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vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 8 Jul 12

Every man and woman do keeps secrets from their spouses/partners. Nothing wrong in keeping a few secrets to save the relationship. That said, keeping too many secrets may ruin the relationship totally. Do you keep secrets in your...

is it good in a relationship

keeping secrets

keeping too many secrets may harm the relationship

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safety69 I think it will depend of the secrets. For example , I got marry and i didnt tell everything about my single life to my husband , what for? thats past. Also if he has somethings that he doesnt want to tell me , its ok , unless they affect our present life. But...

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JenInTN @JenInTN (27515) • United States 6 Jul 12

Maybe I am wrong to be offended, but the more I think about it, the more it bothers me. I may be reading a little more in to this but I really can't help it. I know that my daughter's b/f is young and I try to remind myself of...

personal questions

rude

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safety69 Yes , he doesnt have good manners in fact , he looks intersting in your money , hahah sorry , You answered very good, dont let him pick in you privacy. Ask him to respect you for being the mother of his girlfriend. Good luck with that guy.

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jsae29 @jsae29 (1120) • Philippines 5 Jul 12

When I was in high school, I joined an outreach program organized by our school. We went to a less-fortunate community to give the people some canned goods and old clothes. In one area, I noticed that there was a house being...

generous

poor

rich

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safety69 Not all rich people are not generous. but , I guess some people who are not rich and give some of what they have is because they understand more what is being poor and more in need. I guess we have to give always from what we have not what is left. Do you...

6 Jul 12

jsae29 @jsae29 (1120) • Philippines 5 Jul 12

Wealth , I believe, in one point can have a bad effect on a person. Wealth equates to power and most of the time people tend to struggle to remain in power. Some people would everything and anything to maintain wealth and power....

greed

money

wealth

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safety69 I think money is not for everybody , some people who has won the lottery gets nuts, spending all the money they didnt have before, and they change as persons with others. Some people who are just rich since they are bored they manage the money just in a normal...

6 Jul 12

Jane @jaiho2009 (39148) • Philippines 6 Jul 12

Opps..this is not about the 4x earnings :p There is a common belief and superstition here in our country that to avoid something bad to happen you must/should knock on wood 3x. I wonder what will happen if accidentally you...

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safety69 Hi , I completly forgot about that superstition. In my country we knock on wood 2 times if we dont want that something bad we are talking about happends to us. I guess if you knock 4 times nothing will be happend to you ,since is just a supperstition. Good...

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ShootingStar79 @ShootingStar79 (67) • United States 6 Jul 12

I believe jealousy is the root of all evil and I've seen many people act in ways that made me question if they were just jealous or what. Have you been jealous of someone or have someone jealous of you? What are some of your...

jealousy

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safety69 Jealousy means , untrusting someone, or that person doesnt have confidence in her or himself. There are different kind of jealous: in friendship , in a relationship, or jealous of what the other have, we have to be careful and dont make comparisons between...

6 Jul 12

Danzylop @Danzylop (1120) • Philippines 4 Jul 12

I am living with my mother-in-law. We are not yet married with my girlfriend but we are now living together. We were supposed to get married last April but was not pushed through because she was in the hospital for 3 months. This...

family relationship in laws mother in law

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safety69 Dont fight with your mother in law , and find a job as soon as you can , then , find a place to live only the family : your wife, your son and you. You need to raise that boy , your mother in law s job is to play with the kid and love him. The responsability...

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mikyung @mikyung (2232) • Philippines 2 Jul 12

I went to prison! It's not that I committed a crime punishable by law. It's that I visited a relative in prison. He has been there for almost 5 years now and it's my first time seeing him there. It's only now that I have the...

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safety69 I used to go to prision once a month , for visiting all of them from church. We used to attend mass together , they even have a chorus and read the bible, after the mass , we used to talk with some of them , some were there forever for life time, they seem to...

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Chikezie @Chikezie (385) • Malaysia 4 Jul 12

In search for success in life, which would you desire first to come to you? Bear in mind the one you pick first is the most valuable to you. Which will stand the test of time. Lets get opinions

bear in mind

fame

money opinions

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safety69 Well , I guess we can not have money if dont have success for doing something amazing, such as singing , dancing, or being a movie star, or stand and teach something good, after that , the money will come . I think thats the way it works out.

4 Jul 12

verolop29 @verolop29 (1096) • United States 2 Jul 12

today i cooked my neighbor and it was fun. i taught her how to make enchaladas and she loved it! i showed her how to make hoomemade tortillas and at first she she was like i dont know if i can make this. she was doubting herself...

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safety69 Thats great you taught someone to make a different kind of food , I am very open to try and learn how to cook other countries food. The other day I made some vanilla cookies with some friends at my place, they didnt know how to make them for me was so...

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StrawberryShortcake1 @StrawberryShortcake1 (103) • Canada 2 Jul 12

Why is it when I tell someone I am an atheist I get looked at like I am the devil? Is it because people do not understand completly the meaning? I remember telling my boyfriends mother 3 years ago, she is a very stong believer in...

atheism

atheist

beliefs

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safety69 Atheism is not a religion or a group to follow , why did you mentioned it to her?? you shouldnt . And if you are around saying that you are atheism , what for??? you just have to respect other people s beliefs, and just believe whatever you want, is like some...

3 Jul 12

safety69 @safety69 (592) • Taiwan 2 Jul 12

My son is wyning so much , complaining all the time , fighting with his older brother , the little one who is 5 blames the big one who is 10 , i dont know how normal is that. I worry because i dont want them to fight , i want them...

tantrums

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safety69 Ok , I will take it , thank you for sharing ... I know that tantrums are to call the attention , but , he the next minute is ok. But when he screams its so loud , I guess i have to be patient??? jajaja. thanks again. have a good day.

2 Jul 12

safety69 @safety69 (592) • Taiwan 2 Jul 12

My son is wyning so much , complaining all the time , fighting with his older brother , the little one who is 5 blames the big one who is 10 , i dont know how normal is that. I worry because i dont want them to fight , i want them...

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safety69 Thank you very much for sharing with me , yes I try to do the best as mother alone because the father is always working out of the country, so , I have to deal with them myself, and sometimes i am not sure if what i do is the right thing to do, I am afraid of...

2 Jul 12

safety69 @safety69 (592) • Taiwan 2 Jul 12

My son is wyning so much , complaining all the time , fighting with his older brother , the little one who is 5 blames the big one who is 10 , i dont know how normal is that. I worry because i dont want them to fight , i want them...

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mizzyblue @mizzyblue (11) • Philippines 26 Jun 12

I am a mother of two beautiful kids. I've been a mom since i was 22 and now I'm 29.For 7 years I started taking good care of my kids on my own and try so hard to earn for them. Even though their father and I are still together,...

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safety69 Congratulations! of course you did the right decision , the father didnt help at all in the raising of the kids , instead , he could ruin the personality of the kids. I know it must be so hard to deal with the kids and have to work and do all by yourself, but,...

1 Jul 12

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