So what if it is Valentines Day- I still want to say "Good-bye"!

By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
February 13, 2012 9:41pm CST
Yah! So what if it is Valentines Day? Is that enough reason for not "letting go" and saying "hello- I want to tell you- it's Good-bye" Will you spare this day for another romance and postpone the "break-up" the next day all because it's Valentines Day, or you never give a dam* and walk out from his/her life? Postpone a break-up? Have you ever done this? Have you ever broke someone's heart on Valentines day? And are you gonna break someone's heart on Valentines day? HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE jaiho®- not celebrating valentines day 2-14-2012 11:04am Tuesday
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22 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Hi jai I don't think there is a reason to postpone a break up whatever the occasion may be. If there is no love anymore - it is better to bid someone goodbye and walk away from the relationship. I have never done such a thing, nor break a heart on Valentines day, hopefully I won't ever break someone's heart on this day too. Happy Valentines day jai
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
en HAPPY VALENTINES I am thinking of breaking my heart today (nyahahaha) Just for the sake of experiment :p What do you think dear
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Feb 12
Just for the sake of experiment I think di is missing some salt... and wants to compensate with tears... Drink a cup of salted Sea water
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Feb 12
@godmom happy Valentines dear
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Feb 12
hi di Live today, Enjoy Today... all other things can wait. btw why do I need to think of any breakups today? Nah! If there was supposed to be one, I would have picked up my cell phone, called up at 11:59 on 13th Feb and said - GoodBye... and then Today will be a fresh start Seriously, I dont think Today is the right day to initiate a breakup. It is good enough for a Patch up Instead
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
aw sids it's too late to bring back the hands of clock :p So you might be telling me indirectly to postpone the break-up?
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
14 Feb 12
Yes Yes Yes Postpone it. Because, today you can have a fiesta of Gifts, Chocos, Roses, Food and tonnes of goodies from your bf and then say him goodbye tomorrow... Wont you like him to take you on a cruise today and dine with that Champagne
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
Ok granted- who can say to all those treats
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
16 Feb 12
Valentines day is no excuse. If you want to or have to break up with someone, it does not matter if it is Valentines day. And if you look at it very closely, Valentines day is probably the best day to break off a relationship. It is the perfect opportunity for being together, so you get the chance.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
hello inertia, You got a point. Never miss the chance of being together- and broke someone's heart (hahaha) But,I will consider a dinner date first before doing so (hahahaa) I can't afford breaking someone's heart with an empty stomach Have a nice day
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
20 Feb 12
LOL. Look, I am not heartless. I feel for people also. I do not like breaking someones heart either. But I do believe in letting them down as easy as possible.
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@Kalyni2011 (3496)
• India
13 May 12
We don't observe this day in the sense many do, but we observe it as a friendship day, i think none should break heart of any on this day.. Hugs from maa to Jane beti HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY Sorry for late response.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 May 12
dear maa, I do not observe this celebration as well. But it's so sweet to receive gifts on Valentines day Hugs to you and dada
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
14 Feb 12
I think that Valentine's day is just a shopping day, a day to make the richer richest, and just spend money.So if you don't fell that your xb ouple is your soulmate is better say it early than late, maybe she/he can fine a person that love her/him like deserve.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hello Rosa, You got it right. This Valentines day is more of business/commercial thing than the real essence of expressing love. And you are right,why keep someone when we feel s/he is not the right one. Free each other to find the right one is the best way. Have a good day
• India
15 Feb 12
Actually all these various celebration days which have sprung up is a big racket by those who benefit from the expenditure of people. So the greeting card industry, the gift industry and so on they feed in the psyche of people that they need to celebrate the day so on. where as if you love somebody, then your normal everyday action must say it and one need not wait for any special day for celebration of love. It can and must be celebrated everyday, every moment in more than one ways. So you are absolutely right, it is just another shopping day. And if the relationship is no longer what it used to be, if it is not giving any happiness at all and instead eating away happiness, it is better to say goodbye regardless of what day it is.
@khare_1005 (1310)
• India
14 Feb 12
hello jai, breaking heart is not a game. at least not for me. i just hope and wish i never have to go though this ever as breaking heart is painful for both, the one who is breaking and for the one who is getting broken. happy valentine's day dear.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
dea khare, Oh no- I wont either and never had any plan of breaking someone's heart I know it hurts and I don't want anyone to go through with the same pain that I had been through :x Happy Valentines
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• India
14 Feb 12
thanks father, wish you the same
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@emdjay23 (1575)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
for me it doesn't matter if it's valentines day or not,if you don't love him/her then break up with him/her.Why?because postponing break-up just because of the occasion is a sign of hypocrisy,.and i will never give a d*mn..hehe i'm not bitter,i'm just giving you my opinion..
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
hello emdjay, Since I do not observed this occasion, this is just ordinary day to count. Besides, there is not difference breaking his heart, on,before or after valentines day. The situation will still be the same. So,I agree with you, go on with the right decision- than keep pretending. Have a good day
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
14 Feb 12
I have always thought it's a day of affection, not just for lovers my heart was once broken on V day someone that supposed to come to marry me, never arrived 2 mths later I met another man that I later married for 11 yrs since then I never cling on past hurt or loss, it's a good experience to learn I always move on, because for everything and everyone I lose there is always someone/ something better
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
hello LM, There is no need clinging with the past. I know it hurts, I've been through almost same situation. Past and painful experience give us the best lesson in life. It made us stronger than we thought we are. I am happy that you find true love Have a good day
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
14 Feb 12
I have never broken up with anyone on Valentines Day nor would I. Whenever I have broken up with a guy, it was not ever an instant decision. It was something that I'd given much thought to. I would break up with the person beforehand if I really felt that way. I can't be so phony or cruel to celebrate a romantic night with someone that I want to break it off with or even considering breaking it off with him.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
hello sid, I couldn't just imagine having a romantic date only to end up breaking someone's heart- esp someone who once I love and shares my life :x I might consider breaking up with someone before valentines day. Have a good day
@maezee (41997)
• United States
15 Feb 12
I wouldn't break up with someone on Valentine's Day. I mean it's sad to spare their feelings until the next day, but it's a break up, either way it's going to be sad. But I think breaking up with someone on a holiday just adds insult to injury.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
hello maezee, You got point there. Why hurt someone when everyone is celebrating love and romance. Thanks for your comment and have a good day
@shibham (16977)
• India
15 Feb 12
Hi didi... What if it is valentine day Nothing. Well, no more girl in life to break up or hurt. You better know that. Have a nice time.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
shiby, Oh, stop hurting girls na...and where's the next lady huh?
• India
15 Feb 12
Jane beti Am confused again, do you want to convey, some one broke your heart on this Heart's day, i have never broken any ones heart till this date, and there is no chance in future.. Professor
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
dear dada Oh don't be confused. No one broke my heart and I won't anyone broke my heart again (hehehe) This time I will be the one to broke their hearts (hahaha) just kidding dada. Hugs to you and maa always
@Ernnesto (180)
• Slovak Republic
14 Feb 12
I never did so, and I hope never will. I know that sometimes the relationship is not giving a sense, but on Valentine´s day is qiute a bad time for such thing. I am not so big fun of Valentine´s day but still I would in such case find other date for it.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
hello Ernesto, I respect your opinion and if you can avoid such case, why not. I am also not a big fan of valentines day and if ever the break-up case happens that day- i guess that depends on the situation. Have a good day
@loonys (418)
15 Feb 12
If it wasn't so much commercial about this day people wouldn't even notice much. Most of females like to celebrates and guys just follow.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
15 Feb 12
hello loonys, Yah, this occasion is one of the most commercialize event that people patronized. Well,men are less romantic than women have a good day
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
I think I have. It was valentine's day when i thought i should break up with a boyfriend when i was younger. but when we got together.. we had a good time and we ate.. but then the next day i had to break up with him because i know its not working out for us anymore.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hello chiyosan, So you have it postpone the next day (hehehe) Not a bad idea anyway. I will not dare to say "goodbye" once he showed me gifts and a romantic dinner I won't dare to miss either (hahaha- just kidding) I haven't experienced doing so :p have a good day and thanks for the share
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Feb 12
Hi Jai! If break up is to take place there is no point postponing it just because Valentine's Day fall in between. To my mind if an important decision is to be taken, it should be taken at the earliest, procrastination on one ground or the other does not serve any purpose. Happy Valentine's Day!!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hello dpk, Good to see you again Too bad I was never given a chance to break-up with someone today Maybe I will try it next year and I will let you know how it goes (hahaha) I agree, there is no point of keeping any relationship when it's not working. Have a good day and Happy Valentines day
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
14 Feb 12
My wonderful sis jai, a very happy Valentines day to you.You are the only Valentine in my life now and will be forever as long as i live. In my day there was no valentines day for wich i am thankful to God.No, i haven`t broken anyones heart nor nor was my heart ever broken.Our country does not celebrate this day,its only a media creation as far as i am concerned.For me every day is Valentines day, so my dear, i send my love to you everyday.Lots of hugs and smooches.Cheers.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
dear veejay Great to see you today my dear anna (more hugs) How I wish we're having a romantic dinner tonight. And wish tonight won't end Thanks for the greetings and love Cheers and lots of hugs too :)
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
First of all, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO YOU MY DEAR JAI! I honestly don't know the answer to your question,haha! I said that because I haven't experienced breaking up on my bf on such occasions. But one thing is for sure,I will not date him on that day..I think that will make him think why,haha! But if I am to break up with him on that day, I will make it gently,explain clearly why and that we are better off as friends.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hello cutie HAPPY VALENTINES DAY and having romantic dinner or any other special idea to celebrate this occasion I haven't tried this before and I am thinking to do it now (lols- hahahaha) Have a good day and miss you dear, hope to see you again-soon
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
14 Feb 12
hi jai, Since it’s the day of love, why u want to say no to love? I would not let a break up happen at all...at least not on this day. If it were to be broken, then it should have been well before the Valentine’s Day and do whatever I want on this day without thinking much. Yes, I am an expert in breaking hearts ..…. the 'Birthday Balloons'. Have a nice time.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hello viju, I never break any heart today, maybe I will tomorrow (hahaha- just kidding) You are an experts in breaking hearts....heart shaped balloons.. Okay, I missed that heart-shaped balloon today Have a good time too
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
why stick in a relationship when you know that you're not happy anymore, right?? it's just like your dancing sweet music but the one being played is tango.. :) HAPPY VALENTINES DAYS. my hubby and i together with our kid will have a dinner date... :)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
14 Feb 12
hello nyang, You are right, valentines is just like any other ordinary days, not enough reason to postpone any break-up :) I am sure you're having a great time with your hubby and kids right now. I just came home from a date with my kids Have a good day